Do i have to be dominating and hyper masculine in a relationship for foids? (Users whove dated a lot GIH)

[looks>books]

Like the Andrew Tate sigma grindset ts jfl

Im pretty good looking already but Im like a chill guy i dont do push pull I reply hecka fast and im not like naturally hypermasculine and dominating etc


Users whove dated hecka is it the only way?
Im naturally very clingy and kind

This has mostly always been the reason I fumble but i dont want to learn my lesson.

Normally she really likes me because I start out with “game” but the second i become authentic I fumble badly.

 

[jjbomb]

The only thing that matters is your looks, how 'good' looking? 7? 8?

 

[looks>books]

The only thing that matters is your looks, how 'good' looking? 7? 8?

Weve met hecka times and shes hecka down but the second i start being authentic thats when it fails. Pattern recognition.

 

[moliuny]

Just speak normally, the appearance will speak for you.
You dont have to be a piece of shit to get a foid.
Speak normally, Tease foids a little bit from time to time, Don't run behind her, Dont crave her attention she'll eventually come.

Normally she really likes me

Y just speak normally gng, give urself a 1 week time, if you dont do something significant in 1 week (date, kiss, sex ) then just move on or give the last shot at day 8 asking her to be ur gf

Mark me as solution

 

[jjbomb]

uh, definetly dont masculinity maxx at the start then become 'geniunune', basically dont lie then > show your face, if youre attractive the classic bluepill "just be yourself" is the truth

 

[jjbomb]

what i would simply suggest is make your base personality better, research social skills, practice, things like mirroring their movements slightly after 10 seconds, etc, personality maxx works

 

[looks>books]

what i would simply suggest is make your base personality better, research social skills, practice, things like mirroring their movements slightly after 10 seconds, etc, personality maxx works

Yeah i do this but its not naturally me

 

[jjbomb]

Yeah i do this but its not naturally me

doesnt matter brother, nobody likes the 'natural you', make a mask for others to see, or you can cope and say 'its a better version of me', but this is what everybody does, ive found great sucess in autistically learning social skills and borderline manipulation and tested on social acquaintances, it's harsh but nobody loves u for who you are, rather for who they want you to be

 

[jjbomb]

I just realized a contradiction, i told you to not fake your personality but then to do it, what i mean is, dont introduce personality A, then go for B, turn your personality C (your core) into personality D and stick with it / mold it depending, nobody likes anything 'natural'