Complimented a girl (AUDIO PROOF GTFIH) went super well.

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Here is the proof that I actually do thing and improve instead of rotting like most of you here.



Backstory, and more info about how it went. (I recored the convo secretly, w/ my phone hidden, it is not made up, I won't do it again though, it's against people's privacy.)

I've been wanting to get more social lately. I decided to give genuine compliments about things I really liked about random people.
I've been wanting to talk this one cute girl, but
for 2 weeks I couldn't do it : I saw her, I was suddenly stressing heavily, and was grounded like an anvil, I couldn't move. I had no logical reason to stress, yet I was stressing.
I was so
frustrated by my incapability to go up to her, as I they were countless occasions where she was alone and I was nearby.

This morning I (tried and) was not thinking about it much. She arrived, I was stressing, but not as much as other times.
I avoided thinking about what I was going to do, to say.
There she was, alone, with her beautiful clothes again. She was looking at the planning of the exam. I waited, nearby, for her to turn a bit, while pretending I was searching something in my bad.

I went up to her, finally. I complimented her, she did a sort of reverence (makes me smiles). The conversation when pretty well, I should have look more in her eyes, I should have more smiled, I should have been more relaxed when talking, I should have kept on going the conversation (it was pretty short), I should have articulated better, and more, but what can I say ? At least I did it, for a first time,
it is not as awkward as I thought.

Overall she was
super receptive, and I was able to talk about other things from there, even if I believe I ended the conversation pretty abruptly (stress).

Now your turn !

Good luck !
Iblamementalhealth
 
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wow dnr
 
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Sums up perfectly blackpilled rotters like you : seeing progress and advice from others, but refusing to do an effort on yourself, and instead rejecting the fault of your loneliness on others.... Victim mentality.
 
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Sums up perfectly blackpilled rotters like you : seeing progress and advice from others, but refusing to do an effort on yourself, and instead rejecting the fault of your loneliness on others....
your creepy and she obviously doesn't like you freak:p
 
Honestly… good for you man

Good job man
 
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Here is the proof that I actually do thing and improve instead of rotting like most of you here.



Backstory, and more info about how it went. (I recored the convo secretly, w/ my phone hidden, it is not made up, I won't do it again though, it's against people's privacy.)

I've been wanting to get more social lately. I decided to give genuine compliments about things I really liked about random people.
I've been wanting to talk this one cute girl, but
for 2 weeks I couldn't do it : I saw her, I was suddenly stressing heavily, and was grounded like an anvil, I couldn't move. I had no logical reason to stress, yet I was stressing.
I was so
frustrated by my incapability to go up to her, as I they were countless occasions where she was alone and I was nearby.

This morning I (tried and) was not thinking about it much. She arrived, I was stressing, but not as much as other times.
I avoided thinking about what I was going to do, to say.
There she was, alone, with her beautiful clothes again. She was looking at the planning of the exam. I waited, nearby, for her to turn a bit, while pretending I was searching something in my bad.

I went up to her, finally. I complimented her, she did a sort of reverence (makes me smiles). The conversation when pretty well, I should have look more in her eyes, I should have more smiled, I should have been more relaxed when talking, I should have kept on going the conversation (it was pretty short), I should have articulated better, and more, but what can I say ? At least I did it, for a first time,
it is not as awkward as I thought.

Overall she was
super receptive, and I was able to talk about other things from there, even if I believe I ended the conversation pretty abruptly (stress).

Now your turn !

Good luck !
Iblamementalhealth

mirin, gj don’t listen to rotters here
 
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Nice
 
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Here is the proof that I actually do thing and improve instead of rotting like most of you here.



Backstory, and more info about how it went. (I recored the convo secretly, w/ my phone hidden, it is not made up, I won't do it again though, it's against people's privacy.)

I've been wanting to get more social lately. I decided to give genuine compliments about things I really liked about random people.
I've been wanting to talk this one cute girl, but
for 2 weeks I couldn't do it : I saw her, I was suddenly stressing heavily, and was grounded like an anvil, I couldn't move. I had no logical reason to stress, yet I was stressing.
I was so
frustrated by my incapability to go up to her, as I they were countless occasions where she was alone and I was nearby.

This morning I (tried and) was not thinking about it much. She arrived, I was stressing, but not as much as other times.
I avoided thinking about what I was going to do, to say.
There she was, alone, with her beautiful clothes again. She was looking at the planning of the exam. I waited, nearby, for her to turn a bit, while pretending I was searching something in my bad.

I went up to her, finally. I complimented her, she did a sort of reverence (makes me smiles). The conversation when pretty well, I should have look more in her eyes, I should have more smiled, I should have been more relaxed when talking, I should have kept on going the conversation (it was pretty short), I should have articulated better, and more, but what can I say ? At least I did it, for a first time,
it is not as awkward as I thought.

Overall she was
super receptive, and I was able to talk about other things from there, even if I believe I ended the conversation pretty abruptly (stress).

Now your turn !

Good luck !
Iblamementalhealth

Bro irl 99% of people are kind and will treat you well
 
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Here is the proof that I actually do thing and improve instead of rotting like most of you here.



Backstory, and more info about how it went. (I recored the convo secretly, w/ my phone hidden, it is not made up, I won't do it again though, it's against people's privacy.)

I've been wanting to get more social lately. I decided to give genuine compliments about things I really liked about random people.
I've been wanting to talk this one cute girl, but
for 2 weeks I couldn't do it : I saw her, I was suddenly stressing heavily, and was grounded like an anvil, I couldn't move. I had no logical reason to stress, yet I was stressing.
I was so
frustrated by my incapability to go up to her, as I they were countless occasions where she was alone and I was nearby.

This morning I (tried and) was not thinking about it much. She arrived, I was stressing, but not as much as other times.
I avoided thinking about what I was going to do, to say.
There she was, alone, with her beautiful clothes again. She was looking at the planning of the exam. I waited, nearby, for her to turn a bit, while pretending I was searching something in my bad.

I went up to her, finally. I complimented her, she did a sort of reverence (makes me smiles). The conversation when pretty well, I should have look more in her eyes, I should have more smiled, I should have been more relaxed when talking, I should have kept on going the conversation (it was pretty short), I should have articulated better, and more, but what can I say ? At least I did it, for a first time,
it is not as awkward as I thought.

Overall she was
super receptive, and I was able to talk about other things from there, even if I believe I ended the conversation pretty abruptly (stress).

Now your turn !

Good luck !
Iblamementalhealth

i do it everytime w girls and idc and its good for me lol they say i look good tho. -_-
 
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Your probably good looking my guy
 
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Your probably good looking my guy
maybe maybe not. I think of myself as striking, with polarizing features (large slight nct eyes, long lashes, small but kinda wide nose, thicc brows, and so on.) Globally I consider myself as average but I have a very polarizing face.
 
Sums up perfectly blackpilled rotters like you : seeing progress and advice from others, but refusing to do an effort on yourself, and instead rejecting the fault of your loneliness on others.... Victim mentality.
well done bro, best to talk to women even if you hate it. drag yourself through the pain. it will be worth it.
 
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well done bro, best to talk to women even if you hate it. drag yourself through the pain. it will be worth it.
I'm not hating women, it is quite the opposite, I just want to improve my talking with them and learn to put aside my stress and shyness.
 
I'm not hating women, it is quite the opposite, I just want to improve my talking with them and learn to put aside my stress and shyness.
i meant if you didn't like forcing the small talk, not that you hate women :)
 
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