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You are watching a movie in a cinema. Consider the following situations:
1) A hot actress appears seminude in a scene and groups of male friends in the audience whisper to each other how hot she is.
2) Chad takes off his shirt in a scene, and the females in the audience note to each other how attractive he is.
My theory is that both situations are bad for males; 1 happens more often, 2 happens more violently, 1 empowers women, 2 shames men, and 2 is increasingly normalized. It seems to make sense when you take hypergamy into account.
I began thinking about this because of something that happened to me, I was watching a movie in earlier this week and there's a scene in which a famous chad actor takes his shirt off. The females went insane, started talking to each other loudly during the movie and some started taking pictures with their cellphones (with flash even), this went on for minutes, the situation did strike me as aggressive and exaggerated. I wouldn't conceive of this happening the other way around, guys interrupting a movie because of a hot actress. I feel ashamed and inadequate when this type of thing happens, and imagine the other guys present in these situations feel similar.
Situations like 1 are common and females are sexualized in media more often than men, but I think the purpose is simply to explore our visually oriented brains to capture our attention, and females don't seem to feel as ashamed when it happens, but actually feel empowered by it because they know they aren't excluded from these displays of male sexual attraction, as males aren't hypergamous - in other words, they know men are capable of being attracted to them in approximately the same degree as they are to the sexualized female in the screen. So whenever men show to be attracted to some hot female like in situation 1, they are simply displaying/training/engaging in their willingness to value, desire and direct attention to female sexually in general, and this is empowering to women (this would explain stuff like "not watching porn is misogynistic" or the hatred directed at volcels, in both cases males aren't willing to participate in the sexualization of females and thus in their empowerment). When males are sexualized in media, on the other hand, something different seems to be going on, females seem to use it as an opportunity to assert themselves sexually (this would explain why they do it so loudly, publicly) over males around them, by implictly contrasting them to the hypergamous ideal (chad) they fall short of. In the violence of these moments, in the loud, aggressive, surprising displays of sexual desire from the part of females towards chad, we are reminded that women are physically incapable of being attracted to us, the average or low status guy, at any meaningful, genuine, significant degree.
Also there might be something to be said about how situations such as 2 are becoming increasingly normalized or even institutionalized. For example I've had female teachers say in front of a class how some male actor or famous chad is hot, and have all the female students agree enthusiastically, but if it was the other way around (a male teacher) it would probably sound creepy. Also the mainstream success of books or movies like Fifty Shades of Grey might be an example of this.
TLDR; Females like it when men sexualize other females because it shows that they are subordinated to female sexuality in general, and also use the public sexualization of chads in entertainment or media to shame men as inadequate. Thus any displays of the male attraction to females, or of the female attraction to chads, benefits females and shames men, and these situations are becoming increasingly common and explicit.
Toughts?
1) A hot actress appears seminude in a scene and groups of male friends in the audience whisper to each other how hot she is.
2) Chad takes off his shirt in a scene, and the females in the audience note to each other how attractive he is.
My theory is that both situations are bad for males; 1 happens more often, 2 happens more violently, 1 empowers women, 2 shames men, and 2 is increasingly normalized. It seems to make sense when you take hypergamy into account.
I began thinking about this because of something that happened to me, I was watching a movie in earlier this week and there's a scene in which a famous chad actor takes his shirt off. The females went insane, started talking to each other loudly during the movie and some started taking pictures with their cellphones (with flash even), this went on for minutes, the situation did strike me as aggressive and exaggerated. I wouldn't conceive of this happening the other way around, guys interrupting a movie because of a hot actress. I feel ashamed and inadequate when this type of thing happens, and imagine the other guys present in these situations feel similar.
Situations like 1 are common and females are sexualized in media more often than men, but I think the purpose is simply to explore our visually oriented brains to capture our attention, and females don't seem to feel as ashamed when it happens, but actually feel empowered by it because they know they aren't excluded from these displays of male sexual attraction, as males aren't hypergamous - in other words, they know men are capable of being attracted to them in approximately the same degree as they are to the sexualized female in the screen. So whenever men show to be attracted to some hot female like in situation 1, they are simply displaying/training/engaging in their willingness to value, desire and direct attention to female sexually in general, and this is empowering to women (this would explain stuff like "not watching porn is misogynistic" or the hatred directed at volcels, in both cases males aren't willing to participate in the sexualization of females and thus in their empowerment). When males are sexualized in media, on the other hand, something different seems to be going on, females seem to use it as an opportunity to assert themselves sexually (this would explain why they do it so loudly, publicly) over males around them, by implictly contrasting them to the hypergamous ideal (chad) they fall short of. In the violence of these moments, in the loud, aggressive, surprising displays of sexual desire from the part of females towards chad, we are reminded that women are physically incapable of being attracted to us, the average or low status guy, at any meaningful, genuine, significant degree.
Also there might be something to be said about how situations such as 2 are becoming increasingly normalized or even institutionalized. For example I've had female teachers say in front of a class how some male actor or famous chad is hot, and have all the female students agree enthusiastically, but if it was the other way around (a male teacher) it would probably sound creepy. Also the mainstream success of books or movies like Fifty Shades of Grey might be an example of this.
TLDR; Females like it when men sexualize other females because it shows that they are subordinated to female sexuality in general, and also use the public sexualization of chads in entertainment or media to shame men as inadequate. Thus any displays of the male attraction to females, or of the female attraction to chads, benefits females and shames men, and these situations are becoming increasingly common and explicit.
Toughts?
