did i fuck up my chances with a girl

[acm]

pretty much yesterday we were talking and shit. it was basic small talk about an exam we had and it changed our small talk count to 2. so I thought the interaction went smooth and I thought it'd be a good time to send a follow request

sent it, and in an hour she straight declined it. not ignore, but rejected me its holidays so I won't be coming back to school in weeks and I don't have classes with her but I think I severely fucked up

 

[acm]

bam

 

[Luca_.]

I’m sorry bro

 

[acm]

I’m sorry bro

im very sad about this it happened yesterday

 

[Luca_.]

im very sad about this it happened yesterday

What does she look like?

 

[vincentzygo]

yes

 

[acm]

it happened yesterday

I just realised I already mentioned that

I’m sorry bro

 

[acm]

What does she look like?

good. she has super dense eyebrows which was a unique halo which I liked about her

 

[acm]

yes

anyway to recover pls bro

 

[Luca_.]

I just realised I already mentioned that

 

[Luca_.]

good. she has super dense eyebrows which was a unique halo which I liked about her

What’s her rating? Mtb?

 

[acm]

What’s her rating? Mtb?

imo SL I'm definitely overrating cuz im biased towards my crush. my other friend said shes comfortably htb and another high mtb

 

[vincentzygo]

anyway to recover pls bro

dude she said no, rape her or move on

 

[Luca_.]

imo SL I'm definitely overrating cuz im biased towards my crush. my other friend said hes comfortably htb and another high mtb

And what’s your rating?

 

[acm]

And what’s your rating?

my same friend said high mtn so take it as u will

 

[acm]

dude she said no, rape her or move on

I could never I can't even goon to her cuz it feels really really really really really really wrong. there has to be any way to somehow recover this right??

 

[Luca_.]

my same friend said high mtn so take it as u will

If she’s htb and you play your cards right you have a chance with her. That is, if you play your cards right

 

[vincentzygo]

I could never I can't even goon to her cuz it feels really really really really really really wrong. there has to be any way to somehow recover this right??

no

 

[acm]

If she’s htb and you play your cards right you have a chance with her. That is, if you play your cards right

WHAT CARDS TO PLAY TELL ME THE WHOLE DECK

 

[Luca_.]

WHAT CARDS TO PLAY TELL ME THE WHOLE DECK

Treat her like a normal dude, and don’t be weird (aka don’t talk about sexual shit, she’ll just be creeped out)

 

[Luca_.]

I could never I can't even goon to her cuz it feels really really really really really really wrong. there has to be any way to somehow recover this right??

But if she already lost interest in you (even the slightest bit) there is no coming back from that

 

[acm]

But if she already lost interest in you (even the slightest bit) there is no coming back from that

hmm, I mean the few times I talked to her it was small talk like I said. she kept on with conversation so I assume she was just being polite and not genuinely interested. its hard to raise interest if you've only spoken twice and have no common classes together.

Treat her like a normal dude, and don’t be weird (aka don’t talk about sexual shit, she’ll just be creeped out)

I guess i was doing the right thing. but I just shot my shot wayyy too fuckifn early and I'm scared now any further interaction is gonna be stained cuz of that failed follow req

 

[LTNUser]

good. she has super dense eyebrows which was a unique halo which I liked about her

Was it arched or straight?

 

[GoErOnFoids]

If she declined kt theres no coming back i mean i dont think she ever wanted anything maybe ATTENTION LOL

 

[acm]

Was it arched or straight?

arched

 

[acm]

If she declined kt theres no coming back i mean i dont think she ever wanted anything maybe ATTENTION LOL

fuark I was hoping for any chance of recovery. shot way too early

The only chats we had was just polite small talk anyway

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

DNR but you're parents did when they had you

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

DR now and can confirm my previous statement

 

[GoErOnFoids]

fuark I was hoping for any chance of recovery. shot way too early

The only chats we had was just polite small talk anyway

There was never any chance if she didnt start the convo

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

How are these people allowed here

 

[acm]

How are these people allowed here

three replies to oen thread to see if I fucked up while speaking with a girl

Joined: Jun 8, 2025

but let me guess, new account been lurking since 2022

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

three replies to oen thread to see if I fucked up while speaking with a girl

Joined: Jun 8, 2025

but let me guess, new account been lurking since 2022

nigga you would have a point if you didn't just post asking if you talked to a foid slightly wrong and that's why she doesn't want to fuck you.

