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Henry Rollins
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I used to date below average women almost exclusively. Being that my social skills were seriously lacking I would go on dates with above average women but they wouldn't materialize. So the uglier girls who found me "quirky" gave me a chance because it beat being alone. But I never felt like I was truly matched and would feel ashamed when out with them in public and jealous of other guys who had hotter girlfriends.
Now that I'm looksmaxxed to the point above average women will date me, I can't see myself going back to dating these below average women.
The problem is, this dating experience is totally alien to me. Having to be on guard from other guys is shit I never dealt with before. Having to deal with above average women's lack of patience compared to the sweetness of the sub 5 girls is just such a swing in the opposite direction.
I feel I can't win. I'm either with a girl who respects and adores me but I am ashamed of being with, or a girl I feel more matched with who simultaneously is harder to deal with and needs constant guarding.
But if I'm not with a girl who mogs I feel like I failed (as I'm sure anyone who is honest would say at some point). Being looks obsessed sure does suck but idk what the solution is. Rant over
Now that I'm looksmaxxed to the point above average women will date me, I can't see myself going back to dating these below average women.
The problem is, this dating experience is totally alien to me. Having to be on guard from other guys is shit I never dealt with before. Having to deal with above average women's lack of patience compared to the sweetness of the sub 5 girls is just such a swing in the opposite direction.
I feel I can't win. I'm either with a girl who respects and adores me but I am ashamed of being with, or a girl I feel more matched with who simultaneously is harder to deal with and needs constant guarding.
But if I'm not with a girl who mogs I feel like I failed (as I'm sure anyone who is honest would say at some point). Being looks obsessed sure does suck but idk what the solution is. Rant over