Confidence = meme. Women can sense your "confidence" is fake

[Deleted member 27052]

The thing is, most people don't have BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder): most ugly people know that they are ugly and instinctively act accordingly, and most attractive people know they are attractive and instinctively act accordingly. That means that when an ugly person attempts to "act confident," people -- and especially women who are sensitive to such things -- can sense that this is not real confidence based on being secure in one's qualities, but fake confidence, and will see you as pathetic.

I'm 5'7", NW2, not the best looking face, and pretending to have "confidence" as if I don't know that I'm unattractive just cannot work. People know that you know that you're ugly, they can tell that I'm intelligent enough to be aware of my objectively low attractiveness, and so faking it is totally pointless. They know that I know that I'm unattractive and faking it.

Maybe if I looked like a retard, people could fall for thinking that my confidence is not fake, because a retard can be dumb enough to have real confidence despite being unattractive. But I'm clearly intelligent enough that when I "act confidence," people immediately think something along the lines of "What is he doing? He knows that he is ugly, and he knows that we can see that he is ugly, so he's not fooling anyone with his stupid act."

Confidence based on nothing at all is a total meme. If you have nothing strong going for you in terms of physical attractiveness, if you're objectively unattractive, then don't attempt to compensate with confidence, because the fakeness of it all is obvious to everyone.

 

[Deleted member 23772]

then where do NTmaxxed fat guys get their confidence from. I swear the most confident fuckers ive seen irl were fat subhumans

 

[Deleted member 28270]

If incels act confident normies will put them in place

 

[Deleted member 26448]

BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder) doesn’t exist. It’s cope manufactured by the government to keep ugly people from committing suicide and therefore decreasing people paying tax dollars.

 

[Deleted member 26448]

But besides that yeah I agree

 

[Deleted member 27052]

then where do NTmaxxed fat guys get their confidence from. I swear the most confident fuckers ive seen irl were fat subhumans

I don't have an explanation for that.

In 2023, when I step outside being 5'7", everyone can tell that I "struggle with women" (= an incel), and the fact that I have lots of tattoos and sometimes try to pretend like I'm confident is not fooling anyone. Women can see in your eyes that you're compensating and coping. Just like they are allergic to PUA-practitioners who approach them on the street, they are allergic to the general vibe of "I fail with women but let's pretend I'm not."

If you are an unattractive manlet in 2023, people automatically assume that you're an incel, and you can't fake your way out of it. Normies possess the blackpill now.

 

[Deleted member 26116]

Height = confidence.

Face = personality.

Race = status.

 

[Deleted member 27772]

Confidence = looks and height

 

[incel194012940]

this is why it’s important to decrease your intelligence and self awareness chemically

 

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The thing is, most people don't have BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder): most ugly people know that they are ugly and instinctively act accordingly, and most attractive people know they are attractive and instinctively act accordingly. That means that when an ugly person attempts to "act confident," people -- and especially women who are sensitive to such things -- can sense that this is not real confidence based on being secure in one's qualities, but fake confidence, and will see you as pathetic.

I'm 5'7", NW2, not the best looking face, and pretending to have "confidence" as if I don't know that I'm unattractive just cannot work. People know that you know that you're ugly, they can tell that I'm intelligent enough to be aware of my objectively low attractiveness, and so faking it is totally pointless. They know that I know that I'm unattractive and faking it.

Maybe if I looked like a retard, people could fall for thinking that my confidence is not fake, because a retard can be dumb enough to have real confidence despite being unattractive. But I'm clearly intelligent enough that when I "act confidence," people immediately think something along the lines of "What is he doing? He knows that he is ugly, and he knows that we can see that he is ugly, so he's not fooling anyone with his stupid act."

Confidence based on nothing at all is a total meme. If you have nothing strong going for you in terms of physical attractiveness, if you're objectively unattractive, then don't attempt to compensate with confidence, because the fakeness of it all is obvious to everyone.

That’s why you have to status max if you’re short and ugly not just for sex so that you get basic respect from people. People might cringe at you being outwardly confident now but they wouldn’t if you became a lawyer or doctor. Really as long as you have money you are respected in America, maybe you won’t get sex, but at least people will respect you

 

[Yuno_howitez]

BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder) doesn’t exist. It’s cope manufactured by the government to keep ugly people from committing suicide and therefore decreasing people paying tax dollars.

it can exist cause u might see yourself as worse/some attractive people have it too.

but i agree it's usually just the despair of the hideous person, ugliness is like a bad disease you cannot escape it.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

just be a retard then?

 

[Deleted member 27052]

That’s why you have to status max if you’re short and ugly not just for sex so that you get basic respect from people. People might cringe at you being outwardly confident now but they wouldn’t if you became a lawyer or doctor. Really as long as you have money you are respected in America, maybe you won’t get sex, but at least people will respect you

This is a good point. If I were proud of myself in terms of career success and having high status in society, or at least a high-paying job, then I could walk around having confidence at least in that thing. Unfortunately I'm a failure and a loser, so I have nothing to base my confidence on.