Describe Why You Ended Up as an Incel

[Part-Time Chad]

My reasons:

- I was raised by very conservative immigrant Boomer parents from Sicily, which put me at odds with most of my American peers.

- I was born neurodivergent (I'm likely on the autism and schizophrenia spectrums). This made me awkward and weird.

- It also caused me to become a massive problem child in school, starting around second grade-- not a good way to start my social life.

- At 14 years old--just as I was finally starting to become socially adjusted in America and learning the ropes with girls--my parents and I moved to Sicily to stay. This caused a lot upheaval and forced me to start my life all over, in a different language no less.

- At age 17, we moved back to New York, but it was too late for me-- I had already spent the most important formative years of my life studymaxxing in the strict Italian school system and becoming socially very conservative to fit in with the culture there, when I should have been getting laid. This made me even more inhibited than I naturally already was.

- To make matters worse, my mother was a massive control freak, who cock-blocked me all the way through my teens and even into my early-20s. She would get insanely jealous and upset whenever she suspected I was talking to a girl on the phone, or trying to get close to one in person.

Years went by...

- One of the symptoms of my Asperger's is that I have sensory issues. I hate touching people and am very sensitive to odors. I also have an aversion to body heat. This proved to be a giant barrier to sex (as if I didn't already have enough problems).

More years went by...

- But what really sealed my fate was the fact that I suffer from a gastrointestinal disorder (inherited from my mother) that causes me to bloat on and off all day. This sometimes deforms my face and makes me ugly unexpectedly throughout the day, and foids react very negatively towards me, much more negatively than they do towards a regular ugly guy (at least he looks normal; I look diseased when I bloat). It took me many years to finally realize that I had this condition and even longer to understand how it had affected my sex and social life, dating all the way back to my childhood-- a titanic blackpill.

Anyway, that's the (very) short version of my story and here I am. What's your story?

 

[Monarchy]

My reasons:

- I was raised by very conservative immigrant Boomer parents from Sicily, which put me at odds with most of my American peers.

- I was born neurodivergent (I'm likely on the autism and schizophrenia spectrums). This made me awkward and weird.

- It also caused me to become a massive problem child in school, starting around second grade-- not a good way to start my social life.

- At 14 years old--just as I was finally starting to become socially adjusted in America and learning the ropes with girls--My parents and I moved to Sicily to stay. This caused a lot upheaval and forced me to start my life all over, in a different language no less.

- At age 17, we moved back to New York, but it was too late for me-- I had already spent the most important formative years of my life studymaxxing in the strict Italian school system and becoming socially very conservative to fit in with the culture there, when I should have been getting laid. This made me even more inhibited than I naturally already was.

- To make matters worse, my mother was a massive control freak, who cock-blocked me all the way through my teens and even into my early-20s. She would get insanely jealous and upset whenever she suspected I was talking to a girl on the phone, or trying to get close to one in person.

Years went by...

- One of the symptoms of my Asperger's is that I have sensory issues. I hate touching people and am very sensitive to odors. I also have an aversion to body heat. This proved to be a giant barrier to sex (as if I didn't already have enough problems).

More years went by...

- But what really sealed my fate was the fact that I suffer from a gastrointestinal disorder (inherited from my mother) that causes me to bloat on and off all day. This sometimes deforms my face and makes me ugly unexpectedly throughout the day, and foids react very negatively towards me, much more negatively than they do to a regular ugly guy (at least he looks normal; I look diseased when I bloat). It took me many years to finally realize that I had this condition and even longer to understand how it had affected my sex and social life dating all the way back to my childhood-- a titanic blackpill.

Anyway, that's the (very) short version of my story and here I am. What's your story?

Just my face

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I was selling my daddy crack at 15

He told me he'd just get it somewhere else i couldn't disagree

 

[Aviddegree40571]

My reasons:

- I was raised by very conservative immigrant Boomer parents from Sicily, which put me at odds with most of my American peers.

- I was born neurodivergent (I'm likely on the autism and schizophrenia spectrums). This made me awkward and weird.

- It also caused me to become a massive problem child in school, starting around second grade-- not a good way to start my social life.

- At 14 years old--just as I was finally starting to become socially adjusted in America and learning the ropes with girls--My parents and I moved to Sicily to stay. This caused a lot upheaval and forced me to start my life all over, in a different language no less.

- At age 17, we moved back to New York, but it was too late for me-- I had already spent the most important formative years of my life studymaxxing in the strict Italian school system and becoming socially very conservative to fit in with the culture there, when I should have been getting laid. This made me even more inhibited than I naturally already was.

