College so far

[J99]

Need advice from the socialmaxxed people here. I’ve been going to college and socialising as much as possible , the problem is that I’m always the one iniating conversation. And I’m not a social reject or anything. As far as I know im well liked but it feels like no one wants to actually be friends rather than someone you’re cool with. I don’t know anyone from this college either

@Clavicular

 

[cooldude1231]

The world is fake

 

[ey88]

Do you live there?

 

[J99]

Useless fucking response

 

[J99]

Do you live there?

I don’t

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

You probably look autistic

 

[J99]

Im not ugly either I’m mtb if anyone is gonna sum bullshit

 

[ey88]

I don’t

Yeah I have the same problem, I feel like everyone already has friends that live in the dorms, and everyone that commutes doesn’t need any new friends, it’s hard

 

[J99]

I’m one of the loudest people I’m not the quiet kid or anything

 

[J99]

Yeah I have the same problem, I feel like everyone already has friends that live in the dorms, and everyone that commutes doesn’t need any new friends, it’s hard

It’s not hard to talk to people but it feels like no one wants to be a genuine friend rather than an aquintance

 

[ey88]

It’s not hard to talk to people but it feels like no one wants to be a genuine friend rather than an aquintance

Yeah same

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

Im not ugly either I’m mtb if anyone is gonna sum bullshit

Ur a beckie? Ban this nigga @Gengar

 

[J99]

@sub5pslathlete help me out dawg

 

[J99]

Ur a beckie? Ban this nigga @Gengar

Mtn whatever fag language you speak

 

[J99]

People gonna tell me to join clubs etc I’ve done everything I know how to socialise that’s not the problem

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

Mtn whatever fag language you speak

@Gengar this is definitely a bannable offense, normie detected, fuck this cuck

 

[J99]

Please only socialmaxxed people in college I want real advice man this shit been bothering me

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

People gonna tell me to join clubs etc I’ve done everything I know how to socialise that’s not the problem

You’re simply ugly u dumb fuck

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

Please only socialmaxxed people in college I want real advice man this shit been bothering me

“social” is just another word for gl im in the same boat and ppl only want to be friends with me

 

[J99]

@Gengar this is definitely a bannable offense, normie detected, fuck this cuck

You’re simply ugly u dumb fuck

Bro deadass I’m fr

 

[RealNinja]

I had the same experience. You just don’t bond/vibe with some people like that. It’s easier when there’s an activity/interest that both of you have in common. Men bond over shared experiences… playing sports, working out together, playing games, etcetera.

If you don’t have any hobbies, start with finding some. Then do those hobbies consistently. If you join a basketball club and play basketball with those dudes every time, eventually you will make connections on a deeper level just through the shared experience of playing games and competing.

It doesn’t have to be an organized “club.” Just find dudes who are into the same shit and invite them to do said activity with you. Eventually you will bond with someone and be able to hang out outside of that activity

As for interacting on a personal level, keep things chill and Lighthearted. Dont be negative. Ask them questions about themselves, their lives, their interests and remember their answers. Divulge as much personal info as they divulge. Greet people by name when you see them.

 

[Suns9999]

You’re simply ugly u dumb fuck

own that fraud

 

[watah]

It subhuman then

 

[StarvedEpi]

@tombradylover this oldcel might have advice about making friends

 

[J99]

I had the same experience. You just don’t bond/vibe with some people like that. It’s easier when there’s an activity/interest that both of you have in common. Men bond over shared experiences… playing sports, working out together, playing games, etcetera.

If you don’t have any hobbies, start with finding some. Then do those hobbies consistently. If you join a basketball club and play basketball with those dudes every time, eventually you will make connections on a deeper level just through the shared experience of playing games and competing. Ask them questions about themselves, their lives, their interests and remember their answers. Divulge as much personal info as they divulge. Greet people by name when you see them.

Preciate the genuine response bro

 

[tombradylover]

@tombradylover this oldcel might have advice about making friends

Fuck u youngin treat elders with respects

 

[J99]

I’m a compsci major so most people who I interact with are nerds

 

[Copeful]

I’m one of the loudest people I’m not the quiet kid or anything

then your probably the autistic kid who doesnt know when to shut up and nobody wants to talk to
if nobody initiates with you its over

 

[J99]

I had the same experience. You just don’t bond/vibe with some people like that. It’s easier when there’s an activity/interest that both of you have in common. Men bond over shared experiences… playing sports, working out together, playing games, etcetera.

