Do we all have abusive parents in this forum?

davidlaidisme67

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In my years on .org I’ve seen countless threads of guys being abused by their fathers either physically or verbally and I’ve gone through the same thing. It’s caused me a lot of mental anguish and have a lot of psychological issues cause of it. I think a high percentage of you guys relate as well. Legit saw a thread today about abusive fathers. Giga brutal. The family pill is one of the hardest to swallow
 
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Bump
 
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Nope
 
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My parents aren’t abusive but in the past they were
 
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In my years on .org I’ve seen countless threads of guys being abused by their fathers either physically or verbally and I’ve gone through the same thing. It’s caused me a lot of mental anguish and have a lot of psychological issues cause of it. I think a high percentage of you guys relate as well. Legit saw a thread today about abusive fathers. Giga brutal. The family pill is one of the hardest to swallow
Nah
 
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In my years on .org I’ve seen countless threads of guys being abused by their fathers either physically or verbally and I’ve gone through the same thing. It’s caused me a lot of mental anguish and have a lot of psychological issues cause of it. I think a high percentage of you guys relate as well. Legit saw a thread today about abusive fathers. Giga brutal. The family pill is one of the hardest to swallow
It normal unless your white
 
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Since you weren’t abused by your parents, I’ll make sure to verbally abuse you daily to make sure you’re not feeling left out
 
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No
 
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It normal unless your white
Nah that’s not true. While white parents dont tend to physically abuse their kids, white fathers are pretty verbally abusive
 
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I wouldn't go as far as to say abusive more toxic I guess
 
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Nope I have loving parents not sure why I’m in this forum
 
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They are more on the neglecting/ignoring side than the abusive one
 
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Mentally abusive
 
In my years on .org I’ve seen countless threads of guys being abused by their fathers either physically or verbally and I’ve gone through the same thing. It’s caused me a lot of mental anguish and have a lot of psychological issues cause of it. I think a high percentage of you guys relate as well. Legit saw a thread today about abusive fathers. Giga brutal. The family pill is one of the hardest to swallow
The amount of psychological stress in early life shapes the way you think and act, forever.

High cortisol environments during childhood ruin your entire social life irrepairably. So I think there is truth to your theory.
 
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The amount of psychological stress in early life shapes the way you think and act, forever.

High cortisol environments during childhood ruin your entire social life irrepairably. So I think there is truth to your theory.
Yeah I have a friend even though he’s a chad, he has terrible social anxiety and I believe it’s due to his verbally abusive father
 
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I had awful parents and I’m whiter than a snowman. It’s not just an ethnic thing.
 
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I had awful parents and I’m whiter than a snowman. It’s not just an ethnic thing.
Yeah evil parents are just in every race bro it’s brutal, this is why we need to get psychological tests done on every future parent
 
I wouldn't say abusive but just super neglective. Dad completely left and mom is just shit at parenting
 
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In my years on .org I’ve seen countless threads of guys being abused by their fathers either physically or verbally and I’ve gone through the same thing. It’s caused me a lot of mental anguish and have a lot of psychological issues cause of it. I think a high percentage of you guys relate as well. Legit saw a thread today about abusive fathers. Giga brutal. The family pill is one of the hardest to swallow
The amount of psychological stress in early life shapes the way you think and act, forever.

High cortisol environments during childhood ruin your entire social life irrepairably. So I think there is truth to your theory.
me except from my mother. She told me that I should kill myself and she wishes she never had me when I was 8.
because of her i'm scared of foids today and it's largely why i'm an incel.
 
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me except from my mother. She told me that I should kill myself and she wishes she never had me when I was 8.
because of her i'm scared of foids today and it's largely why i'm an incel.
Holy fuck man that’s terrible, you didn’t deserve that especially as a child
 
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me except from my mother. She told me that I should kill myself and she wishes she never had me when I was 8.
because of her i'm scared of foids today and it's largely why i'm an incel.
How old are you now, and what is your current relationship with her?
 
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Holy fuck man that’s terrible, you didn’t deserve that especially as a child
yeah, it sucks. She constantly tormented me for whatever stupid bullshit she could find to pick on me for.
That's why I hate people who say mentalcels don't exist.
If I had a normal upbringing I wouldn't even know what a forum is.
 
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How old are you now, and what is your current relationship with her?
I'm 24 in a few months. My current relationship with her is meh. Obviously she doesn't hit me anymore but sometimes when she gets mad at me she still calls me a failure/ loser and and whatever shit but it doesn't get to me as much anymore and it's nowhere near as frequent.
But the damage has been done.
 
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I'm 24 in a few months. My current relationship with her is meh. Obviously she doesn't hit me anymore but sometimes when she still gets mad at me and calls me a failure/ loser and and whatever shit but it doesn't get to me as much anymore and it's nowhere near as frequent.
But the damage has been done.
How old is she? You should get revenge
 
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She's 44. Not really much I can do. I'm dependent on them.
Become financially independent, no matter what it takes or how difficult it is. Then you can heal.

Look for shared flats with college students or similar. Or move to a 1-room-apartment near your work. Get a low end job in retail if you must. Learn all the skills you'll need to live on your own without Mom's help on YouTube as you go: cooking, cleaning, washing/ironing clothes etc.
 
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No that’s not normal where I am
 
In my years on .org I’ve seen countless threads of guys being abused by their fathers either physically or verbally and I’ve gone through the same thing. It’s caused me a lot of mental anguish and have a lot of psychological issues cause of it. I think a high percentage of you guys relate as well. Legit saw a thread today about abusive fathers. Giga brutal. The family pill is one of the hardest to swallow
My parents aren’t really abusive. My parents are allowing me to live with them rent free into my late 20s. But other than that they aren’t really that nice. They use me as a servant. While I live here I do all the chores and take care of the house.

My mom also has wayyy to high expectations for me. She wanted me to become a teacher just like her. But being a teacher is not only immensely stressful, it’s extremely dangerous for a man. I just want to live a small quiet existence with a quiet job. But my family wants me to become something I just can’t become…
 
Narcissistic mom n dad was working long asf, took a while but I put it past me working on moving out now
 
not abusive towards me but the family dynamic is super fucked
basically they are abusive towards each other
 

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