iblamementalhealth
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Here is the proof that I actually do thing and improve instead of rotting like most of you here.
Backstory, and more info about how it went. (I recored the convo secretly, w/ my phone hidden, it is not made up, I won't do it again though, it's against people's privacy.)
I've been wanting to get more social lately. I decided to give genuine compliments about things I really liked about random people.
I've been wanting to talk this one cute girl, but for 2 weeks I couldn't do it : I saw her, I was suddenly stressing heavily, and was grounded like an anvil, I couldn't move. I had no logical reason to stress, yet I was stressing.
I was so frustrated by my incapability to go up to her, as I they were countless occasions where she was alone and I was nearby.
This morning I (tried and) was not thinking about it much. She arrived, I was stressing, but not as much as other times. I avoided thinking about what I was going to do, to say.
There she was, alone, with her beautiful clothes again. She was looking at the planning of the exam. I waited, nearby, for her to turn a bit, while pretending I was searching something in my bad.
I went up to her, finally. I complimented her, she did a sort of reverence (makes me smiles). The conversation when pretty well, I should have look more in her eyes, I should have more smiled, I should have been more relaxed when talking, I should have kept on going the conversation (it was pretty short), I should have articulated better, and more, but what can I say ? At least I did it, for a first time, it is not as awkward as I thought.
Overall she was super receptive, and I was able to talk about other things from there, even if I believe I ended the conversation pretty abruptly (stress).
Now your turn !
Good luck !
Iblamementalhealth
Backstory, and more info about how it went. (I recored the convo secretly, w/ my phone hidden, it is not made up, I won't do it again though, it's against people's privacy.)
I've been wanting to get more social lately. I decided to give genuine compliments about things I really liked about random people.
I've been wanting to talk this one cute girl, but for 2 weeks I couldn't do it : I saw her, I was suddenly stressing heavily, and was grounded like an anvil, I couldn't move. I had no logical reason to stress, yet I was stressing.
I was so frustrated by my incapability to go up to her, as I they were countless occasions where she was alone and I was nearby.
This morning I (tried and) was not thinking about it much. She arrived, I was stressing, but not as much as other times. I avoided thinking about what I was going to do, to say.
There she was, alone, with her beautiful clothes again. She was looking at the planning of the exam. I waited, nearby, for her to turn a bit, while pretending I was searching something in my bad.
I went up to her, finally. I complimented her, she did a sort of reverence (makes me smiles). The conversation when pretty well, I should have look more in her eyes, I should have more smiled, I should have been more relaxed when talking, I should have kept on going the conversation (it was pretty short), I should have articulated better, and more, but what can I say ? At least I did it, for a first time, it is not as awkward as I thought.
Overall she was super receptive, and I was able to talk about other things from there, even if I believe I ended the conversation pretty abruptly (stress).
Now your turn !
Good luck !
Iblamementalhealth