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I probably shouldn't give introverted incels this much power but here we go
You want to approach girls, so what do you do?
You go out and approach girls, right?
NO.
In less than a second she will make the decision to be open or closed about it (looks) and in less than 10 (for sure) accept or reject you (looks + social skills)
Your looks and your socials skills will be judged when you are under stress and not in peak performance, plus many girls have prejudice about cold approaching.
You need to put yourself in better light, let girls and people judge you when you are looking good and most importantly acting good.
How?
1. Approach GUYS and become their friends.
2. Be extroverted among their group of friends.
3. Be funny and have fun, TAKE initiatives to do stuff.
4. Girls love the new not friendzoned guy, keep SOME conversation with them with subliminals and some hints, you must appeal to the group of female friends, they need to approve of you, then you go for the one you have interest in if she is sending hints as well.
5. DON'T focus too much on the girls, most your energy will be spent being FUNNY and LEADING the conversation with the guys, girls will watch you playing a dominant and extroverted role among the group.
6. Get the number or social media of at least one guy, and maybe the girl you like, make sure you can meet again as group at least.
7. If it's not at night you likely won't make out with the girl that day, better to build up for the next time and texting.
8. If you want to get her that night you have to have established the previous points and have MORE time talked with her than the other girls if any, keep matching your previous vibes, isolate more attention to her and when the place and moment is fitting get a few seconds of silence, look at eyes and lips, approach slowly and steady, check if she is matching and if so kiss her.
9. The "moment" of the "place and moment" part is often between the middle to near the end of the night or setting you are in, you all had the time to meet and the FOMO hits harder.
Some other tips:
Have a couple of stories about things you have done "pre-rendered" you can tell them over and over to different people
Monolog your story that frames you good
Make others feel good about themselves, very important
Don't be afraid to touch people/girls, don't over do it
Have a fuck it mentality and don't go in thinking about getting girls, think about having the best time of your life vibe
If anything:
Approach guys --> they ignore you or tell you to fuck off, who cares lol
Approach girls --> they ignore you or tell you to fuck off, you cry about it all over the interweb and your pillow
If guys accept you --> you build up social skills, get to meet more people, so more status, you have a good time and you love it
Girls accept you --> you get one night, maybe a relationship only to break up shortly after, you feel like shit for months
You want to approach girls, so what do you do?
You go out and approach girls, right?
NO.
In less than a second she will make the decision to be open or closed about it (looks) and in less than 10 (for sure) accept or reject you (looks + social skills)
Your looks and your socials skills will be judged when you are under stress and not in peak performance, plus many girls have prejudice about cold approaching.
You need to put yourself in better light, let girls and people judge you when you are looking good and most importantly acting good.
How?
1. Approach GUYS and become their friends.
2. Be extroverted among their group of friends.
3. Be funny and have fun, TAKE initiatives to do stuff.
4. Girls love the new not friendzoned guy, keep SOME conversation with them with subliminals and some hints, you must appeal to the group of female friends, they need to approve of you, then you go for the one you have interest in if she is sending hints as well.
5. DON'T focus too much on the girls, most your energy will be spent being FUNNY and LEADING the conversation with the guys, girls will watch you playing a dominant and extroverted role among the group.
6. Get the number or social media of at least one guy, and maybe the girl you like, make sure you can meet again as group at least.
7. If it's not at night you likely won't make out with the girl that day, better to build up for the next time and texting.
8. If you want to get her that night you have to have established the previous points and have MORE time talked with her than the other girls if any, keep matching your previous vibes, isolate more attention to her and when the place and moment is fitting get a few seconds of silence, look at eyes and lips, approach slowly and steady, check if she is matching and if so kiss her.
9. The "moment" of the "place and moment" part is often between the middle to near the end of the night or setting you are in, you all had the time to meet and the FOMO hits harder.
Some other tips:
Have a couple of stories about things you have done "pre-rendered" you can tell them over and over to different people
Monolog your story that frames you good
Make others feel good about themselves, very important
Don't be afraid to touch people/girls, don't over do it
Have a fuck it mentality and don't go in thinking about getting girls, think about having the best time of your life vibe
If anything:
Approach guys --> they ignore you or tell you to fuck off, who cares lol
Approach girls --> they ignore you or tell you to fuck off, you cry about it all over the interweb and your pillow
If guys accept you --> you build up social skills, get to meet more people, so more status, you have a good time and you love it
Girls accept you --> you get one night, maybe a relationship only to break up shortly after, you feel like shit for months