 

[acm]

nigga you would have a point if you didn't just post asking if you talked to a foid slightly wrong and that's why she doesn't want to fuck you.

?? yeah okay but usually when I post stuff like this i expect actual replies telling me of my irreversible fuck up and not retarded ragebait clogging my thread

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

?? yeah okay but usually when I post stuff like this i expect actual replies telling me of my irreversible fuck up and not retarded ragebait clogging my thread

Your post is the ragebait not mine

 

[acm]

Your post is the ragebait not mine

elaborate go

how is my post made to anger peoole

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

elaborate go

how is my post made to anger peoole

How someone can be so incredibly thick as too imply a girl brutally rejected him because of how he worded a conversation with her, yet you give no details on the actual conversation, there is no avenue to provide constructive 'feedback' in any sense. So even if this was down to your fucking personality jfl you're not looking for advice on that, you are looking for someone to help you cope and feed you some Jeremy Meeks bullshit like this is Reddit. I'm sorry about being a dickhead bro but like come on. Get real.

 

[ndmogger]

absolutely brutal

i would just rope tbh

 

[acm]

you're not looking for advice on that, you are looking for someone to help you cope and feed you some Jeremy Meeks bullshit like this is Reddit.

Your post is the ragebait not mine

so you must of understood that this is serious then lol.

How someone can be so incredibly thick as too imply a girl brutally rejected him because of how he worded a conversation with her, yet you give no details on the actual conversation, there is no avenue to provide constructive 'feedback' in any sense.

yeah well thats my fault. i typed this out my phone so it's annoying to provide all the proper context and shit. also its fucking org, i have to keep it short

DNR

because i want people to fuckign read my post and my mistake, not get spammed with DNRs. yeah you might say "oh well i did read it later" but you're probably in a minority anyway who actually read it to the people who just opened up the thread, saw the wall of text and jumped to another thread.


but you should be given enough based on me saying we had small talk a few times. the main point of me fucking up is the early timing and sending a follow request lirk an excited fuck instead of being patient.

but if you really want proper context: we were strangers and I had disguised intentions to try to get with her from friends > lovers type ish. I had small talk with her a few times and when this thread happened I realised I fuckrd up. I'm just going on a hunch and saying now I fucked up because

1. now she knows or may believe I like her
2. all of our future interactions now are awkward asf because of the rejected follow request

so my chances are in the mud. so yeah, I was looking for copes, constructive feedback and maybe recovery methods.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

so you must of understood that this is serious then lol.

yeah well thats my fault. i typed this out my phone so it's annoying to provide all the proper context and shit. also its fucking org, i have to keep it short

because i want people to fuckign read my post and my mistake, not get spammed with DNRs. yeah you might say "oh well i did read it later" but you're probably in a minority anyway who actually read it to the people who just opened up the thread, saw the wall of text and jumped to another thread.


but you should be given enough based on me saying we had small talk a few times. the main point of me fucking up is the early timing and sending a follow request lirk an excited fuck instead of being patient.

but if you really want proper context: we were strangers and I had disguised intentions to try to get with her from friends > lovers type ish. I had small talk with her a few times and when this thread happened I realised I fuckrd up. I'm just going on a hunch and saying now I fucked up because

1. now she knows or may believe I like her
2. all of our future interactions now are awkward asf because of the rejected follow request

so my chances are in the mud. so yeah, I was looking for copes, constructive feedback and maybe recovery methods.

Bro this ain't Schrodinger's cat, she already made up her mind about you within milliseconds of meeting you, you didn't "fuck anything up" the outcome was predetermined, I assumed this was ragebait cos how can a nigga have thousands of posts and not understand this. And I stand by my statement that your parent's fucked it up when they had you, that is the truth, it is even worse for me I assure you.

