
Xangsane
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For the average Western woman, there is still a gap between who they want and who they end up with in an LTR/marriage.
Breaking It Down Clinically:
Reality of Western Women & Hypergamy in Long-Term Commitment (LTRs & Marriage)
Breaking It Down Clinically:

Category of Men | Who Women WANT for LTR/Marriage | Who They ACTUALLY End Up With |
---|---|---|
Chad (Top 0.1%) | Nearly 100% of women want this tier. | <1% of women actually marry this tier. |
Chadlite (Top 2%) | Very high demand, highly desired for LTR. | Small fraction of women secure one long-term. |
HTN (Top 10%) | Aspirational partner for most women. | Some women land an HTN, but most settle below this. |
High MTN (Top 20%) | Most women still prefer this. | A large % of women end up here instead of HTN. |
MTN (40-50%) | Often rejected for LTRs, kept as backup options. | Majority of women’s actual marriages end up here. |
LTN (50%+ Below Average) | Very few women genuinely want this. | The “settle for stability” crowd ends up here. |