crush + bestfriend becoming a thing (need fast cope advice before deadass roping)

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yeah so i basically like this girl and this whole entire time i on god thought she liked me back since it would make the most sense out of everybody esle i know
my homeboy funny and shit deadass love this mans to death and i dont mind it, but
one day she kept messaging me making me guess who she liked
after months of on and off liking her, i thought now it's actually happening
Like she's actually about to confess
and all i could know was my hormones were spiking to its peak
just for her to say its someone from my class, but then her saying its a joke and its actually my best friend
and i basically had to sit there listening about how she would unadd anyone for him and do anything for him at all (pain in the ass ngl)
now she thought he rejected her after she confessed to him, and that she "lost" feelings because fposd it
noew, imf notg onna cockblock even tho i genuinmely think im about to rope the shit out of my neck right now
i told him i would message her if we speak of him again and say that he actually liked her back and shit because she took a wrong understanding
allpower in my hands, but i deadass cant do that on my best pal and she likes him not me, even tho im pretty sure she liked me just today because she shared her location when she told me its only for people she likes or her female friends
now, obviously i told her that he liked and still likes her and now i cant do anything but listen to this unlimited yap knowing damn well last week i was about to faint + throw up 10 times in school, home, bathroom, in my own bed
i dont know what to do other than be happy for my own pal but deadass ts is getting to me and i cant even tear up because ive bawled my eyes out the past week over this shit and just today i was getting fine again
didnt even work on my assignments because of this and for a week straight didnt bring my backpack to college other than to just zone out the entire day sitting + not looking around not even saying ajoke to my friends
ik i will probably be over it a little by a weeks time or so but im ngl, just give me any fucking coping method you know or did
i dont even care what it is deadass just say shit as long as i can cope by it
even if it sounds retarded
ty if u genuinely read this far bhai <3
 
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im ngl second thought i wish i didnt press send cus i forget most people here will just say shit
 
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OHIO DNR
nobody here gaf, and I'm saying this out of love
don't expect good advice from here anyway
 
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nobody here gaf, and I'm saying this out of love
don't expect good advice from here anyway
yeah u deadass right bro but it was more of a thing to just say and hope itll help me cope some way what cus i cant even cry ts out (ts lowkey makes me feel gay asf but i deadass dk who else to tell ts to
 
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formatting makes it hard to read
you cant do much to cope really just indulge in a hobby and try distract urself temporarily
 
yeah u deadass right bro but it was more of a thing to just say and hope itll help me cope some way what cus i cant even cry ts out (ts lowkey makes me feel gay asf but i deadass dk who else to tell ts to
did read it now, sorry for you man :feelsrope:
you a real nigga though :feelswah:
 
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formatting makes it hard to read
you cant do much to cope really just indulge in a hobby and try distract urself temporarily
yeah bro fun fact is i go to combat sport n i and my pal were sparring but i deadass couldnt make myself even get jealous over him cus it aint even his fault for her liking him, and anyways i got my ass whooped cus i couldnt find any motivation to even punch
 
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and now im getting dmd from both sides on what to do genuinely couldnt make this shit up bro im about to throw up
 
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just dont think about her gng, u should take my advice and block her.
 
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yeah so i basically like this girl and this whole entire time i on god thought she liked me back since it would make the most sense out of everybody esle i know
my homeboy funny and shit deadass love this mans to death and i dont mind it, but
one day she kept messaging me making me guess who she liked
after months of on and off liking her, i thought now it's actually happening
Like she's actually about to confess
and all i could know was my hormones were spiking to its peak
just for her to say its someone from my class, but then her saying its a joke and its actually my best friend
and i basically had to sit there listening about how she would unadd anyone for him and do anything for him at all (pain in the ass ngl)
now she thought he rejected her after she confessed to him, and that she "lost" feelings because fposd it
noew, imf notg onna cockblock even tho i genuinmely think im about to rope the shit out of my neck right now
i told him i would message her if we speak of him again and say that he actually liked her back and shit because she took a wrong understanding
allpower in my hands, but i deadass cant do that on my best pal and she likes him not me, even tho im pretty sure she liked me just today because she shared her location when she told me its only for people she likes or her female friends
now, obviously i told her that he liked and still likes her and now i cant do anything but listen to this unlimited yap knowing damn well last week i was about to faint + throw up 10 times in school, home, bathroom, in my own bed
i dont know what to do other than be happy for my own pal but deadass ts is getting to me and i cant even tear up because ive bawled my eyes out the past week over this shit and just today i was getting fine again
didnt even work on my assignments because of this and for a week straight didnt bring my backpack to college other than to just zone out the entire day sitting + not looking around not even saying ajoke to my friends
ik i will probably be over it a little by a weeks time or so but im ngl, just give me any fucking coping method you know or did
i dont even care what it is deadass just say shit as long as i can cope by it
even if it sounds retarded
ty if u genuinely read this far bhai <3
Skimmed over. Don’t be a part of this. Let them do it if they want to but don’t be a cuck, forget them, they aren’t worth it man,

