zerotohero
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At this point, I’ve come to the cold, hard realization: dating is 99% of the time a total waste of time. And if you’re like me, with BPD and emotional baggage, it’s closer to 99.99%. I’ve tried it all—juggling multiple conversations, trying to connect with this girl, texting that one, talking to five or six girls at once—and where does it get me? Nowhere. The return on investment is laughable. Even jerking off feels like a better use of my time at this point, and that’s sad to admit.
But here’s the truth: I can’t afford to keep losing more than just time. I’m 24 now. 24. In the grand scheme of life, I’m still young, but I’ve wasted enough years. Every moment spent chasing empty conversations with people who aren’t going to bring real value to my life is a moment I can never get back. And that’s a luxury I can’t afford anymore.
I need to focus on the only things that matter right now:
MGTOW is the only way forward until you’re ready. Until you’re the man who doesn’t need anyone to validate his worth. Until you’ve built something that makes the right people naturally gravitate toward you.
The reality is: If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they’ll just fly away. But if you take the time to make a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. Don’t chase; attract.
So, no more distractions. No more wasting time on meaningless connections. My focus is on becoming a UFC fighter, becoming financially independent, and becoming the best version of myself. That’s the only investment worth making right now.
But here’s the truth: I can’t afford to keep losing more than just time. I’m 24 now. 24. In the grand scheme of life, I’m still young, but I’ve wasted enough years. Every moment spent chasing empty conversations with people who aren’t going to bring real value to my life is a moment I can never get back. And that’s a luxury I can’t afford anymore.
I need to focus on the only things that matter right now:
- Making money
- Training MMA
- Becoming the man I’ve always known I could be
MGTOW is the only way forward until you’re ready. Until you’re the man who doesn’t need anyone to validate his worth. Until you’ve built something that makes the right people naturally gravitate toward you.
The reality is: If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they’ll just fly away. But if you take the time to make a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. Don’t chase; attract.
So, no more distractions. No more wasting time on meaningless connections. My focus is on becoming a UFC fighter, becoming financially independent, and becoming the best version of myself. That’s the only investment worth making right now.