Dating seems overwhelming

[Bitchwhipper2]

"You need to be this and that while avoiding being that and this"

Why can't I just be myself? Doesn't that work?

 

[Deleted member 71543]

What do you even do with someone

 

[Deleted member 72905]

"You need to be this and that while avoiding being that and this"

Why can't I just be myself? Doesn't that work?

Being yourself works, but not for casual dating. If you want to find a longterm gf, frauding your personality is the LAST thing you should do. Find someone that likes you for you.

 

[FaceandBBC]

"Gotta pay this and that every week."

Fuck that.

 

[Deleted member 107430]

just be a chad

 

[fuxkdakikez]

there’s a new trend every fucking day i can’t keep up haven’t kept up since 13

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

"Gotta pay this and that every week."

Fuck that.

I fucking hate tradcopers ngl. They think their way is superior for no reason and judge everyone else

Got a friend like that who works as a barista and felt the need to shittalk to me abt some guy for asking his girl to pay

 

[Deleted member 110759]

It is overwhelming. That is why dating apps suck so much and the only way to meet actual humans is through friends/work/events/school. I got lucky recently, but that was after a sloppy hundred or so empty conversations on apps. Pure luck too. Which is another major factor.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

It is overwhelming. That is why dating apps suck so much and the only way to meet actual humans is through friends/work/events/school. I got lucky recently, but that was after a sloppy hundred or so empty conversations on apps. Pure luck too. Which is another major factor.

Yea. The dating scene is completely fucked in large part by sociala media and dating apps imo.

Unless some stacy slips on a bananapeel in to my lap I wont even try tbh

 

[Deleted member 42399]

It's not supposed to be like that...

 

[Deleted member 15225]

No one has ever liked myself. From childhood to now it always disgusted people, mainly only women though.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

It's not supposed to be like that...

Thats the impression I get as an incel who has never dated doomscrolling tiktok

 

[Deleted member 42399]

Thats the impression I get as an incel who has never dated doomscrolling tiktok

U r right tho

When i was dating it felt exhausting and in the end all i got was a chance to fuck a foid that i am not even attracted to

 

[superpsycho]

ive been single my entire fucking life because im a fucking degenerate loser so please tell me, does it get worse than that or not

 

[whotthehell]

It's supposed to feel natural and fulfilling, but when you are non NT or autistic, the relationship might be too stressful for your brain because of your incapability to relate and connect, still I think it's fixable with enough time and effort

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

U r right tho

When i was dating it felt exhausting and in the end all i got was a chance to fuck a foid that i am not even attracted to

Yea fuck that. Being incel is fine

 

[Deleted member 42399]

Yea fuck that. Being incel is fine

It's ok i guess...

Winter sucks tho when u're incel

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Winter sucks tho when u're incel

Elab tbh

 

[DieVoGel6949]

LTRs are (nearly) impossible if you're non NT, ethnic(brown) and sub7 so if you want to bang just pretend you're NT and try and make yourself look appealing and some ltb will let you hit but LTRs are a no no unless you meet atleast 2 of the 3 requirements I mentioned.

 

[Deleted member 42399]

Elab tbh

I just fee like cuddling when it gets dark so early

 

[Society hates me]

Being yourself works, but not for casual dating. If you want to find a longterm gf, frauding your personality is the LAST thing you should do. Find someone that likes you for you.

“find someone who likes you for you.” I’m incapable of being liked by women. Women hate me on site. I’ve never heard a bigger cope in my life….

 

[MoggerGaston]

"You need to be this and that while avoiding being that and this"

signs of mental illnesses.

fuck this society that made us think this way