Did anyone else grow up with abusive parents?

[buddhistking]

Inb4 "muh typical nigger problems"

When I was 4 years old my dad once beat my mum so hard it made her bleed, and when I was 18, he cheated on her, they are divorced now

Also he wasn't really properly there for me like a real father should be, despite the fact that he was always in my life and still is now. Mostly he was a drunk who also worked, but my mother earned more than him despite also liking to drink alcohol regularly. The only reason I keep him around is cus my father's family back in Africa has alot of land and cutting them off means I won't inherit any of it

Also, my mother once said that "you are worse than cancer" because I had a bad report card that said I was misbehaving at school when I was 10, and she failed to cook me nutritious meals throughout my childhood/adolescence that I think lead me to being shorter than I should be in my mid 20s (full grown height), also neither of my parents ever gave me guidance for anything, I had to learn to be a man by myself

Now my parents want to act like they did everything for me cus I grew up middle class and I wasn't from "the hood" like most blacks are in relative poverty in the west

Anyways I wanted to know if anyone related to having neglect/abuse from their parents from a young age and if so, how did it affect you?

 

[ToryToad]

Never experienced abuse .I feel sorry for you

 

[buddhistking]

Never experienced abuse .I feel sorry for you

It's a sad reality, but I'm pushing on, it's my only choice

 

[ToryToad]

It's a sad reality, but I'm pushing on, it's my only choice

good

 

[Haseeb]

Bad parents give you a good role model of what not to be

 

[Alias!]

Inb4 "muh typical nigger problems"

When I was 4 years old my dad once beat my mum so hard it made her bleed, and when I was 18, he cheated on her, they are divorced now

Also he wasn't really there for me like a real father should be, despite the fact that he was always in my life and still is now. Mostly he was a drunk who also worked but my mother earned more than him despite also liking to drink alcohol regularly. The only reason I keep him around is cus my father's family back in Africa has alot of land and cutting them off means I won't inherit any of it

Also, my mother once said that "you are worse than cancer" because I had a bad report card that said I was misbehaving at school when I was 10, and she failed to cook me nutritious meals throughout my childhood/adolescence that I think lead me to being shorter than I should be in my mid 20s (full grown height), also neither of my parents ever have me guidance for anything, I had to learn to be a man by myself

Now my parents want to act like they did everything for me cus I grew up middle class and I wasn't from "the hood" like most blacks are in relative poverty in the west

Anyways I wanted to know if anyone related to having neglect/abuse from their parents from a young age and if so, how did it affect you?

Yeah now I get scared if someone tries to hug me.

 

[160cmcurry]

little to no sympathy for others

 

[buddhistking]

Bad parents give you a good role model of what not to be

I'm never going to be a parent period, I've already seen too much

 

[buddhistking]

Yeah now I get scared if someone tries to hug me.

Its a tragic reality of how our so called "nearest and dearest" are able to do us so wrong

little to no sympathy for others

Wait you have no sympathy? I'm a bit puzzled lol

 

[Michelangelo]

Inb4 "muh typical nigger problems"

When I was 4 years old my dad once beat my mum so hard it made her bleed, and when I was 18, he cheated on her, they are divorced now

Also he wasn't really there for me like a real father should be, despite the fact that he was always in my life and still is now. Mostly he was a drunk who also worked but my mother earned more than him despite also liking to drink alcohol regularly. The only reason I keep him around is cus my father's family back in Africa has alot of land and cutting them off means I won't inherit any of it

Also, my mother once said that "you are worse than cancer" because I had a bad report card that said I was misbehaving at school when I was 10, and she failed to cook me nutritious meals throughout my childhood/adolescence that I think lead me to being shorter than I should be in my mid 20s (full grown height), also neither of my parents ever have me guidance for anything, I had to learn to be a man by myself

Now my parents want to act like they did everything for me cus I grew up middle class and I wasn't from "the hood" like most blacks are in relative poverty in the west

Anyways I wanted to know if anyone related to having neglect/abuse from their parents from a young age and if so, how did it affect you?

Very similar situation, but my parents have been divorced since I was 3yo or younger. I grew up in an household with 3 foids and i was treated so badly i decided to go live with my father when I was around 13, but I went back living with my mother cause my father is also kind of a piece of shit. I lived most of my life in subhuman conditions: bad hygiene since i was a kid, bullied by my sisters (im the youngest), literally living in between dog shit cause my mother is a mentally ill bitch and decided to get 15 dogs in a small house and keep them inside all the time, forcing me to live in shit. When my depression peaked i was left living alone with my sisters in an apartment, with better living conditions but I was still not able to game in peace and i was so mentally destroyed i couldnt even talk to strangers or go out buying grocery, i was just rotting and being severely underweight and sleep deprived.
Then went to for years doing nothing cause my brain was completely fucked

 

[R@m@]

Having abusive parents will make you an unbalanced person, youre either someone who wants to see others suffer and dump that trauma on others or youre someone who is afraid of everyone to some degree

 

[Archimedes]

Yes lmao

 

[buddhistking]

