DATING EXPERT CLAIMS DATING APPS ARE DYING! (BRUTAL)

[ascension124]

He claims that dating apps have made men approach less and take less action JFL. He claims relying on online dating platforms has ruined men's confidence. Is he right? I never felt that cold approach is an easy solution. How is it any different than Tinder?

He also says women are sick of dating apps and are now gravitating to social circle.

Ultimately this leads to no one meeting each other and people are dating less.

What do you guys think?

@Amnesia @cvzvvc @Heatmiser @edodalic29 @Whatever

 

[ascension124]

@Foreverbrad @thereallegend @Prettyboy @Orc

 

[BecomingHuman]

What is this dating apps obsession. Noone gives a shit. Did you quit nicotine yet?

Why you didn't tag me.

 

[ascension124]

How is cold approach any better than dating apps when the girls you approach still have online options that you are competing with?

 

[Orc]

i only check my dating profiles whenever i make some major adjustment to my appearance and need to check the match rate difference

 

[ascension124]

What is this dating apps obsession. Noone gives a shit. Did you quit nicotine yet?

Why you didn't tag me.

Its relevant to forum members above 2 PSL. Its obv your butthurt, maybe focus on self improvement instead of spamming my threads. It wont improve your life. Adding to ignore

 

[ascension124]

What has caused women to take dating apps less seriously? @JOJOcelReturns

 

[BecomingHuman]

Its relevant to forum members above 2 PSL

Don't be mean. I'm at least 3.2 PSL

 

[ascension124]

i only check my dating profiles whenever i make some major adjustment to my appearance and need to check the match rate difference

Are you focused on finding LTR now or youre still slaying?

 

[playxiing]

 

[ascension124]

Im unable to accept it JFL

 

[cvzvvc]

Dating apps have hit critical oversaturation levels. We all kinda woke up to the fact that besides using someone for a fleshlight for a bit, theres not much point. I'm grateful for some experiences but it's mostly been a waste of time. 9/10 girls on there are fucked in the head

 

[ascension124]

Dating apps have hit critical oversaturation levels. We all kinda woke up to the fact that besides using someone for a fleshlight for a bit, theres not much point. I'm grateful for some experiences but it's mostly been a waste of time. 9/10 girls on there are fucked in the head

Atleast guys like us got many slays and good memories from dating apps. Imagine for the guys entering dating now must be brutal. In a way we are not losing much since we already had the "slaying experience" although it does suck to not get the same results

 

[Orc]

Are you focused on finding LTR now or youre still slaying?

ltr but can't find anyone I want to be with for more than 5 minutes.

 

[byvw]

Wtf is dating expert tho? JFL.

 

[ascension124]

Wtf is dating expert tho? JFL.

He has been coaching men on confidence/dating and brings up objective points

 

[albe.ORG]

does he cite any factual data or he just blubbs about it?

He claims that dating apps have made men approach less and take less action JFL. He claims relying on online dating platforms has ruined men's confidence. Is he right? I never felt that cold approach is an easy solution. How is it any different than Tinder?

He also says women are sick of dating apps and are now gravitating to social circle.

Ultimately this leads to no one meeting each other and people are dating less.

What do you guys think?

@Amnesia @cvzvvc @Heatmiser @edodalic29 @Whatever

 

[ascension124]

does he cite any factual data or he just blubbs about it?

Idk if these apps would release data showing their decline

 

[Whatever]

I was gonna bump your other thread. This summer I wasn’t getting any dates but at least I was matching with prime HTB+. Now even that has stopped, no matches anymore. It’s truly over for the apps.

That’s been my exact theory, that the dating market has crashed so now there’s this giant hole that maybe warm/cold approach can fill. I keep seeing foids post stuff like “I’m going on a date with a guy I met at CVS, this is how it must’ve been in the olden days”. I think this dating app burnout will make low inhib even more important than ever and just by doing an approach on impulse you’re setting yourself apart as low inhib. But among many other things I worry that all foids know how to do anymore is flake and ghost, and that’s with guys who they like, we’re dealing with such stupid bullshit. But if I get good opportunities to approach I’ll do it.

 

[ascension124]

I was gonna bump your other thread. This summer I wasn’t getting any dates but at least I was matching with prime HTB+. Now even that has stopped, no matches anymore. It’s truly over for the apps.

That’s been my exact theory, that the dating market has crashed so now there’s this giant hole that maybe warm/cold approach can fill. I keep seeing foids post stuff like “I’m going on a date with a guy I met at CVS, this is how it must’ve been in the olden days”. I think this dating app burnout will make low inhib even more important than ever and just by doing an approach on impulse you’re setting yourself apart as low inhib. But among many other things I worry that all foids know how to do anymore is flake and ghost, and that’s with guys who they like, we’re dealing with such stupid bullshit. But if I get good opportunities to approach I’ll do it.

Same for me dude it was ok in summer and then dropped off. I’m going to start coke approaching at coffee shops and college campuses

 

[edodalic29]

Im not even close to being 1% yet in looks , when my contacts come in and i take some god pictures i will report back and i should be considered chad / giga chad by then , if nothing still then its time to ditch the apps completely

 

[ascension124]

Im not even close to being 1% yet in looks , when my contacts come in and i take some god pictures i will report back and i should be considered chad / giga chad by then , if nothing still then its time to ditch the apps completely

What do you look like now?

 

[edodalic29]

What do you look like now?

Still around chad but my pics are basement tier

 

[ascension124]

Still around chad but my pics are basement tier

Take some good pics and you should be doing well dude dating apps are truly a scam if even Chad doesn’t slay JFL

I reccommend a pic with some friends, a pic playing a sport and a few pics showing your SMV

 

[ascension124]

Bump

 

[Daddy's Home]

I listened to his video. He makes some good points, but on another note..