If you don’t have any hobbies, start with finding some. Then do those hobbies consistently. If you join a basketball club and play basketball with those dudes every time, eventually you will make connections on a deeper level just through the shared experience of playing games and competing.

It doesn’t have to be an organized “club.” Just find dudes who are into the same shit and invite them to do said activity with you. Eventually you will bond with someone and be able to hang out outside of that activity

As for interacting on a personal level, keep things chill and Lighthearted. Dont be negative. Ask them questions about themselves, their lives, their interests and remember their answers. Divulge as much personal info as they divulge. Greet people by name when you see them.

How did you find your people?

 

[J99]

then your probably the autistic kid who doesnt know when to shut up and nobody wants to talk to
if nobody initiates with you its over

Im not autistic

 

[J99]

Fuck u youngin treat elders with respects

Habibi what should I do

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

own that fraud

What

 

[RealNinja]

How did you find your people?

In the first few weeks of college I was miserable and had no friends. I ended up getting one friend group from the gym, and another from my school’s climbing wall. Just found some random people I fucked with and got their social media, hung out some more and met more people through them.

You have to find some hobbies or interests and get out of your room that’s the most important thing. Even if you don’t end up making deep connections at every activity you do, just show up consistently and you will at least be able to see friendly faces that you can chat with.

And keep your head up bro I know it’s lonely as shit. Don’t believe the retard lie about “YOU HAVE TO MAKE FRIENDS IN THE FIRST WEEK OF COLLEGE OR ITS OVER FOR YOU.” Making friends can happen at completely random times/places. You can make friends at any point in the year

 

[tombradylover]

Habibi what should I do

easiest shit that worked for me was joining social clubs and playing sports like basketball and just striking up convos with randoms. Do hobbies ur good at the better u are at hobbies the more ppl will wanna interact with u while doing them together

 

[J99]

In the first few weeks of college I was miserable and had no friends. I ended up getting one friend group from the gym, and another from my school’s climbing wall. Just found some random people I fucked with and got their social media, hung out some more and met more people through them.

You have to find some hobbies or interests and get out of your room that’s the most important thing. Even if you don’t end up making deep connections at every activity you do, just show up consistently and you will at least be able to see friendly faces that you can chat with.

And keep your head up bro I know it’s lonely as shit. Don’t believe the retard lie about “YOU HAVE TO MAKE FRIENDS IN THE FIRST WEEK OF COLLEGE OR ITS OVER FOR YOU.” Making friends can happen at completely random times/places. You can make friends at any point in the year

Thank you so much bro this shit been eating me alive.

 

[Suns9999]

all this just bro advice man shut that shit up. you need to lock yourself in your room and lay down and rot 25/8 and inject heroin into your veins until your heart collapses

 

[sub5pslathlete]

Need advice from the socialmaxxed people here. I’ve been going to college and socialising as much as possible , the problem is that I’m always the one iniating conversation. And I’m not a social reject or anything. As far as I know im well liked but it feels like no one wants to actually be friends rather than someone you’re cool with. I don’t know anyone from this college either

@Clavicular

1. Try and join a sports team
2. Sit next to someone in ur class who u know is popular or has a lot of outreach and just talk to them, preferably dude
I remember I sat next to this curry dude and just said yo what’s ur name I introduced myself we got each others snaps and I asked him about the college I said how is it is it good here many parties etc then I asked if there were any group chats etc so I asked to be added then u go from there, then u meet people through the people you’ve met in class or college

 

[ferbite666]

easiest shit that worked for me was joining social clubs and playing sports like basketball and just striking up convos with randoms. Do hobbies ur good at the better u are at hobbies the more ppl will wanna interact with u while doing them together

I used to play bball but im ass now. Is it worth getting back into it and tryna get better just for the sake of becoming more NT and socialcirclemaxxing? My other hobbies aren't very NT and Im not in college.

 

[tombradylover]

I used to play bball but im ass now. Is it worth getting back into it and tryna get better just for the sake of becoming more NT and socialcirclemaxxing? My other hobbies aren't very NT and Im not in college.

yes its totally worth it do it bro. bball is giga NT

 

[xantrooper]

I’m a compsci major so most people who I interact with are nerds

already over for you but dw u got a nice future of betabuxxing ahead