 

[acm]

Bro this ain't Schrodinger's cat, she already made up her mind about you within milliseconds of meeting you, you didn't "fuck anything up" the outcome was predetermined.

if that logic was correct itd be impossible to fumble girls. you see it all the time, girls who have an interest in a guy but he gave her the "ick" and now she isn't interested in him anymore or a guy doing something actually bad like say eating his boogers and now she doesn't liek him for his hygienic habits.

yeah your predetermined argument only applies when its only the extreme ends of looks. chad or subhuman is predetermined in their dating lives, but for the rest of us normies your social skills actually fucking matter hence people suffer from the NDpill

if youre bothered, go read this

Thread 'Motherfucking Socialpill!!!!' https://looksmax.org/threads/motherfucking-socialpill.1540167/

I assumed this was ragebait cos how can a nigga have thousands of posts and not understand this.

may as well look at the other posts. nobody else is interpreting it as ragebait, must be just you. but since when did post count correlate with your EQ/social reading skills? you realise most people on the forum here are autistic or terrible socially so it's actually the opposite

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

if that logic was correct itd be impossible to fumble girls. you see it all the time, girls who have an interest in a guy but he gave her the "ick" and now she isn't interested in him anymore or a guy doing something actually bad like say eating his boogers and now she doesn't liek him for his hygienic habits.

yeah your predetermined argument only applies when its only the extreme ends of looks. chad or subhuman is predetermined in their dating lives, but for the rest of us normies your social skills actually fucking matter hence people suffer from the NDpill

if youre bothered, go read this

Thread 'Motherfucking Socialpill!!!!' https://looksmax.org/threads/motherfucking-socialpill.1540167/

Foids only get the 'ick' with MTN's, come on bro quit coping, if your're a MTN it's just a matter of how long you last before you inevitability do something that is completely insignificant but makes her want to leave. And honestly the sooner the better so you don't lose the house and the kids jfl.

And why even play this game? Where you have to walk on a tightrope and jump through hoops when Chad can just beat the shit out of her and get the same/probably better result.

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

pretty much yesterday we were talking and shit. it was basic small talk about an exam we had and it changed our small talk count to 2. so I thought the interaction went smooth and I thought it'd be a good time to send a follow request

sent it, and in an hour she straight declined it. not ignore, but rejected me its holidays so I won't be coming back to school in weeks and I don't have classes with her but I think I severely fucked up

Thinking it wasn't over before it began and that it was you to fuck it up is a great cope.

 

[acm]

Foids only get the 'ick' with MTN's, come on bro quit coping, if your're a MTN it's just a matter of how long you last before you inevitability do something that is completely insignificant but makes her want to leave. And honestly the sooner the better so you don't lose the house and the kids jfl.

that is literally my point. an insane majority of us are legit normies, if you're saying they don't get it with htn as well you're delusional. look, I don't want to seem like I'm dodging your argument but its too open ended of a topic with hypergamy and eventual LTR to argue off. people are too complex, we can't properly be sure of what a mtn is or if any of the stuff you say is true. what I will say is that for relationships and people theres no formula or algorithm to predict everything. we can properly guess what will happen accurately like chad getting some ltb but if its something like this.idkkkk....

And why even play this game? Where you have to walk on a tightrope and jump through hoops when Chad can just beat the shit out of her and get the same/probably better result.

wanting to find an LTR and spread your seed is a biological need. yeah, I'm not chad, so it's a lot harder for me but I'm too young to give up and LDAR. I may as well try as much as I can to seek a LTR before I end up dying.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

that is literally my point. an insane majority of us are legit normies, if you're saying they don't get it with htn as well you're delusional. look, I don't want to seem like I'm dodging your argument but its too open ended of a topic with hypergamy and eventual LTR to argue off. people are too complex, we can't properly be sure of what a mtn is or if any of the stuff you say is true. what I will say is that for relationships and people theres no formula or algorithm to predict everything. we can properly guess what will happen accurately like chad getting some ltb but if its something like this.idkkkk....

wanting to find an LTR and spread your seed is a biological need. yeah, I'm not chad, so it's a lot harder for me but I'm too young to give up and LDAR. I may as well try as much as I can to seek a LTR before I end up dying.