Very similar situation, but my parents have been divorced since I was 3yo or younger. I grew up in an household with 3 foids and i was treated so badly i decided to go live with my father when I was around 13, but I went back living with my mother cause my father is also kind of a piece of shit. I lived most of my life in subhuman conditions: bad hygiene since i was a kid, bullied by my sisters (im the youngest), literally living in between dog shit cause my mother is a mentally ill bitch and decided to get 15 dogs in a small house and keep them inside all the time, forcing me to live in shit. When my depression peaked i was left living alone with my sisters in an apartment, with better living conditions but I was still not able to game in peace and i was so mentally destroyed i couldnt even talk to strangers or go out buying grocery, i was just rotting and being severely underweight and sleep deprived.
Then went to for years doing nothing cause my brain was completely fucked

Damn man, that's so fucked, but ur not alone bro, these parents are too fucked up and they literally give no fucks when they choose to have a child

 

[160cmcurry]

Its a tragic reality of how our so called "nearest and dearest" are able to do us so wrong


Wait you have no sympathy? I'm a bit puzzled lol

just don’t feel sorry for people. i was neighbors with a rich family, and seeing the contrast between their family dynamic, home life, and the one i grew up in has always made me resentful of people in a better state than me. we were really poor, was just beaten constantly, don’t really have any good childhood memories i can look back on

 

[buddhistking]

Having abusive parents will make you an unbalanced person, youre either someone who wants to see others suffer and dump that trauma on others or youre someone who is afraid of everyone to some degree

Yeah I'm definitely in the latter group, I get scared of people really easily, but I'm trying to work on that and build up some fight in me to survive in this sick world

Yes lmao

I'm what way?

 

[batman1997]

My father was not abusive during childhood but as i grew older during my teens he became distant and would Talk shit about me comparing me to my cousins and verbal agressión he isnt a good example of a good father to me for all the things he made me go through he never showed me Love I rarely have pics with him so yea..

 

[buddhistking]

just don’t feel sorry for people. i was neighbors with a rich family, and seeing the contrast between their family dynamic, home life, and the one i grew up in has always made me resentful of people in a better state than me. we were really poor, was just beaten constantly, don’t really have any good childhood memories i can look back on

Its just really unfair when you see ppl you grow up with live lives so much better than yours right in front of you, I experienced this at school with guys in my class, and the worst part is they can't even appreciate it and be humble, they'll still just insult you and look down on you

 

[Archimedes]

I'm what way?

Physical abuse when I was younger, and complete negligence basically. Also a lot of verbal abuse and talking down to me when I was only like 12 lmao, saying that I was good for nothing, etc. Too tired to write a lot.

 

[William Anderson]

Inb4 "muh typical nigger problems"

When I was 4 years old my dad once beat my mum so hard it made her bleed, and when I was 18, he cheated on her, they are divorced now

Also he wasn't really properly there for me like a real father should be, despite the fact that he was always in my life and still is now. Mostly he was a drunk who also worked but my mother earned more than him despite also liking to drink alcohol regularly. The only reason I keep him around is cus my father's family back in Africa has alot of land and cutting them off means I won't inherit any of it

Also, my mother once said that "you are worse than cancer" because I had a bad report card that said I was misbehaving at school when I was 10, and she failed to cook me nutritious meals throughout my childhood/adolescence that I think lead me to being shorter than I should be in my mid 20s (full grown height), also neither of my parents ever gave me guidance for anything, I had to learn to be a man by myself

Now my parents want to act like they did everything for me cus I grew up middle class and I wasn't from "the hood" like most blacks are in relative poverty in the west

Anyways I wanted to know if anyone related to having neglect/abuse from their parents from a young age and if so, how did it affect you?

Yep i could write a book about how my parents are the exact type of people who shouldnt have had kids

 

[buddhistking]

Physical abuse when I was younger, and complete negligence basically. Also a lot of verbal abuse and talking down to me when I was only like 12 lmao, saying that I was good for nothing, etc. Too tired to write a lot.

Yeah there's alot i didnt write either. I was just giving an overview, sometimes you go through so many traumas that speaking about them all is long and tiresome, this life is so damn complicated

Yep i could write a book about how my parents are the exact type of people who shouldnt have had kids

Definitely bro, our parents are a perfect example of what not to be, and tbh if this is the potential life that a child can live then I don't want kids at all

 

[Haseeb]

I'm never going to be a parent period, I've already seen too much

yea valid

 

[LatentIntellectual]

I am growing up with abusive parents. I plan to move out by the end of this year.

 

[Drugsmaxxer]

Yea I did sadly

 

[TiktokUser]

Inb4 "muh typical nigger problems"

When I was 4 years old my dad once beat my mum so hard it made her bleed, and when I was 18, he cheated on her, they are divorced now

Also he wasn't really properly there for me like a real father should be, despite the fact that he was always in my life and still is now. Mostly he was a drunk who also worked, but my mother earned more than him despite also liking to drink alcohol regularly. The only reason I keep him around is cus my father's family back in Africa has alot of land and cutting them off means I won't inherit any of it

Also, my mother once said that "you are worse than cancer" because I had a bad report card that said I was misbehaving at school when I was 10, and she failed to cook me nutritious meals throughout my childhood/adolescence that I think lead me to being shorter than I should be in my mid 20s (full grown height), also neither of my parents ever gave me guidance for anything, I had to learn to be a man by myself

Now my parents want to act like they did everything for me cus I grew up middle class and I wasn't from "the hood" like most blacks are in relative poverty in the west

Anyways I wanted to know if anyone related to having neglect/abuse from their parents from a young age and if so, how did it affect you?

Do you relate to this video blackcel

 

[superpsycho]

Never experienced abuse .I feel sorry for you

 

[superpsycho]

Yea I did sadly

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