Coming to terms with the fact that my oneitis is a hypergamous foid

[Toggle9877]

When ever me and my oneitis are together she always says "wow so handsome" "let's go look for handsome men" even tho we have a thing going on. You know it hurts, everyday she's disrespecting me and not giving a single fuck about my feelings. My I'm Afraid of letting go, she's the only foid to love and hurt me this much. I don't even know what to do. If I bring it up I'm always told that I'm jealous when all I want is to be respected and in the end I'm always the one who apologizes. I do really know what to do at this point man. I say and do things and really put effort into giving her what she wants but when she talks about how handsome other men in front of my face I get hurt but I've learned not to bring it up because she'll threatened to leave so I just stay quiet. Though I do hope that if this goes on I'll have the courage to do what needs to be done in order to protect myself.

 

[quan1]

js leave her bro, you’ll find other foids that arent that much more hypergamous

 

[Toggle9877]

js leave her bro, you’ll find other foids that arent that much more hypergamous

It's not easy for me Bhai, she's the first foid to show me affection and I've really put actual effort in making her happy leaving her would waste all my efforts

 

[quan1]

It's not easy for me Bhai, she's the first foid to show me affection and I've really put actual effort in making her happy leaving her would waste all my efforts

staying is wasting ur time, i hope u get over her soon bhai

 

[Notorious_1676]

It's not easy for me Bhai, she's the first foid to show me affection and I've really put actual effort in making her happy leaving her would waste all my efforts

You're going to leave her either way or she's going to leave you for those men she talks about so you may aswell leave yourself

 

[zslqam]

When ever me and my oneitis are together she always says "wow so handsome" "let's go look for handsome men" even tho we have a thing going on. You know it hurts, everyday she's disrespecting me and not giving a single fuck about my feelings. My I'm Afraid of letting go, she's the only foid to love and hurt me this much. I don't even know what to do. If I bring it up I'm always told that I'm jealous when all I want is to be respected and in the end I'm always the one who apologizes. I do really know what to do at this point man. I say and do things and really put effort into giving her what she wants but when she talks about how handsome other men in front of my face I get hurt but I've learned not to bring it up because she'll threatened to leave so I just stay quiet. Though I do hope that if this goes on I'll have the courage to do what needs to be done in order to protect myself.

If she disrespects you like this js leave, shes prob gonna call you «inescure» like all other foids. This is equivalent to the girls who call their boyfriends insecure for not letting them dress up half naked for halloween

 

[4eyes]

It's not easy for me Bhai, she's the first foid to show me affection and I've really put actual effort in making her happy leaving her would waste all my efforts

sunken cost fallacy. the more you continue to put in will just result in more wasted.

 

[Toggle9877]

If she disrespects you like this js leave, shes prob gonna call you «inescure» like all other foids. This is equivalent to the girls who call their boyfriends insecure for not letting them dress up half naked for halloween

You're 100% correct tbh, today I just bought her children ceasar salad which is her favorite and didn't even get a thanks

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

When ever me and my oneitis are together she always says "wow so handsome" "let's go look for handsome men" even tho we have a thing going on. You know it hurts, everyday she's disrespecting me and not giving a single fuck about my feelings. My I'm Afraid of letting go, she's the only foid to love and hurt me this much. I don't even know what to do. If I bring it up I'm always told that I'm jealous when all I want is to be respected and in the end I'm always the one who apologizes. I do really know what to do at this point man. I say and do things and really put effort into giving her what she wants but when she talks about how handsome other men in front of my face I get hurt but I've learned not to bring it up because she'll threatened to leave so I just stay quiet. Though I do hope that if this goes on I'll have the courage to do what needs to be done in order to protect myself.

Leave her. I am actually not one of these people who think men and women cant be friends, but if a foid knows you have feelings for her and talks like that she sees you as a tampon. COULD be a shit test, but its usually in the context of her subtly bringing up a guy and seeing if you get jealous or not. Its usually not a continuous thing