Dating apps are only for subhumans (most often very low height/ bald/ very bad negative canthal tilt etc.) or girls who are mentally ill or born from subhuman parents so they never get attention like other girls..

Girls like this (and I'm only talking about the non-fat ones):

Both the men and women on these apps want exclusive chads/stacys to genetically uplift their future kids

Normal people who also accept fatter people or LTB/MTN etc. find dating through circumstances and contexts in real life, through common activities that passively compel them to interact (work, school, weddings, social events of all kinds, group & team activity hobbies, social circles, neighborhood, mutual friends, children or relatives of parents' friends etc.)

The problem is that normal people are getting more isolated, spend more time at work, have less free time, spend more time on social media and not interacting with real people, etc. due to the nature of modern life which offers the possibility of not needing to interact so much with real people to survive or lose your comfort level..

So his point with ''people quit dating apps and go outside and touch grass and approach some bitches'' is false, because there are no ''outside'' people anymore, everyone is at home on TikTok and playing video games..

The clubs or places where people in their 20s and 30s used to hang out are increasingly empty and with fewer and fewer women, who look worse and worse..

Being born into a family with lots of friends, relatives, connections and relationships is most important at the beginning of 2025, as they will secure your job in your future career, as well as your partner for a long-term romantic relationship..

 

[Prettyboy]

Honestly at this point I use dating apps as a real life version of Photofeeler (as in seeking girls to evaluate the pictures). If the pictures are succesful, I post them on social media.

This used to be in the reverse order, but times change.

 

[ascension124]

Honestly at this point I use dating apps as a real life version of Photofeeler (as in seeking girls to evaluate the pictures). If the pictures are succesful, I post them on social media.

This used to be in the reverse order, but times change.

how are you getting dates?

 

[Corleone]

He claims that dating apps have made men approach less and take less action JFL. He claims relying on online dating platforms has ruined men's confidence. Is he right? I never felt that cold approach is an easy solution. How is it any different than Tinder?

He also says women are sick of dating apps and are now gravitating to social circle.

Ultimately this leads to no one meeting each other and people are dating less. What do you guys think?

dating apps are dying but Instagram is the new tinder, online dating is still on an all time high.

Also cold approaching is bs if you didn't get IOIs. Much worse for your confidence than waiting for a mutual show of interest through an OLD match.

ltr but can't find anyone I want to be with for more than 5 minutes.

women become really tiresome once you busted your nut.

 

[Corleone]

how are you getting dates?

social media.

Bro is rocking american psycho finance chad as a pfp and doesn't even have basic reading comprehension skills. Gotta step up your intelligence if you want to make it into investment banking, OP.

 

[ascension124]

dating apps are dying but Instagram is the new tinder, online dating is still on an all time high.

Also cold approaching is bs if you didn't get IOIs. Much worse for your confidence than waiting for a mutual show of interest through an OLD match.

women become really tiresome once you busted your nut.

Instagram is bullshit outside of social circle or celebrity tier I tried it didn’t work when I cold dmed girls

 

[ascension124]

Bro is rocking american psycho finance chad as a pfp and doesn't even have basic reading comprehension skills. Gotta step up your intelligence if you want to make it into investment banking, OP.

 

[ascension124]

Bro is rocking american psycho finance chad as a pfp and doesn't even have basic reading comprehension skills. Gotta step up your intelligence if you want to make it into investment banking, OP.

He said he posts them on social media you dumb fucking retard not that he uses it for dates I don’t work in IB but I prob make 10x your base

 

[Corleone]

He said he posts them on social media you dumb fucking retard not that he uses it for dates

Why would he bring up his social media in the context of OLD if not to tell you that is what he navigated to?

I don’t work in IB but I prob make 10x your base

Teach me, Saar, that 1m/year without basic reading comprehension skills is impressive.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Instagram is bullshit outside of social circle or celebrity tier I tried it didn’t work when I cold dmed girls

How many followers did you have?

As far as I can tell you need 10K+ for a “HTN+” status on there regardless of what you post.

 

[ascension124]

How many followers did you have?

As far as I can tell you need 10K+ for a “HTN+” status on there regardless of what you post.

I had 1100 followers and followed like 900. I had the same pics from dating apps nothing special. If 10k+ is needed for HTN status then it never began for me JFL

 

[Foreverbrad]

I had 1100 followers and followed like 900. I had the same pics from dating apps nothing special. If 10k+ is needed for HTN status then it never began for me JFL

You can buy followers though afaik. It’s just another stupid game you have to play. I’m just looking at statistics, I don’t personally have instagram but if it is important then you do need top 15% status which is 10k+ followers.

 

[Corleone]

I had 1100 followers and followed like 900.

push it to 3k by buying bot followers and unfollow like 500-600 people. having a good followers/following ratio is enough.

 

[ascension124]

push it to 3k by buying bot followers and unfollow like 500-600 people. having a good followers/following ratio is enough.

Yeah but can’t girls easily tell you have fake followers when they check your follower list? Or if they see you’re a HTN with no status and might get suspicious why you have that many followers? @Foreverbrad

I know girls are hyper vigilant about social media like they check followers, likes per post, comments they literally check eveything

Dating apps are much better for me than IG

 

[Prettyboy]

how are you getting dates?

In short since I joined this forum a few years ago I looksmaxxed what I can on myself, got into modeling as a side gig*, I post the professional photoshoots on social media then reach out for friends of friends.

Above a certain looks level you can also make content and go viral but you have to have a certain personality to do it, speaking from experience. It’s one thing to have a looks base and another to be a content creator.

(*if anyone is wondering, unless you are high fashion level it pays peanuts, people do it because they like posing like myself and for the professional photos, otherwise don’t plan it as a career track; use your looks to your advantage in a profession like law or finance)