Couldn't get hard with the girl I'm seeing JFL

[Deleted member 60831]

Finally got the girl i've been with for like a week in bed and couldn't get hard lmao.

Makes no sense, before hand we were chilling on the couch together and I was rock hard, and then once we moved to my bed and started making out - I just went flaccid asf.

Kinda feel bad because she's probably all insecure now, but it has nothing to dow with her - it's a me problem

Any advice? I am really fit and have a near perfect diet- only thing i struggle with is sleep which could be a factor

 

[Alt Number 3]

Could be stage fright. Try playing with her boobs or ass.

 

[TechnoBoss]

Are you a virgin? Maybe you were a bit scared or nervous.

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Are you a virgin? Maybe you were a bit scared or nervous.

yea unfortunately, any advice for easing nerves?

 

[TechnoBoss]

yea unfortunately, any advice for easing nerves?

Hmm I'd say take the idea that you have to perform a certain way completely out of the equation. Start with her giving you a BJ while you relax on the bed. Whenever I've been in a situation where I wasn't fully hard I've just opted for getting a blowjob and that usually gets me to where I need to be. Like @Alt Number 3 said play with her ass and tits for a bit too while she's blowing you. You may be nervous your first few times and that's normal. Don't get scared or nervous and just go with the flow and take the idea of you needing to perform a certain way completely out of your head.

Once you're a certain amount hard you can kinda just ball your dick up like some old homework and put it in and hope it wakes up inside like Evanescence

 

[Deleted member 22888]

Could be stage fright. Try playing with her boobs or ass.

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Hmm I'd say take the idea that you have to perform a certain way completely out of the equation. Start with her giving you a BJ while you relax on the bed. Whenever I've been in a situation where I wasn't fully hard I've just opted for getting a blowjob and that usually gets me to where I need to be. Like @Alt Number 3 said play with her ass and tits for a bit too while she's blowing you. You may be nervous your first few times and that's normal. Don't get scared or nervous and just go with the flow and take the idea of you needing to perform a certain way completely out of your head.

Once you're a certain amount hard you can kinda just ball your dick up like some old homework and put it in and hope it wakes up inside like Evanescence

Appreciate this a lot bhai, the ending made me lol

 

[Deleted member 22888]

Hmm I'd say take the idea that you have to perform a certain way completely out of the equation. Start with her giving you a BJ while you relax on the bed. Whenever I've been in a situation where I wasn't fully hard I've just opted for getting a blowjob and that usually gets me to where I need to be. Like @Alt Number 3 said play with her ass and tits for a bit too while she's blowing you. You may be nervous your first few times and that's normal. Don't get scared or nervous and just go with the flow and take the idea of you needing to perform a certain way completely out of your head.

Once you're a certain amount hard you can kinda just ball your dick up like some old homework and put it in and hope it wakes up inside like Evanescence

good advice. if OP is old enough id advise some alcohol to be consumed as well on both ends (if possible). Dont overdo it with the alc tho. Just get buzzed and u both will be fucking like horny dogs. Like tecno said tho try ur hardest not to overthink it and just have fun and go with the flow. U should be proud of urself and happy and enjoy the moment, don't worry about performing a certain way

 

[Deleted member 60831]

good advice. if OP is old enough id advise some alcohol to be consumed as well on both ends (if possible). Dont overdo it with the alc tho. Just get buzzed and u both will be fucking like horny dogs. Like tecno said tho try ur hardest not to overthink it and just have fun and go with the flow. U should be proud of urself and happy and enjoy the moment, don't worry about performing a certain way

Thank you man luckily she was really cool about it

 

[klip11]

Finally got the bbc i've been with for like a week in bed and couldn't get hard lmao.

Makes no sense, before hand we were chilling on the couch together and I was rock hard, and then once we moved to my bed and started making out - I just went flaccid asf.

Kinda feel bad because he's probably all insecure now, but it has nothing to dow with her - it's a me problem

Any advice? I am really fit and have a near perfect diet- only thing i struggle with is sleep which could be a factor

Fixed

 

[TechnoBoss]

good advice. if OP is old enough id advise some alcohol to be consumed as well on both ends (if possible). Dont overdo it with the alc tho. Just get buzzed and u both will be fucking like horny dogs. Like tecno said tho try ur hardest not to overthink it and just have fun and go with the flow. U should be proud of urself and happy and enjoy the moment, don't worry about performing a certain way

Definitely need to be careful with the amount of alcohol though. I'd say just take maybe 2-3 shots each at max. If you drink too much you can end up with whisky dick (aka nothing happening at all down there) and that's not good.

However if it's his first time it might be better to do it naturally because maybe in the future he will feel like he needs the alcohol as a crutch to perform.

 

[JohnDoe]

What is a near-perfect diet? Do tell.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

What is a near-perfect diet? Do tell.

My thoughts as well

Not enough carbs to get hard?

 

[asdvek]

Make her turn around in doggy position and start eating her ass. That'll get you rock hard and I mean like titanium

 

[Deleted member 60831]

What is a near-perfect diet? Do tell.

lots of meat, eggs, milk, fruit, potatoes, rice - everything organic

 

[Deleted member 22888]

Definitely need to be careful with the amount of alcohol though. I'd say just take maybe 2-3 shots each at max. If you drink too much you can end up with whisky dick (aka nothing happening at all down there) and that's not good.