- To make matters worse, my mother was a massive control freak, who cock-blocked me all the way through my teens and even into my early-20s. She would get insanely jealous and upset whenever she suspected I was talking to a girl on the phone, or trying to get close to one in person.

Years went by...

- One of the symptoms of my Asperger's is that I have sensory issues. I hate touching people and am very sensitive to odors. I also have an aversion to body heat. This proved to be a giant barrier to sex (as if I didn't already have enough problems).

More years went by...

- But what really sealed my fate was the fact that I suffer from a gastrointestinal disorder (inherited from my mother) that causes me to bloat on and off all day. This sometimes deforms my face and makes me ugly unexpectedly throughout the day, and foids react very negatively towards me, much more negatively than they do to a regular ugly guy (at least he looks normal; I look diseased when I bloat). It took me many years to finally realize that I had this condition and even longer to understand how it had affected my sex and social life dating all the way back to my childhood-- a titanic blackpill.

Anyway, that's the (very) short version of my story and here I am. What's your story?

For me it was always being treated like scum because inherently im a shy and nice guy. Over for nice guys

 

[ztoned]

social anxiety

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

For me it was always being treated like scum because inherently im a shy and nice guy. Over for nice guys

Nice guys finish first because they rope in youth

 

[vanillaicecream]

Looks, brain chemistry and life experiences. There's rarely more to it than that.

 

[Wexilarious]

Nobody taught me anything in this life + any knowledge that exists now is dumber than I could have come up with myself, so i could say the whole world nerfed me

 

[snowbunnypolice]

Not incel at all But experienced the looks pill twice in my life from being overweight twice and losing it.

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Just my face

You had it easy, my friend. Consider yourself lucky. My original draft of this thread was much longer, and went into gory details about my experiences throughout my life because of my mental issues.

 

[diditeverbegin]

-Felt lonely last summer after school (9th grade) went on break
-Stumbled upon Wheat Waffles
-Watched some Wheat Waffles, DBDR, and Julius Perceiver
-Wanted to looksmax because I was 14 and still khhv
-Still khhv now but I'm 15

 

[Part-Time Chad]

-Felt lonely last summer after school (9th grade) went on break
-Stumbled upon Wheat Waffles
-Watched some Wheat Waffles, DBDR, and Julius Perceiver
-Wanted to looksmax because I was 14 and still khhv
-Still khhv now but I'm 15

You're WAY ahead of where I was at 15. Good luck.

 

[diditeverbegin]

You're WAY ahead of where I was at 15. Good luck.

I'm going end up like rehab room or something. I haven't done any looksmaxes tbh, I really want braces but my parents might not be able to afford it.

 

[pprimus43]

My reasons:

- I was raised by very conservative immigrant Boomer parents from Sicily, which put me at odds with most of my American peers.

- I was born neurodivergent (I'm likely on the autism and schizophrenia spectrums). This made me awkward and weird.

- It also caused me to become a massive problem child in school, starting around second grade-- not a good way to start my social life.

- At 14 years old--just as I was finally starting to become socially adjusted in America and learning the ropes with girls--my parents and I moved to Sicily to stay. This caused a lot upheaval and forced me to start my life all over, in a different language no less.

- At age 17, we moved back to New York, but it was too late for me-- I had already spent the most important formative years of my life studymaxxing in the strict Italian school system and becoming socially very conservative to fit in with the culture there, when I should have been getting laid. This made me even more inhibited than I naturally already was.

- To make matters worse, my mother was a massive control freak, who cock-blocked me all the way through my teens and even into my early-20s. She would get insanely jealous and upset whenever she suspected I was talking to a girl on the phone, or trying to get close to one in person.

Years went by...

- One of the symptoms of my Asperger's is that I have sensory issues. I hate touching people and am very sensitive to odors. I also have an aversion to body heat. This proved to be a giant barrier to sex (as if I didn't already have enough problems).

More years went by...

- But what really sealed my fate was the fact that I suffer from a gastrointestinal disorder (inherited from my mother) that causes me to bloat on and off all day. This sometimes deforms my face and makes me ugly unexpectedly throughout the day, and foids react very negatively towards me, much more negatively than they do towards a regular ugly guy (at least he looks normal; I look diseased when I bloat). It took me many years to finally realize that I had this condition and even longer to understand how it had affected my sex and social life, dating all the way back to my childhood-- a titanic blackpill.

Anyway, that's the (very) short version of my story and here I am. What's your story?

1. Subhuman until 20 in terms of looks
2. Autism
3. Social anxiety/High inhib

 

[Part-Time Chad]

I'm going end up like rehab room or something. I haven't done any looksmaxes tbh, I really want braces but my parents might not be able to afford it.

