Contradiction regarding “hypocrisy” in choosing marriage partners.

[Deleted member 20890]

Let's say a man sleeps around quite a bit, a few dozen partners, but when he wants to settle down, he refuses unless she is virgin.

Many will call this "hypocrisy", but I call it strategy.

If a man is an alcoholic, and decides to cut off the drinks, but then meets a woman who is a former alcoholic, and decides he doesn't want to date her, is that hypocritical? Most people would say no.

They would agree relapses are likely, and being careful is your choice, and not hypocrisy.

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[Deleted member 72630]

Let's say a man sleeps around quite a bit, a few dozen partners, but when he wants to settle down, he refuses unless she is virgin.

Many will call this "hypocrisy", but I call it strategy.

If a man is an alcoholic, and decides to cut off the drinks, but then meets a woman who is a former alcoholic, and decides he doesn't want to date her, is that hypocritical? Most people would say no.

They would agree relapses are likely, and being careful is your choice, and not hypocrisy.

@IRL_Reject @Sprinkles @Looks234 @cromagnon @Clown Show @6ft4 @MoggerGaston @Reckless Turtle

It isn't hypocrisy. It isn't even the same scenario

Men are still able to pair bond after sleeping around and fucking many women, since biologically they are meant to invest in a woman while she is with his child.

Women on the other hand are meant to be taken from their slaughtered husbands and need to quickly adapt to new males. This is why women cannot really love you, because there is a switch in her head that is just waiting until you get merc'ed by someone bigger and badder. A virgin woman is unsullied however, you are her first experience and she can bond to you more deeply than any woman who has had sex with another man can, she's a clean slate.

Nonvirgin women should either be used as public use prostitutes or ground into meat paste to feed to plants, starving niggers, dogs, etc.