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I'm very depressed and feel suicidal often. I've tried a lot of healthy habits, and I'm still doing them (like going to the gym, getting sunlight, eating healthy, reflecting etc), but it hasn't worked. I have severe self esteem issues and past trauma that gives me crazy anxiety and depression.



Should I start taking SSRIs? I consumed Prozac/ Fluxotein for the first time yesterday, and I can still stop if I want to. I feel like I don't really have any other options.



I know that since I'm a man no one cares about me, but if you have any advice, please help.
 
I'm very depressed and feel suicidal often. I've tried a lot of healthy habits, and I'm still doing them (like going to the gym, getting sunlight, eating healthy, reflecting etc), but it hasn't worked. I have severe self esteem issues and past trauma that gives me crazy anxiety and depression.



Should I start taking SSRIs? I consumed Prozac/ Fluxotein for the first time yesterday, and I can still stop if I want to. I feel like I don't really have any other options.



I know that since I'm a man no one cares about me, but if you have any advice, please help.
save money for surgery or rope

only legit advice
 
I'm very depressed and feel suicidal often. I've tried a lot of healthy habits, and I'm still doing them (like going to the gym, getting sunlight, eating healthy, reflecting etc), but it hasn't worked. I have severe self esteem issues and past trauma that gives me crazy anxiety and depression.



Should I start taking SSRIs? I consumed Prozac/ Fluxotein for the first time yesterday, and I can still stop if I want to. I feel like I don't really have any other options.



I know that since I'm a man no one cares about me, but if you have any advice, please help.
PM pics bratha
 
Keep the healthy habits, cut the negativity (aka leave the forum), fix goals and achieve them, go out, socialize, stop overthinking, be yourself entierly and stop caring what people think.
Find people you can talk to, if you have no friend go seek therapy.

Friends are very important. You should focus on building a social circle thru hobbies and activities (for example the gym). Smile, be cool, talk to people and genuinly be interested in them. If you want to make friends you have to stop focus on yourself and be interested in others.
Dont take ssri, its a bandaid thats not helpful trust me.

You’re gonna make it. Every one has these moments.
Just keep going.
 
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How will surgery fix my mental issues?
You can get casual sex, relationships or ONS if you fix your major failos.
There is absolutely nothing, and I repeat nothing that prevents you from connecting with women in places like Tinder except your looks.
Your personality is just fine. It's almost irrelevant unless you are a complete monster

I haven't felt down or depressed ever since, that feeling of emptiness just went away.
No need for SSRIs, no need for medicine in my case. Just regular access to sex and dating. Not saying it's enough for everyone, but it was for me. Everyone is different.
 
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Keep the healthy habits, cut the negativity (aka leave the forum), fix goals and achieve them, go out, socialize, stop overthinking, be yourself entierly and stop caring what people think.
Find people you can talk to, if you have no friend go seek therapy.

Friends are very important. You should focus on building a social circle thru hobbies and activities (for example the gym). Smile, be cool, talk to people and genuinly be interested in them. If you want to make friends you have to stop focus on yourself and be interested in others.
Dont take ssri, its a bandaid thats not helpful trust me.

You’re gonna make it. Every one has these moments.
Just keep going.
I've tried all of these things. No one wants to be friends with me, and I'm incredibly anxious and volatile when in public. My parents don't let me leave the house much either, unless it's for school, so I'm basically under house arrest.
 
You can get casual sex, relationships or ONS if you fix your major failos.
There is absolutely nothing, and I repeat nothing that prevents you from connecting with women in places like Tinder except your looks.
Your personality is just fine. It's almost irrelevant unless you are a complete monster

I haven't felt down or depressed ever since, that feeling of emptiness just went away.
No need for SSRIs, no need for medicine in my case
I don't want to have extramarital sex. And even if I wanted to, I live in a conservative country that doesn't have any hookup culture that'd allow me to get laid.
 
I don't want to have extramarital sex. And even if I wanted to, I live in a conservative country that doesn't have any hookup culture that'd allow me to get laid.
I understand. In that case I would consider SSRI medication.

Even then, living in a very conservative or religious country I would invest into looks, because being good looking gives you so many tangible mental health benefits and makes people treat you better overall in society.
 
