Do I come across as romantic?

Do I come across as romantic?


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A couple of people on here and girls IRL say I tend to come across as romantic. Is this a bad thing?

A girl I spoke to on video calls recently called me "dreamy".

It would have been so nice to be physically there with her in a cosy library or coffee store, on a cold winter's day, reading a chosen, favourite book out aloud taking turns to read, or maybe playing one of my favourite board or puzzle games with her while I gaze into her pretty eyes. I really liked her.

I'm also searching for love and a heart of gold, and not random pussy.

It seems like it's cucked to come off as "romantic" to a girl you're interested in, since she could either reject you or get into an affair with Chad later on.
 
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no you come across as autistic
 
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You come across as a larper
 
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romantic=cuck
 
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A couple of people on here and girls IRL say I tend to come across as romantic. Is this a bad thing?

A girl I spoke to on video calls recently called me "dreamy".

It seems like it's cucked to come off as "romantic" to a girl you're interested in, since she could either reject you or get into an affair with Chad later on.
Being romantic is not a problem as long as it is within limits. Do not be someone who shows interest too much or too often, otherwise it is no longer special and you may come across as altruistic.
 
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Being romantic is not a problem as long as it is within limits. Do not be someone who shows interest too much or too often, otherwise it is no longer special and you may come across as altruistic.
I understand. I think the best thing to do is to listen and understand.
 
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@decadouche57 Why not?
 
@kranerman23123 Why not?
 
Being romantic is not a problem as long as it is within limits. Do not be someone who shows interest too much or too often, otherwise it is no longer special and you may come across as altruistic.
Do I seem it or not?
 
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Do I seem it or not?
You seem nice so that may contribute to you being seen as romantic and the fact that you say you only want to share your life with 1 woman may be considered romantic by some people. But the only one who can answer this is you. Do you show a lot of affection through acts of service, words of affirmation, or other kind gestures? Then yes maybe you are romantic.
 
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You seem nice
Thank you so much.
so that may contribute to you being seen as romantic and the fact that you say you only want to share your life with 1 woman may be considered romantic by some people.
That's what I really want.
But the only one who can answer this is you. Do you show a lot of affection through acts of service, words of affirmation, or other kind gestures?
I try my best to and it pays off. Making someone feel wanted, taken care of and special fills me with satisfaction and joy.
Then yes maybe you are romantic.
 
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Larping bot
 
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looks halo imo your chad so anything you say is filtered through your face
 
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Thank you so much.
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That's what I really want.

I try my best to and it pays off. Making someone feel wanted, taken care of and special fills me with satisfaction and joy.
Of course that is no problem at all, just remember be romantic in moderation. too much romantic sensitivity can overburden a relationship and you will come across as a tryhard, or worse she will abuse your affection.
 
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A couple of people on here and girls IRL say I tend to come across as romantic. Is this a bad thing?

A girl I spoke to on video calls recently called me "dreamy".

It would have been so nice to be physically there with her in a cosy library or coffee store, on a cold winter's day, reading a chosen, favourite book out aloud taking turns to read, or maybe playing one of my favourite board or puzzle games with her while I gaze into her pretty eyes. I really liked her.

I'm also searching for love and a heart of gold, and not random pussy.

It seems like it's cucked to come off as "romantic" to a girl you're interested in, since she could either reject you or get into an affair with Chad later on.
You are very inexperienced, naive, giga closeted chadsexual. I think you have good intentions though I can feel it in your posts. Being romantic is good, just dont look desperate or clingy AND it will work as long as she right person. If someones mocking u for being romantic it wasnt meant to work anyway
 

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