However if it's his first time it might be better to do it naturally because maybe in the future he will feel like he needs the alcohol as a crutch to perform.

True that. Overdoing it on the drinking is a BAD idea. And i didn't even think about the crutch to perform part, nice thinking ahead tbh. Maybe OP should consider alcohol as a last resort instead. Doing it naturally is always the best way to go for sure

 

[asdvek]

My thoughts as well

Not enough carbs to get hard?

Yea if it's carnivore that kills EQ

 

[Deleted member 60831]

My thoughts as well

Not enough carbs to get hard?

I eat hella carbs, like I said I was rock hard right before, so it's most likely just stage fright lol

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Yea if it's carnivore that kills EQ

Been on nofap and only occasionally erections rn, hardly even difficult I give it no thought

Not enough calories to maintain, certainly not enough to procreate.

 

[asdvek]

Been on nofap and only occasionally erections rn, hardly even difficult I give it no thought

Not enough calories to maintain, certainly not enough to procreate.

3-4times/week is ideal less kills erection

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I eat hella carbs, like I said I was rock hard right before, so it's most likely just stage fright lol

Cialis tbh

If it's a comfort thing you'd likely only need one good fuck to sort it out

Take cialis and use 10% less every time

 

[asdvek]

Also im genuinely srs btw, make her take a shower if u want and tell her to clean her asshole. Eat her ass, visual stimuli will get u hard.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Also im genuinely srs btw, make her take a shower if u want and tell her to clean her asshole. Eat her ass, visual stimuli will get u hard.

Yeah jerk her off while looking her in the eyes lad I'd never go straight for p in v anyway gotta get the tension up

 

[DarkTriadBeliever]

Low T, if you can't get hard in any scenario, you're too pussy and need more dark triad in your veins

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Genuinely curious, do y'all think girls think about or get insecure over this as much as I am? She was totally cool with it in the moment, but i'd hate for her to be insecure and think she ain't hot enough. I'd text her but i lowkey never wanna bring this shit up again JFL

 

[asdvek]

Also is it a she problem, whats her rating face ass and tits

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Also is it a she problem, whats her rating face ass and tits

she's aight, face card's really good body's not the best she's small and skinny

 

[Deleted member 89730]

Genuinely curious, do y'all think girls think about or get insecure over this as much as I am? She was totally cool with it in the moment, but i'd hate for her to be insecure and think she ain't hot enough. I'd text her but i lowkey never wanna bring this shit up again JFL

I would inform her about your thought process even if u don't want to if u really want something with her.

 

[Deleted member 60831]

I would inform her about your thought process even if u don't want to if u really want something with her.

fuck, thanks man

 

[asdvek]

Literally eat her ass this is the third time im saying this, clean it and eat her ass

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Literally eat her ass this is the third time im saying this, clean it and eat her ass

I make sure to make a post and tag ur horny ass when I do

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Literally eat her ass this is the third time im saying this, clean it and eat her ass

Bro ur cucking him don't do that

Never get on your knees for woman

 

[asdvek]

Bro ur cucking him don't do that

Never get on your knees for woman

It doesn't matter bro, at the end of the day, we're all human

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

It doesn't matter bro, at the end of the day, we're all human

Nah bros sewing seeds of destruction, you know don't you

 

[Deleted member 90849]

mirin that you got to that point with a girl tbh
i would've suggest viagra or something similar, but you seem to be a healthy person and i dont want you to feel reliant on it

take the advice of others, im sure it'll help

wish ya best of luck man

 

[moreplatesmoreweigh]

yea unfortunately, any advice for easing nerves?

Propraranolol, stimulants, viagra and dapoxetine

 

[Deleted member 91545]

Think of a man next time

 

[Deleted member 60831]

mirin that you got to that point with a girl tbh
i would've suggest viagra or something similar, but you seem to be a healthy person and i dont want you to feel reliant on it

take the advice of others, im sure it'll help

wish ya best of luck man

Appreciate that bhai

 

[Deleted member 89730]

Propranolol, stimulants, viagra and dapoxetine

Propranolol, Prob not viagra

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Think of a man next time

I’ll just think of ur mother bro

 

[Deleted member 91545]

I’ll just think of ur mother bro

Dont disrespect my mum bro thats twisted

 

[Deleted member 60831]

Dont disrespect my mum bro thats twisted

Yea honestly that’s my bad bro. Impulse reply

 

[Deleted member 91545]

Yea honestly that’s my bad bro. Impulse reply

Youre fine lol xD

 

[TechnoBoss]

Genuinely curious, do y'all think girls think about or get insecure over this as much as I am? She was totally cool with it in the moment, but i'd hate for her to be insecure and think she ain't hot enough. I'd text her but i lowkey never wanna bring this shit up again JFL

Yeah women do genuinely get insecure about it. They also get insecure if they can't make you cum. I have a history of taking literal hours to cum to the point where I just give up and call it a day and they get very insecure sometimes even with that. I tell them it's not them it's me because I'll be rock hard but I just don't cum. Over for circumcised-cels with no sensitivity