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I'm very depressed and feel suicidal often. I've tried a lot of healthy habits, and I'm still doing them (like going to the gym, getting sunlight, eating healthy, reflecting etc), but it hasn't worked. I have severe self esteem issues and past trauma that gives me crazy anxiety and depression.



Should I start taking SSRIs? I consumed Prozac/ Fluxotein for the first time yesterday, and I can still stop if I want to. I feel like I don't really have any other options.



I know that since I'm a man no one cares about me, but if you have any advice, please help.
Antidepressants are all bullshit. Newest science on this debunks the chemical imbalance theory of depression. Here’s a normie and more scientific review of this.



But many people knew they were a scam before already:
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I understand. In that case I would consider SSRI medication.

Even then, living in a very conservative or religious country I would invest into looks, because being good looking gives you so many tangible mental health benefits and makes people treat you better overall in society.
Yeah, absolutely. I've been trying my absolute best to looksmax over the past few months. So far, I've built a good amount of muscle, leaned down, improved my fashion, gotten rid of my acne, gotten a better haircut and gotten a mole removed. It's Def improved the way I'm treated.
 
Antidepressants are all bullshit. Newest science on this debunks the chemical imbalance theory of depression. Here’s a normie and more scientific review of this.



But many people knew they were a scam before already:
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So is it all placebo?
 
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You can get casual sex, relationships or ONS if you fix your major failos.
There is absolutely nothing, and I repeat nothing that prevents you from connecting with women in places like Tinder except your looks.
Your personality is just fine. It's almost irrelevant unless you are a complete monster

I haven't felt down or depressed ever since, that feeling of emptiness just went away.
No need for SSRIs, no need for medicine in my case. Just regular access to sex and dating. Not saying it's enough for everyone, but it was for me. Everyone is different.
based
 
I don't want to have extramarital sex. And even if I wanted to, I live in a conservative country that doesn't have any hookup culture that'd allow me to get laid.
are you from caucauss
 
I've tried all of these things. No one wants to be friends with me, and I'm incredibly anxious and volatile when in public. My parents don't let me leave the house much either, unless it's for school, so I'm basically under house arrest.
You should ask yourself why and work on this. If you think people dont wanna be your friends because of your looks your delusional. Maybe thats because you never learnt how to properly socialize and its ok, its an opportunity to learn now.
Again, find common things and be genuinly interested in others, let them talk about themselves. Then you will make bonds with others. You should go out even if your parents dont want you to. Or like someone else said itt you can cope with vidya/discord
 
You should ask yourself why and work on this. If you think people dont wanna be your friends because of your looks your delusional. Maybe thats because you never learnt how to properly socialize and its ok, its an opportunity to learn now.
Again, find common things and be genuinly interested in others, let them talk about themselves. Then you will make bonds with others. You should go out even if your parents dont want you to. Or like someone else said itt you can cope with vidya/discord
I have a super hard time opening up about my interests and hobbies because my dad beat and shamed me whenever I talked about my interests when I was younger, because he viewed anything not related to school as a waste of time. I also never really socialised when I was a kid, probably because of my retarded personality so I never developed social/ Normie skills. But, I'll try I guess and talk to people.
 
you are young, keep living a bit longer coz YOLO, dont need to end it so early coz who knows if you ascend and life gets better, especially with this info 99% of the pop doesent have.
 
I feel you. I'm pretty ugly and broke(also live in a poor country so even with a good career i cant make much). It's unmotivating and i spend a lot of time being depressed, but i think im still too young to kill myself. If you can get money for surgeries do that and become a slayer and find hobbies to distract yourself
 
Same bhai I am also paki and I have a really hard time socialising. One advice tho, don't take SSRIs because they will fuck you up and maybe start MMA, the centre I go to has really nice ppl and my social circle has gotten larger because of that. This was thanks to @FailedNormieManlet. Also maybe cope with nicotine, it helps me alot and doesn't turn you into a cuck. If you think your looks are the problem moneymaxx for surgery which I'm doing rn. Also one more thing, making male friends is not something for which looks are the make or break factor, I have a truecel friend and he social circle mogs me to oblivion, as long as you are normie looks won't be the issue in making friends.
 
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