At least you're actually aware of your problems. I had no idea when I was 15.

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Looks, brain chemistry and life experiences. There's rarely more to it than that.

True, because, if I wasn't an Aspie schizo bloatcel, I would have been able to slay anywhere, including Italy. I also would have stood up to my cockblocking mother.

 

[Klasik616]

The way my face looks
Lack of social circle

 

[Clown Show]

Getting bullied
Abusing drugs and alcohol at a young age
Getting acne and being abused dog from past experiences in HS
Bad mental health and PTSD
Now when I stabilised my life in late 20s, balding is the main issue and probably 5'8 height but I think that after HT I will ascend

 

[Vermilioncore]

It was on a night just like this;

I was on the internet and found a faceandlms video. I realized I was doomed. No pussy forever. Then one day I got pussy then I realized that the whole time I wasn’t incel I just tried to be one because I thought it was cool.

Tldr: I was Chad the entire time but refused pussy because I thought it was cool.

 

[TheVoidInside]

rly bad luck+no guidance when i was younger. i needed like 2 years of VERY melticulous grindmaxxing to get laid

 

[Part-Time Chad]

The way my face looks
Lack of social circle

Yep. In that order I might add.

 

[RapeAllFemales]

Shit parents, shit ratios, mental problems, myopia, ectomorph, shitty haircut and shitty clothes

 

[StacySexuaI]

Being a betabux friend simp for oneitis for years has left me cucked and sexualy frustrated + became giga high inhib because of parents + stacy only obsession

 

[Nick.Harte]

Don’t have time for a description but I’m gonna give a summary

Face is deformed and it became worse
Never had friends ( only acquaintances
).


Midget height. I was always the shortest guy in every group. Everyone still view me as a fuckkng kid

So I never knew how normal people were
living their lives, ie using dating apps , partying, going to clubs,etc…

High inhib
Non nt
Retarded

Was rejected irl and online.

 

[Nick.Harte]

Shit parents

 

[LTNUser]

Autism,shyness and lack of social life

 

[RecessedCels]

Face
Fatherlessness
Frame

 

[superpsycho]

dont feel like writing my life story but

racemixxed, face , height, retarded, low iq, abused dog

 

[BadLuck7892]

Strict parents.

ASD (which leads to all sorts of peripheral problems: shyness, social awkwardness, acting unknowingly creepy, being unable to read a foid's clues)

Phobia of pregnancy.

Mental illness.

The fact I don't own a car.

Fear of rejection (although a fear of rejection is understandable when you've been rejected the vast majority of the time).

Being partially Italian (with the body hair that goes with it) in the small town I was raised in where blonde hair, blue eyes, and no body hair are the norm.

Ending up in a big city as an adult where being White holds you back. Ironically, I wasn't White enough in the small town I was raised in, yet I'm not ethnic enough in the big city I currently live in.

 

[Deleted member 44526]

all copes, I spent my formative years in a hospital getting a cancer treatment and I am a slayer

stop victimizing yourself faggot and looksmaxx

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Shit parents, shit ratios, mental problems, myopia, ectomorph, shitty haircut and shitty clothes

Oh, did I mention that I developed myopia in Sicily due to all the studymaxxing? I ended up having to wear dorky glasses throughout much of my youth-- a massive looksmin and guaranteed unpopularity.

 

[Part-Time Chad]

Strict parents.

ASD (which leads to all sorts of peripheral problems: shyness, social awkwardness, acting unknowingly creepy, being unable to read a foid's clues)

Phobia of pregnancy.

Mental illness.

The fact I don't own a car.

Fear of rejection (although a fear of rejection is understandable when you've been rejected the vast majority of the time).

Being partially Italian (with the body hair that goes with it) in the small town I was raised in where blonde hair, blue eyes, and no body hair are the norm.

Ending up in a big city as an adult where being White holds you back. Ironically, I wasn't White enough in the small town I was raised in, yet I'm not ethnic enough in the big city I currently live in.

I suffered exactly most of these problems you describe. I could have made my thread even longer and included some of these.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I suffered exactly most of these problems you describe. I could have made my thread even longer and included some of these.

Some extras I could add:

I'm skinny (some foids don't want a skinny guy)

I barely drink (Don't get me wrong, I'm no Mormon. But I like to cap myself at one drink. I've never been the type to spend the whole night drinking. Unfortunately, a lot of opportunities to get laid are tied to party culture. Even with everything I have working against me, it's possible I might do better with foids if I was a partier)

Lack of a social circle is another problem.

