[Discussion] Is going on dates cope? Should you always push for hookup or dates on dating apps?

[delta7]

Where are you supposed to take girls on dates to when u are broke 23 year old? I just want sex. I hate talking and dont want to connect with girls on a date because I'm too self conscious of my flaws to meetup with the girls so I have lost so countless opportunities from these girls on dating apps. I live with my parents so I cant bring the girls over for sex so only option is their house or my car but majority will not want to do hookup straight up if you're not chad so what do I do? Go on dates with them or always push for sex ?

The majority of normies fail by going on dates IMO. Think about it, After a date, girls will hyper analyze you and your flaws and what u said and most likely reject u if youre not chadlite. But if you do sex on 1st date, she will justify your flaws since you fucked her and she won't feel like shes making that mistake.

 

[Deleted member 5891]

hookup straight up if you're not chad

Here you have your answer

 

[Deleted member 7917]

I'm too self conscious of my flaws to meetup with the girls

JFL, why even try looksmax if you are this high inhib?

Starting to feel like this is a forum for copers even worse than the bluepill

 

[penis3]

Just take her out for food and go 50/50, if she doesn't want you to come over to hers first time

next time go to her home and smash

if she says no then abandon ship

boom not hard

 

[delta7]

JFL, why even try looksmax if you are this high inhib?

Starting to feel like this is a forum for copers even worse than the bluepill

Just take her out for food and go 50/50, if she doesn't want you to come over to hers first time

next time go to her home and smash

if she says no then abandon ship

boom not hard

And risk losing money for potentially never seeing her again? Oh hell nah

 

[delta7]

JFL, why even try looksmax if you are this high inhib?

Starting to feel like this is a forum for copers even worse than the bluepill

If your'e not chad. what is the point of dates when Chad can fuck them when he wants. It's cucked to go on dates when chadlite doesn;t have to, do you get what I'm saying?

 

[penis3]

And risk losing money for potentially never seeing her again? Oh hell nah

You're going 50/50 on the food dumbo

and getting some foid interaction which you clearly need

 

[delta7]

You're going 50/50 on the food dumbo

and getting some foid interaction which you clearly need

Women can never truly love you for you unless your'e chad. So as a normie PSL wise, tell me what is the point of wasting money on a 2020 woman when Chad can fuck them on them just coming over.

 

[Deleted member 7917]

If your'e not chad. what is the point of dates when Chad can fuck them when he wants. It's cucked to go on dates when chadlite doesn;t have to, do you get what I'm saying?

You just admitted you are too high inhib to even go on a date. No one is going to believe your pathetic act now

Youre a fucking loser. How can you cope when you literally admitted the real reason you won't date JFL

 

[penis3]

Women can never truly love you for you unless your'e chad. So as a normie PSL wise, tell me what is the point of wasting money on a 2020 woman when Chad can fuck them on them just coming over.

newcel moment

so why make this thread then if you've already given up?>

ALL YOU WILL BE DOING IS LITERALLY SPENDING 20$ FOR YOUR FOOD WHILE SHE PAYS FOR HERS, NOT ONLY THAT BUT YOURE CLEARLY A VIRGIN AND NEED THE FOID INTERACTION EVEN IF DOESN'T LEAD TO SEX

ITS LITERALLY THE SAME AS EATING OUT BY YOURSELF

 

[delta7]

newcel moment

so why make this thread then if you've already given up?>

ALL YOU WILL BE DOING IS LITERALLY SPENDING 20$ FOR YOUR FOOD WHILE SHE PAYS FOR HERS, NOT ONLY THAT BUT YOURE CLEARLY A VIRGIN AND NEED THE FOID INTERACTION EVEN IF DOESN'T LEAD TO SEX

ITS LITERALLY THE SAME AS EATING OUT BY YOURSELF

I'm not a virgin. I have a body count of 10 so maybe that;'s why I self distorted my view. the 10 hookups were from dating apps in the past 6 months. On these 10 different girls, only 1 was a legit "date". The other 9 were car sex or at her place. If a girl wont hookup with you on first meetup, isn;t it a waste of time?

 

[Amnesia]

Always go for the hookup on the first date, its the womans job to choose who gets to have sex with her, they expect men to try. Even if they want a relationship and "wait" and arent the slutty type the actually wont respect men who are passive

Being aggressive as a male is an attractive trait to all women

 

[delta7]

Always go for the hookup on the first date, its the womans job to choose who gets to have sex with her, they expect men to try. Even if they want a relationship and "wait" and arent the slutty type the actually wont respect men who are passive

Being aggressive as a male is an attractive trait to all women

Oh I know those redpill tactics on the date, but I'm saying from a dating app perspective. When on the app, Should you ask the girl out for a straight up hookup on first meeting or a date? Because i mostly ask for hookups on the dating apps and most say no, some agree. But am i wasting pussy when i could have met them on a date first and then escalate there?

 

[Amnesia]

Oh, no don't be that straightforward. Set something up that can easily be transitioned back to ur house or a place where sex is easy to do. I always push for them coming straight over to my apartment, some won't do it and want to meet in a public place so I always have them go to the nearest coffee place to chat for a bit first then say to continue this back at my place

 

[delta7]

Oh, no don't be that straightforward. Set something up that can easily be transitioned back to ur house or a place where sex is easy to do. I always push for them coming straight over to my apartment, some won't do it and want to meet in a public place so I always have them go to the nearest coffee place to chat for a bit first then say to continue this back at my place

How many matches do you typically get on dating apps since your'e a Chadlite? Do you age fraud?