You think so lowly of yourself that you feel you have to carry out that purpose, you are literally insentient if you believe this, your actions are no different than to any other member of the animal kingdom, just fuck and reproduce, fuck and fuck with no thought just more entropy and more entropy, and also if you don't believe in hypergamy what the fuck are you doing here .

 

[acm]

you don't believe in hypergamy what the fuck are you doing here .

of course I think its real dude. I assumed considering we're here we both think hyoergsmy is real and I tried to bend my arguments around it being real.

You think so lowly of yourself that you feel you have to carry out that purpose, you are literally insentient if you believe this, your actions are no different than to any other member of the animal kingdom, just fuck and reproduce, fuck and fuck with no thought just more entropy and more entropy.

so you're saying you a nihilist or something? I mean if that's how we conclude our argument with us just having different philosophical perspectives on lives i hope we ended on good terms. otherwise what the actual fuck is point of life? to ldar? one of my long term goals personally is to have kids and see them do well as long with other things. but if you wanna dedicate your life to LDARing, it's your life

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

of course I think its real dude. I assumed considering we're here we both think hyoergsmy is real and I tried to bend my arguments around it being real.

so you're saying you a nihilist or something? I mean if that's how we conclude our argument with us just having different philosophical perspectives on lives i hope we ended on good terms. otherwise what the actual fuck is point of life? to ldar? one of my long term goals personally is to have kids and see them do well as long with other things. but if you wanna dedicate your life to LDARing, it's your life

My point is that I have goals and ambitions in life that are not about reproduction, that is the mindset of an animal. I believe I have sentience above that of other animals, apparently most people do not.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

one of my long term goals personally is to have kids and see them do well as long with other things

You will just curse them with your genes and a famished nuclear wasteland to inherit, this is selfish. I do understand you it is appealing to me as well, but it is not humane so I will not pursue it, especially because I am not attractive enough to even have kids, not mention be attractive enough to have a relationship with a foid stable enough for a child. And I do not trust any foids with children.

 

[acm]

My point is that I have goals and ambitions in life that are not about reproduction, that is the mindset of an animal.

humans are biologically animals.

google definition of animal:

a living organism that feeds on organic matter, typically having specialized sense organs and nervous system and able to respond rapidly to stimuli

or look it up if you'd like. can't use the term "animal" as a degrading insult if we literally are just evolved animals.

I believe I have sentience above that of other animals, apparently most people do not.

this sort of makes me second guess what I said previously. are you referring to "other animals" as like actual monkeys and shit or just an insult for "barbaric humans"

You will just curse them with your genes and a famished nuclear wasteland to inherit, this is selfish. I do understand you it is appealing to me as well, but it is not humane so I will not pursue it, especially because I am not attractive enough to even have kids, not mention be attractive enough to have a relationship with a foid stable enough for a child. And I do not trust any foids with children.

yeah I guess thats the point. I'm trying everything I can do to move up the ranks of foid hypergamy in the hopes of reaching the top 20%, thats why im here on this site and made this specific post. and yeah, if you're genetics are monkey shit then you'd be cursing your kids with a subhuman existence. I like to be optimistic though and say if you're genetically good enough to find a parter to reproduce with, your DNA which is being passed down is definitely not bad enough to curse your kids. if they were, you'd never find a partner in the first place since no softmaxxes would help you. but hey, maybe you might luck out on genetic variation. just look at PSL gods and their parents

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

this sort of makes me second guess what I said previously. are you referring to "other animals" as like actual monkeys and shit or just an insult for "barbaric humans"

other animals as in other members of the animal kingdom monkeys dogs dolphins whatever u like.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

yeah I guess thats the point. I'm trying everything I can do to move up the ranks of foid hypergamy in the hopes of reaching the top 20%,

But why play this stupid game for foids? This is what I mean when I say 'above animals', I define sentience as the ability to take actions contrary to evolutionary programming, basically a higher intelligence that is not directly explicable. I believe atleast most people are capable of being sentient and not playing this stupid game and having other things they want to to do fulfill their life.