 

[maximum cope31]

I will ascend

 

[darodcel]

Well I'm not an incel, I can get sex and have gotten sex before, I just can't get the high tier stacylites I want, which is my goal in life(one of them at least).

So I came here to improve my looks, but inadvertantly got whisked up into the world of the blackpill, so I browse and talk here ocasionally with other likeminded people.

 

[sam12344343]

My reasons:

- I was raised by very conservative immigrant Boomer parents from Sicily, which put me at odds with most of my American peers.

- I was born neurodivergent (I'm likely on the autism and schizophrenia spectrums). This made me awkward and weird.

- It also caused me to become a massive problem child in school, starting around second grade-- not a good way to start my social life.

- At 14 years old--just as I was finally starting to become socially adjusted in America and learning the ropes with girls--my parents and I moved to Sicily to stay. This caused a lot upheaval and forced me to start my life all over, in a different language no less.

- At age 17, we moved back to New York, but it was too late for me-- I had already spent the most important formative years of my life studymaxxing in the strict Italian school system and becoming socially very conservative to fit in with the culture there, when I should have been getting laid. This made me even more inhibited than I naturally already was.

- To make matters worse, my mother was a massive control freak, who cock-blocked me all the way through my teens and even into my early-20s. She would get insanely jealous and upset whenever she suspected I was talking to a girl on the phone, or trying to get close to one in person.

Years went by...

- One of the symptoms of my Asperger's is that I have sensory issues. I hate touching people and am very sensitive to odors. I also have an aversion to body heat. This proved to be a giant barrier to sex (as if I didn't already have enough problems).

More years went by...

- But what really sealed my fate was the fact that I suffer from a gastrointestinal disorder (inherited from my mother) that causes me to bloat on and off all day. This sometimes deforms my face and makes me ugly unexpectedly throughout the day, and foids react very negatively towards me, much more negatively than they do towards a regular ugly guy (at least he looks normal; I look diseased when I bloat). It took me many years to finally realize that I had this condition and even longer to understand how it had affected my sex and social life, dating all the way back to my childhood-- a titanic blackpill.

Anyway, that's the (very) short version of my story and here I am. What's your story?

I'm an incel for a few reasons. One is that I'm likely on the autism spectrum. I have a hard time socialising with people irl. For example, I hate large gatherings and crowds of people, I struggle to pick up on social cues and read facial expressions and I come across as too straightforward. This is detrimental because people just get annoyed with me pretty quickly, so as I went through adolescence I adapted to talking to people online or just locking myself in my room playing video games or something. I'm also a bloated LTN with a face full of acne, so I basically have the whole package lol. My only redeeming quality is my intelligence. I can pretty much learn anything extremely quickly if I'm interested in it, so that's one redeemable trait. Although, I'd trade this for being NT and having at least average looks

 

[Deleted member 103166]

I was brought up beening told I was autistic, I acted normal in primary school, the girls liked me, I was the most popular.

But when I went into secondary, my mom was all worried about my autim and how I need extra support.

So throughout secondary I acted wired, I'm a kissless Hugless virgin, girls showed interest in me but I acted wired.

I'm was in the car today with my mother, and it turns out I only showed traits in my youth when I was like 4 and I've adopted this autistic personality, when I just have traits. I've been acting all weird when I'm normal, my lifes over from a over protective mom

 

[asdvek]

does it bother you that if you joined this forum 5 days earlier youd have a 2021 join date, but u got 2022 bc of 5 days

 

[William Anderson]

all copes, I spent my formative years in a hospital getting a cancer treatment and I am a slayer

stop victimizing yourself faggot and looksmaxx

Tales from the sweatshop + looksmaxxing doesnt do anything if you have actual issues in life

 

[William Anderson]

-Felt lonely last summer after school (9th grade) went on break
-Stumbled upon Wheat Waffles
-Watched some Wheat Waffles, DBDR, and Julius Perceiver
-Wanted to looksmax because I was 14 and still khhv
-Still khhv now but I'm 15

You’re 15, girls your age fuck even the ugliest creature alive, done with teen faggots like you crying meanwhile youre at the age where bitches open their legs for any ugly idiot

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

Nah, fuck you

 

[diditeverbegin]

You’re 15, girls your age fuck even the ugliest creature alive, done with teen faggots like you crying meanwhile youre at the age where bitches open their legs for any ugly idiot

Well they haven't opened their legs for me

 

[superpsycho]

too many reasons why

 

[Part-Time Chad]

does it bother you that if you joined this forum 5 days earlier youd have a 2021 join date, but u got 2022 bc of 5 days

YES!

 

[ZENDRO]

Well they haven't opened their legs for me

 

[ZENDRO]

D