Do not rely on IOIs and attention to feel attractive

[AscendBender]

The experiences I've had lately with females make literally no sense whatsoever.

Long story short, I've had slayable females approach me recently, gotten IOIs, but surprisingly all of these literally made me feel worse about myself at the end. I won't go until detail about all of them but when you are GL, women will try to ego you for a multitude of reasons.

Sometimes women will literally reject you because of their own self-image; they think that you're going to slay them and leave, that you aren't serious, and sometimes don't even want to be with you because they don't feel they deserve you. They literally try and make you play their games to put you to the test, and it's your choice if you want to.

I was gonna tell a couple stories from recently but I'll save it for a later date. Point is that when you ascend (which you will), you will literally feel the exact same about yourself until you improve your self-concept. Nothing external will fix the internal, so the first step to not feeling like shit is fixing your brain. I'm making progress in doing so, and I hope all of you are too.

 

[LTNUser]

I used to rely on IOIs to feel better about myself but I later realised that the IOIs I got were nothing special but I kinda miss it because I no longer get attention.

 

[VohnnyBoy]

I've had slayable females approach me recently, gotten IOIs, but surprisingly all of these literally made me feel worse about myself at the end

wtf

 

[gigacumster3000]

yo i've totally been there brah its crazy how even positive female attention can sometimes make you feel like shit right?

 

[isis_Bleach]

I used to rely on IOIs to feel better about myself but I later realised that the IOIs I got were nothing special but I kinda miss it because I no longer get attention.

not true LTN if u got iois

 

[AscendBender]

yo i've totally been there brah its crazy how even positive female attention can sometimes make you feel like shit right?

It's crazy

 

[AscendBender]

wtf

Yep

 

[AscendBender]

I used to rely on IOIs to feel better about myself but I later realised that the IOIs I got were nothing special but I kinda miss it because I no longer get attention.

I know it sounds crazy but it's better to cultivate inner peace than go back into that cycle

 

[enchanted_elixir]

The experiences I've had lately with females make literally no sense whatsoever.

Long story short, I've had slayable females approach me recently, gotten IOIs, but surprisingly all of these literally made me feel worse about myself at the end. I won't go until detail about all of them but when you are GL, women will try to ego you for a multitude of reasons.

Sometimes women will literally reject you because of their own self-image; they think that you're going to slay them and leave, that you aren't serious, and sometimes don't even want to be with you because they don't feel they deserve you. They literally try and make you play their games to put you to the test, and it's your choice if you want to.

I was gonna tell a couple stories from recently but I'll save it for a later date. Point is that when you ascend (which you will), you will literally feel the exact same about yourself until you improve your self-concept. Nothing external will fix the internal, so the first step to not feeling like shit is fixing your brain. I'm making progress in doing so, and I hope all of you are too.

This has genuinely been the case for me. Despite going from LTN to high MTN/low HTN, my self-concept hasn't changed.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

The experiences I've had lately with females make literally no sense whatsoever.

Long story short, I've had slayable females approach me recently, gotten IOIs, but surprisingly all of these literally made me feel worse about myself at the end. I won't go until detail about all of them but when you are GL, women will try to ego you for a multitude of reasons.

Sometimes women will literally reject you because of their own self-image; they think that you're going to slay them and leave, that you aren't serious, and sometimes don't even want to be with you because they don't feel they deserve you. They literally try and make you play their games to put you to the test, and it's your choice if you want to.

I was gonna tell a couple stories from recently but I'll save it for a later date. Point is that when you ascend (which you will), you will literally feel the exact same about yourself until you improve your self-concept. Nothing external will fix the internal, so the first step to not feeling like shit is fixing your brain. I'm making progress in doing so, and I hope all of you are too.

You just get a temporary ego boost lasting about 1-5 hours.

 

[AscendBender]

This has genuinely been the case for me. Despite going from LTN to high MTN/low HTN, my self-concept hasn't changed.

Same brother.