College is actually the HARDEST time of your life to make friends and date girls

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People in real life judge you on how much they like YOU, your personality for friends, your appearance + personality for women

Meanwhile in college .. it’s not just those things

More important than anything is how being friends with you or dating you will impact their social status and popularity, and anyone lower than really popular is seen as a failo to be around

People will literally refuse to associate with anything who is not part of their immediate social circle after the first few weeks of college

I was literally getting ZERO dates and matches when I was on a college campus, meanwhile outside, it’s much much easier to meet and date girls and make friends
 
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never went to college.
 
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BRUTAL. Most of us will DIE in college.
 
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im still 6 years old, sop i still have few years unitl then
 
I've been in college for 5 and a half years and neevr amde a friend, I got random girls to talk to me, I got random boys to talk to me, I approached people but it's like I could never connect with anyone and get friend status, everything was so cold and distant, in high school and elementary school I didn't even have to try in order to make friends.
 
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Yeah, you basically have the first 2 weeks to get laid in college or you're not getting laid at all. Brutal shit, the mog is too brutal
 
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College is just high school except your parents aren't there and you have slightly more responsibility. If you didn't have success in high school, and haven't undergone any dramatic changes in between, your experience will be nearly exactly the same.

Do not go to college for the social aspect, go and put in work because it will help ensure you aren't stuck as a wage slave for your entire life.
 
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Yo I think I need to join a club or something. There’s barely any Muslim akhs in my class. And I was way too passive up till only talking to people who came to me first. I also need a way to talk to people with a shared ethnic group from my uni. Clubs are effort though
 
Anyone paying to suffer in college at this point is a full blown moron
 
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I say the opposite
 
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College is absolutely necessary if you want a good job
Nah it’s called working at your successful parents company you poor fuck
 
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college is fun, the parties, bars, people you meet, late night dumb shit, also the things you learn that stick with you, try to make the most of it and enjoy it.
 
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People in real life judge you on how much they like YOU, your personality for friends, your appearance + personality for women

Meanwhile in college .. it’s not just those things

More important than anything is how being friends with you or dating you will impact their social status and popularity, and anyone lower than really popular is seen as a failo to be around

People will literally refuse to associate with anything who is not part of their immediate social circle after the first few weeks of college

I was literally getting ZERO dates and matches when I was on a college campus, meanwhile outside, it’s much much easier to meet and date girls and make friends
To a degree your right, folks care less about that popularity stuff and status after college aka ages 24+
But when folks are young ages 18-24 they care alot about social status. Thats because in colleges your reputation follows you more closely
People observe who you hang out with or if you have no friends at all.

In the real world outside of that highschool/college environment people have less information about ya. So if a women finds you attractive it might be easier to fuck her. Andy negative traits or bad positions in life she can find out later, and if the sex was good is your life situations isnt to bad she will put you into the fuck buddy zone.
 
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High IQ way easier to get pussy after university
 
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It fucking depends ! LOL op you lack half a brain.
 
To a degree your right, folks care less about that popularity stuff and status after college aka ages 24+
But when folks are young ages 18-24 they care alot about social status. Thats because in colleges your reputation follows you more closely
People observe who you hang out with or if you have no friends at all.

In the real world outside of that highschool/college environment people have less information about ya. So if a women finds you attractive it might be easier to fuck her. Andy negative traits or bad positions in life she can find out later, and if the sex was good is your life situations isnt to bad she will put you into the fuck buddy zone.
Shiiiet people are going to peep that I have next to no friends
 
Making friends after HS is impossible
 
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making friends in univseristy is honestly giga easy compared to any other time or life and if you cant even do that youre probably either truecel or autist.

Getting laid at uni is different story- altho i did manage to have a couple of drunken one night stands with beckies as a MTN but thats not exactly super fullfilling
 
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i had many male friends but chicks didn't want to date a guy who has oneitis disorder over a girl. if only she would never show up in that university, i would be slaying all over the place.
 
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College is the hardest shit to graduate if you're studying something worthwhile (STEM). Chances are high you'll never pass

ftfy
 
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making friends in univseristy is honestly giga easy compared to any other time or life and if you cant even do that youre probably either truecel or autist.

Getting laid at uni is different story- altho i did manage to have a couple of drunken one night stands with beckies as a MTN but thats not exactly super fullfilling
Not so black and white. It honestly depends on what uni you go to and your background. As a black guy who went to a pretty much all white uni it was impossible to make friends but I reckon if I went to a more diverse uni I would have been able to make at least a couple of friends
 
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making friends in univseristy is honestly giga easy compared to any other time or life and if you cant even do that youre probably either truecel or autist.

Getting laid at uni is different story- altho i did manage to have a couple of drunken one night stands with beckies as a MTN but thats not exactly super fullfilling

People judge you based on who you already hang out with

If you’re not friends with the right people, it’ll be impossible to befriend some people

College is heavily clique based

People will legit refuse to befriend new people who aren’t mutual friends after the first few weeks
 
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College is the hardest shit to graduate if you're studying something worthwhile (STEM). Chances are high you'll never pass

ftfy
Stem is very hard even more so now, colleges got smart and started to make the courses harder, and increase the requirements to graduate. Their thinking was folks wanted to be engineers. So they started to give associate or 2 year degree studying students 4 year students type of courses to pass. When in 2 year degrees are suppose to have technichian courses, not engineer So instead of trig and algerbra being the max math for 2 year degree students its not calculus 2. Colleges did this to make more money.
 
Yeah, you basically have the first 2 weeks to get laid in college or you're not getting laid at all. Brutal shit, the mog is too brutal
That is not true at all
 
I got more female attention in two weeks of temp warehouse work then a year of college jfl.
 
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Greycel fearmongering
 
Making friends is tougher for sure but getting laid at college is beyond easy.

Unless you live in an east coast liberal city like Boston/NYC you aren’t going to have the same opportunities to fuck non-hoodrats anywhere else in the country.
 
I got more female attention in two weeks of temp warehouse work then a year of college jfl.

it's because in college, it's ultra competitive and girls are hyper status conscious

you truly need to be in the top 5% to succeed in that environment
 
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Making friends is tougher for sure but getting laid at college is beyond easy.

Unless you live in an east coast liberal city like Boston/NYC you aren’t going to have the same opportunities to fuck non-hoodrats anywhere else in the country.

you know what happened everytime I approached a female at a party in college? they walked away as i was just beginning to say my first sentence
 
you know what happened everytime I approached a female at a party in college? they walked away as i was just beginning to say my first sentence

y the fuck would u have that repugnant homunculus as your avi?
 
Water, been knowing this
 
you know what happened everytime I approached a female at a party in college? they walked away as i was just beginning to say my first sentence
that’s rough.

College tinder is solid too if you get the confirmation for tinderU
 
The retirement home is way easier.
 

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