Actual torture bro I feel bad
 
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I've been in a somewhat similar experience though

my favourite copes are really just music and physical activity

I used to listen to this song all day lol, and I used to cope with walking but whatever exercise suits you


the lyrics are ropefuel though :feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
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btw i didnt read the whole thread, but im just assuming that she dont want you
but bro the thing is everything was signing onto me for months i was waiting for this shit since the start of the school year when i got to know her gng i literally know her in and out i literally know EVERY single joke shes about to crack say or even think of like my friends even said i would def be the one she would like
Honestly bro, i dont even wanna get jealous because its my best friend and ive been home boys with him ever since i was 6 so no chance this shit is ripping me over but seeing my best female friend and best friend just get together is something idk how to see deadass sorry for yapping gng but i genuinely dont even know what the fuck im gonna do now
 
I've been in a somewhat similar experience though

my favourite copes are really just music and physical activity

I used to listen to this song all day lol, and I used to cope with walking but whatever exercise suits you


the lyrics are ropefuel though :feelsrope::feelsrope:

ill take a look on it in a bit but deadass bro genuinely thank you for even trying cus i cant think of anything better rn <3
 
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Skimmed over. Don’t be a part of this. Let them do it if they want to but don’t be a cuck, forget them, they aren’t worth it man,

Actual torture bro I feel bad
deadass bro may god bless you for this <3
 
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shared her location when she told me its only for people she likes or her female friends
Mixed singals to play with your feelings. Its a stupid whore idk why you care this much
 
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but bro the thing is everything was signing onto me for months i was waiting for this shit since the start of the school year when i got to know her gng i literally know her in and out i literally know EVERY single joke shes about to crack say or even think of like my friends even said i would def be the one she would like
Honestly bro, i dont even wanna get jealous because its my best friend and ive been home boys with him ever since i was 6 so no chance this shit is ripping me over but seeing my best female friend and best friend just get together is something idk how to see deadass sorry for yapping gng but i genuinely dont even know what the fuck im gonna do now
yo, i got cheated on basically, u have to let her go bro. If you ever get a thought of her, turn of the memory in your head, and everytime you get that anxious feeling just let your body do it and dont fight it. If you see her in public, dont talk to her or anything. You don't have to stop being friends with ur hb. Im guessing ur in ur teens, and it seems that she has a mental problem. They will break up, and when they do, dont go for her, and keep being friends with him.
 
Once one guy on here told me "stop liking her if u dont wanna be a cuck" or smth similar.
 
yeah so i basically like this girl and this whole entire time i on god thought she liked me back since it would make the most sense out of everybody esle i know
my homeboy funny and shit deadass love this mans to death and i dont mind it, but
one day she kept messaging me making me guess who she liked
after months of on and off liking her, i thought now it's actually happening
Like she's actually about to confess
and all i could know was my hormones were spiking to its peak
just for her to say its someone from my class, but then her saying its a joke and its actually my best friend
and i basically had to sit there listening about how she would unadd anyone for him and do anything for him at all (pain in the ass ngl)
now she thought he rejected her after she confessed to him, and that she "lost" feelings because fposd it
noew, imf notg onna cockblock even tho i genuinmely think im about to rope the shit out of my neck right now
i told him i would message her if we speak of him again and say that he actually liked her back and shit because she took a wrong understanding
allpower in my hands, but i deadass cant do that on my best pal and she likes him not me, even tho im pretty sure she liked me just today because she shared her location when she told me its only for people she likes or her female friends
now, obviously i told her that he liked and still likes her and now i cant do anything but listen to this unlimited yap knowing damn well last week i was about to faint + throw up 10 times in school, home, bathroom, in my own bed
i dont know what to do other than be happy for my own pal but deadass ts is getting to me and i cant even tear up because ive bawled my eyes out the past week over this shit and just today i was getting fine again
didnt even work on my assignments because of this and for a week straight didnt bring my backpack to college other than to just zone out the entire day sitting + not looking around not even saying ajoke to my friends
ik i will probably be over it a little by a weeks time or so but im ngl, just give me any fucking coping method you know or did
i dont even care what it is deadass just say shit as long as i can cope by it
even if it sounds retarded
ty if u genuinely read this far bhai <3
DNR if she liked you wouldn't be here coping typing away like some schizo
 

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