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joesimone
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Ok. So I was reading another thread that said cold approach works, but the last post was 3yrs ago. Instead of responding to that, I will create another one. Now the reason why it doesn't work is because I know a bunch of guys who do it and none of them ever have dates. Then I look at men who actually date regularly, and none of them seem to cold approach. Come to think of it, out of all the couples I know, none of them ever met from cold approach. Furthermore, if cold approach actually worked, wouldn't everyone be doing it? Yet we see that cold approach is not regularly practiced by any culture, whether eastern or western. I base my opinion from people I know. 1 guy, William, has done 40k approaches. I've seen him actually approach many, and often times, the conversation looks good. They're smiling, laughing, and conversations can last up to an hour. However, he is claiming that none of them are calling him back. Another guy I know, Tiago, has been going to community college for 9yrs. He has no friends from there, and has never dated anyone. He works at an Amazon warehouse where he also has no friends. The only friends he seems to have are from self help groups such as autism. He took a bunch of classes on pick up, read some self help books, and decided to would become a pick up artist. He went out to train stations, malls, parks, and street, and did cold approaches for 2 months, and got no dates. Nowadays, he doesn't even say hi to females. I suspect it's because of the rejection. Though he says he needs to "work on himself". Til this day, he swears that pick up works, yet he has nothing to show for it, nor do any of the other guys I know who do cold approach