Do I truly qualify as an incel

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1 year ago today, I was on bus and as I was getting off at my stop some girl handed me a note written in the lightest fucking ink ever. I got off the bus and read the not it said something like "my friend likes you". About a week later when I was getting this bus a girl gave me her snap. We talked for a bit, barely, I was truly high inhib even over messages. Eventually we went to the cinema and she brought a friend and I brought some too. I barely talked to her this night, she didn't exactly try too much either. Later that night she messaged me saying she was nervous bla bla bla. We continued talking on snapchat a little eventually she ghosted me.

Also this girl I worked with over the Christmas period I defo could have slayed but she was fat, but probably would have been htb if she lost weight in hindsight.

Being ND truly is a punishment