Dating apps and the stigma around them

[szolliontaraelis]

Do your friends know that you use dating apps like Tinder or Bumble?

From where I’m from, there is still some stigma around them(most normies around me will say that its cringe or ‘look he is on tinder!!! haha what a loser!!’). Like wtf bro? Most girls won’t take the first step here because muh man has to do it first thing, and I don’t want to speak about the 99th lip gloss you bought this week. Fuck off nigger cunt, I’ll use this app and fuck some JBs while you still try to gymmax to fuck your becky crush!!

 

[Ziggy S]

From where I’m from, there is still some stigma around them

Good.

Trust me, you want it to be this way.

 

[szolliontaraelis]

Good.

Trust me, you want it to be this way.

mirin loox

 

[thereallegend]

Must live in the middle of nowhere

 

[Gargantuan]

Opposite here. I've had normies act all hyped up when they saw me casually swiping on tinder JFL
They must think that using tinder = guaranteed slayer

This one time a normie asked me to let him swipe for me on tinder for a bit and he was shocked at my number of matches (he perceived it to be a high number I guess when that wasn't really the case lol) even though I struggle massively to convert them into actual meetups

 

[MRD]

Opposite here. I've had normies act all hyped up when they saw me casually swiping on tinder JFL
They must think that using tinder = guaranteed slayer

This one time a normie asked me to let him swipe for me on tinder for a bit and he was shocked at my number of matches (he perceived it to be a high number I guess when that wasn't really the case lol) even though I struggle massively to convert them into actual meetups

Trust. The amount of stand ups you get and no-shows. I've been to the point where an hour before - yeah I'm on the way. Me too.... Still no show.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Where do you live ? There’s no stigma around here

 

[AscensionMan98]

Opposite here. I've had normies act all hyped up when they saw me casually swiping on tinder JFL
They must think that using tinder = guaranteed slayer

This one time a normie asked me to let him swipe for me on tinder for a bit and he was shocked at my number of matches (he perceived it to be a high number I guess when that wasn't really the case lol) even though I struggle massively to convert them into actual meetups

Yea your probably on the threshold level of looks, enough to excite interest to matches but not enough to convert. The thing is that the era for your tinder slaying was 3-5 years ago when tinder was in its infancy. Esp 2015-2017 getting laid via tinder was a lot easier as their was less users but now its very saturated to the point that even users like amnesia are getting tons of flakes ( still slays but isn't getting the quality girls with ease anymore like before ).

Even yubo is dead . Wink is alright but it was destroyed once they got rid of the match feature and allowed anyone to message bitches, meaning bitches get like 200+ message requests a day and often times you might get accidentally thrown out.

 

[thereallegend]

Yea your probably on the threshold level of looks, enough to excite interest to matches but not enough to convert. The thing is that the era for your tinder slaying was 3-5 years ago when tinder was in its infancy. Esp 2015-2017 getting laid via tinder was a lot easier as their was less users but now its very saturated to the point that even users like amnesia are getting tons of flakes ( still slays but isn't getting the quality girls with ease anymore like before ).

Even yubo is dead . Wink is alright but it was destroyed once they got rid of the match feature and allowed anyone to message bitches, meaning bitches get like 200+ message requests a day and often times you might get accidentally thrown out.

Also if you can’t get professional photos taken and you’re not skilled at taking thirst traps, it’s over. Your profile is dead on arrival

 

[AscensionMan98]

Also if you can’t get professional photos taken and you’re not skilled at taking thirst traps, it’s over. Your profile is dead on arrival

The only place OLD might still work today is where you not only are a chad but exotic, because that way your so rare that you dramatically increase the chance of commitment by the foid as your not the everyday local good looking guy, but a good looking foreigner. So thus location maxxing I feel like might be one of the niches that might still be a viable option for a decent time.

 

[thereallegend]

The only place OLD might still work today is where you not only are a chad but exotic, because that way your so rare that you dramatically increase the chance of commitment by the foid as your not the everyday local good looking guy, but a good looking foreigner. So thus location maxxing I feel like might be one of the niches that might still be a viable option for a decent time.

I don’t even consider geomaxxing because it’s too much effort. Of course the reward dating wise is worth it.

In the West you need a master’s degree in pro photography and thirst trapping to get matches online.

 

[newperson]

Bumping cuz its still relevant
What do u think? its cringe or not?
Ofcourse MTN and below have nothing to lose so they hop on this with no shame, but im HTN+, i dont wanna be precieved as a weirdo or smth,
wouldnt girls think like "oh hes good looking and hes here? then he must be either a jerk or a some weirdo" ?