AscendBender
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I'm at a crossroads, and I think my brain has been sent off the rails. Before I looked the way I do now, I found myself getting as many girls as I do now just from being semi NT and interacting with girls and groups on a normal basis.
Now that I genuinely look good (easily top 5%, probably top 1% looks), I get effectively no women. I still feel I have a long way to go in terms of improving myself but I look better than the VAST majority of males on my college campus and elsewhere.
Now when it comes to approaching I mean girls. I probably get approached in the street or in a public setting by a girl who's being somewhat direct about 3 times a year. It could maybe be higher if we count indirect stuff, but it's hard to say who's into you and who actually is asking for directions. I get plenty of IOIs and girls looking at me, but it literally has no effect on my life as I don't approach girls or really talk to people.
Now whenever I go to clubs/social settings, I basically always have girls approach me and try and talk to me. Now the way they come across varies based on the inhib level of the place but those interactions always lead nowhere because I barely go anywhere.
Point is, what the fuck is the point of ascending if it leaves you in limbo like this.
And my real question is, do I either not look good enough to get the results I'm expecting, or it this some delusion that when you're chad, girls come flocking to you without you doing anything or going anywhere?
I'd love to hear you guys' experience and inputs.
Now that I genuinely look good (easily top 5%, probably top 1% looks), I get effectively no women. I still feel I have a long way to go in terms of improving myself but I look better than the VAST majority of males on my college campus and elsewhere.
Now when it comes to approaching I mean girls. I probably get approached in the street or in a public setting by a girl who's being somewhat direct about 3 times a year. It could maybe be higher if we count indirect stuff, but it's hard to say who's into you and who actually is asking for directions. I get plenty of IOIs and girls looking at me, but it literally has no effect on my life as I don't approach girls or really talk to people.
Now whenever I go to clubs/social settings, I basically always have girls approach me and try and talk to me. Now the way they come across varies based on the inhib level of the place but those interactions always lead nowhere because I barely go anywhere.
Point is, what the fuck is the point of ascending if it leaves you in limbo like this.
And my real question is, do I either not look good enough to get the results I'm expecting, or it this some delusion that when you're chad, girls come flocking to you without you doing anything or going anywhere?
I'd love to hear you guys' experience and inputs.
