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I agree that confidence is heavily correlated to looks both perceived and actual confidence.
That's why this is a confident man when searching:
And this is an unconfident one:
Most bad looking men will have shit confidence beacuse they are perceived this way and shut down if acting any other way.
Most GL men will have good confidence because of the easier road in life.
However most users and men in general can reach atleast average in looks if they actually tried.
This is where confidence will have the biggest impact, as the confidence perceived by peers is neutral at start (for the average looking).
This is were users saying confidence is cope are wrong.
When confidence is perceived as neutral from start there is much more wiggle room.
An average looking man can based on behaviour be seen as either confident or non confident.
If you're average looking you will never be perceived as confident until behaviour is a factor to the equation.
Confidence is imo linked to test and a dimorphic trait / this is also why looks = confidence = test / all are correlated.
This isn't linear correlation and thus behaviour impacts perceived confidence for most men.
We're pack animals, we want to be lead and herded by a leader, this leader needs to be confident in his own action to impact others.
You need to be confident to go far in life it applies to everything career, economic decisions, girls, family, friends and all else.
Confidence is attractive to all aspects of life.
Saying it's cope is the coping.
It's like shooting yourself in the foot and complaining running is hard.
I can't teach anyone to be confident but what helped me greatly is just doing.
Stop overthinking, whenever I overthink I say fuck it, count to 3 and do it.
Most times you got shit to lose and a lot to gain.
I started being more social, doing more stuff surrounded by different ages, genders, personality types etc.
This helped me accept my own opinions and character.
Fake it till you make it and stop coping if you're average looking.
Men shall act confident even if they aren't if average or above average looking.
It's not an option but a must, it's a dimorphic trait, just as much as pissing standing.
That's why this is a confident man when searching:
And this is an unconfident one:
Most bad looking men will have shit confidence beacuse they are perceived this way and shut down if acting any other way.
Most GL men will have good confidence because of the easier road in life.
However most users and men in general can reach atleast average in looks if they actually tried.
This is where confidence will have the biggest impact, as the confidence perceived by peers is neutral at start (for the average looking).
This is were users saying confidence is cope are wrong.
When confidence is perceived as neutral from start there is much more wiggle room.
An average looking man can based on behaviour be seen as either confident or non confident.
If you're average looking you will never be perceived as confident until behaviour is a factor to the equation.
Confidence is imo linked to test and a dimorphic trait / this is also why looks = confidence = test / all are correlated.
This isn't linear correlation and thus behaviour impacts perceived confidence for most men.
We're pack animals, we want to be lead and herded by a leader, this leader needs to be confident in his own action to impact others.
You need to be confident to go far in life it applies to everything career, economic decisions, girls, family, friends and all else.
Confidence is attractive to all aspects of life.
Saying it's cope is the coping.
It's like shooting yourself in the foot and complaining running is hard.
I can't teach anyone to be confident but what helped me greatly is just doing.
Stop overthinking, whenever I overthink I say fuck it, count to 3 and do it.
Most times you got shit to lose and a lot to gain.
I started being more social, doing more stuff surrounded by different ages, genders, personality types etc.
This helped me accept my own opinions and character.
Fake it till you make it and stop coping if you're average looking.
Men shall act confident even if they aren't if average or above average looking.
It's not an option but a must, it's a dimorphic trait, just as much as pissing standing.
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