Dark triad or antisocial behaviour doesnt get you anything

[audimax]

In fact I would be grateful to be more social naturally.
I should currently consider myself to be lucky to be in a fixed social environment (dorm/Uni life) but actually girls are just intimidated about you/ignore you if you dont put effort in socializing with them.

Usually I want to socialize when something is planned with friends, like a party to going to the beach or something like that, not all the time I am awake.
Guys who are naturally social get the benefits of this dorm life situation, they are uglier than me yet they are the ones who have success with girls. Meanwhile I just want to get my calories in when i go to the kitchen and dont bother anymore with small talking all the time. Most girls are just annoying and boring af to talk to, if you arent in the pursuit of dating them/wanting to fuck them. I stopped giving a fuck bc its too exhausting playing the social guy and trying to small talk all the time.

Tldr: being social/nice guy is much better than being antisocial

 

[Andros]

Dark triad traits are usually only usefull for short term dating and short term corporate success

 

[Deleted member 245]

Cope.

None of this shit matters tbh

LOOKS

You think they're uglier than you but they probably mog you to oblivion

 

[Deleted member 4464]

In fact I would be grateful to be more social naturally.
I should currently consider myself to be lucky to be in a fixed social environment (dorm/Uni life) but actually girls are just intimidated about you/ignore you if you dont put effort in socializing with them.

Usually I want to socialize when something is planned with friends, like a party to going to the beach or something like that, not all the time I am awake.
Guys who are naturally social get the benefits of this dorm life situation, they are uglier than me yet they are the ones who have success with girls. Meanwhile I just want to get my calories in when i go to the kitchen and dont bother anymore with small talking all the time. Most girls are just annoying and boring af to talk to, if you arent in the pursuit of dating them/wanting to fuck them. I stopped giving a fuck bc its too exhausting playing the social guy and trying to small talk all the time.

Tldr: being social/nice guy is much better than being antisocial

unless you are a giga chad 7psl+ 6'2ft+ you need to socialize with people no matter how much you dont want to, even if you need to force yourself do it, only ultra lucky guys like meeks, o'pry, cavill etc you all already know them can get away with being introverted

 

[Gargantuan]

Somewhat agree with this from my own experiences, both verbally and non-verbally.
Some girls I know act nicer towards me and open up more when I talk to them more frequently and act more social around them in general.
When I hardly talk to them, act more stoic or less happy in general, they think I'm intimidating or some sort of psychopath jfl
This one girl told me last year I looked at her as if I wanted to kill her once jfl and another one accused me of intimidating another guy.

Socializing is important ofc but I prefer to be more stoic around girls tbh. Nowadays I feel the same way as you do OP, most girls are boring and annoying to talk to. I still talk to them when I go to uni, but never longer than necessary since I cba to anymore.

 

[karbo]

being dark triad is a retarded meme. EVERYTHING is about looks, and by everything i really mean it

this guy could be diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder by a psychiatrist but you would laugh at him if he said "i am a sociopath"

 

[audimax]

Cope.

None of this shit matters tbh

LOOKS

You think they're uglier than you but they probably mog you to oblivion

The only thing I see is at lot of them are taller than me, height really must be everything. I mog them facially easy.

 

[Entschuldigung]

If you have looks you can be however you want

 

[Deleted member 5393]

Girls love validation

u need to give them validation 24/7 or they get bored?

 

[Gonthar]

Meanwhile I just want to get my calories in when i go to the kitchen and dont bother anymore with small talking all the time. Most girls are just annoying and boring af to talk to, if you arent in the pursuit of dating them/wanting to fuck them. I stopped giving a fuck bc its too exhausting playing the social guy and trying to small talk all the time.
Tldr: being social/nice guy is much better than being antisocial

I think you confuse antisocial with asocial.
One is a bad boy who usually keeps yapping, babbling and bragging and doesn't give a shit about what others think, the other is a quiet, shy, introverted person who avoids social interactions.

 

[audimax]

I think you confuse antisocial with asocial.
One is a bad boy who usually keeps yapping, babbling and bragging and doesn't give a shit about what others think, the other is a quiet, shy, introverted person who avoids social interactions.

I dont brag or anything like that, but I am not shy too, I can stand my ground. I just dont give a fuck