Do you approach girls in the gym?

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I've approached a few in the past but it lead nowhere, just me getting ignored after a few days

However, i look better now so I'm wondering is it worth trying again, especially since I get IOIs daily


What you all think?
 
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retarded place to approach a girl

approaching girls in general is dumb 90% of time anyways unless you're chadlite facially and 7+ inches taller
 
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I've approached a few in the past but it lead nowhere, just me getting ignored after a few days

However, i look better now so I'm wondering is it worth trying again, especially since I get IOIs daily


What you all think?
I mean for me even when I get IOis i dont really approach since I go to the gym at the same time everyday and if it goes bad its gonna be kinda awkward to see them every time i go to the gym.
 
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retarded place to approach a girl

approaching girls in general is dumb 90% of time anyways unless you're chadlite facially and 7+ inches taller
kinda agree, i am bout low CL and i only start a convo if i get pure pure obvious IOIs
 
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retarded place to approach a girl

approaching girls in general is dumb 90% of time anyways unless you're chadlite facially and 7+ inches taller
True, but considering OLD is even more brutal when it comes to looks, what are we sub chadlites supposed to do?
 
No, i‘m not retarded enough to do that
 
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I mean for me even when I get IOis i dont really approach since I go to the gym at the same time everyday and if it goes bad its gonna be kinda awkward to see them every time i go to the gym.
Yeah this happened to me unfortunately, but if I didn't approach them, the chance of something happening is zero
kinda agree, i am bout low CL and i only start a convo if i get pure pure obvious IOIs
How do you meet girls usually?
 
True, but considering OLD is even more brutal when it comes to looks, what are we sub chadlites supposed to do?
how i've had success with women as sub chadlite

just luck really, right place right time sort of thing

getting into an environment with 50/50 girls to boys and being better looking than 75% of boys will often result in some type of romance]

but it's all will of God
 
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how i've had success with women as sub chadlite

just luck really, right place right time sort of thing

getting into an environment with 50/50 girls to boys and being better looking than 75% of boys will often result in some type of romance]

but it's all will of God
What would be such environments?


Because OLD, gym and clubs are majority of men and cold approaching is brutal too

I'm not in school anymore so that isn't an option either
 
Yeah this happened to me unfortunately, but if I didn't approach them, the chance of something happening is zero

How do you meet girls usually?
well the easiest way to get female attention in my case (basically guaranteed) is going to a club with my slayer friend(he is like the biggest slayer i know), he is extroverted and super NT so he basically introduces us to a random group of females, I basically dont have to do anything demanding since i am GL. Other ways are like simply adding girls on IG, they see my profile pic and they follow me back 9 out of 10 times and I just start spitting game in the chat kinda low inhib in DMs, or i answer their story(you'll probably know where you stand based on their response if its dry or not, and the last way is tinder/hinge etc.
 
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It's dumb imo. Unless you and the foid have some sorta connection (aka crossing paths at the same gym often) or she gives you choosing signals
 
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how i've had success with women as sub chadlite

just luck really, right place right time sort of thing

getting into an environment with 50/50 girls to boys and being better looking than 75% of boys will often result in some type of romance]

but it's all will of God
better, go into an environment with 95% girls and be the ugliest guy out of the 4, but have a big 10 inch big meat and begin sending anonymous dick pics to all of the girls making them fall in love with you
 
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I did and I regret it because I have to see the foid I liked so my advice is no. Don't approach if you're not a muscular 6ft HTN atleast.
 
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It's dumb imo. Unless you and the foid have some sorta connection (aka crossing paths at the same gym often) or she gives you choosing signals
Well I mean, I'm pretty regular at the gym so I often see same girls multiple times in a week, sometimes they smile at me but still not sure how good my chances are
 
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I did and I regret it because I have to see the foid I liked so my advice is no.
Once girls reject me I lose all attraction i had towards them so that's not a problem, it's just kinda awkward seeing each other again

On the plus side, sometimes they look surprised that I look better if I don't see them often
 
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Not if you ever wanna go back to that same gym
Hahahahahha
 
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I was never in the gym much nor am I comfortable starting a conversation with anyone new, but I did get IOIs there that I regret not approaching, get your own answer to this question.
 
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Doesn't matter where you approach. Tbh since so many cucks are saying 'don't approach in the gym' you are actually being alpha and a bad guy doing the opposite
 
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I've approached a few in the past but it lead nowhere, just me getting ignored after a few days

However, i look better now so I'm wondering is it worth trying again, especially since I get IOIs daily


What you all think?
never approach in gym , it never works . They are all attention seeking , only time i smashed at the gym was when i matched with a girl on tinder who went to the same gym im going to , but before that she stated she saw me numerous times , how come she never approached? They dont approach nor do they like to be approached
 
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Well I mean, I'm pretty regular at the gym so I often see same girls multiple times in a week, sometimes they smile at me but still not sure how good my chances are
I personally wouldn't risk it bcuz it'd be awkward running into em afterwards lol. But if you're low inhib then go for it
 
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I personally wouldn't risk it bcuz it'd be awkward running into em afterwards lol. But if you're low inhib then go for it
Seems like something low inhib ethnics would do
 
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No because I go at the same time every day and see the same people every time too high risk for minimal reward

I got approached at the gym once recently though
 
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Once girls reject me I lose all attraction i had towards them so that's not a problem, it's just kinda awkward seeing each other again

On the plus side, sometimes they look surprised that I look better if I don't see them often
U can't be doing it more than once bruh

It's over when you're the PUA nigga at ur gym
 
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U can't be doing it more than once bruh

It's over when you're the PUA nigga at ur gym
Yep people talk
The bitch you approach will have friends there and it’s over for you
 
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best is to approach them somewhere outside the gym but knowing them from the gym. this is how i met my gf, when i met her on the way to the gym and asked her if shes going there

its a good opener. but u need luck to find them somewhere outside or you just message her on social media and ask
 
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Doesn't matter where you approach. Tbh since so many cucks are saying 'don't approach in the gym' you are actually being alpha and a bad guy doing the opposite
Only if you're attractive
never approach in gym , it never works . They are all attention seeking , only time i smashed at the gym was when i matched with a girl on tinder who went to the same gym im going to , but before that she stated she saw me numerous times , how come she never approached? They dont approach nor do they like to be approached
I agree that most of them are attention seeking but I'm still puzzled how so many girls are okay with staying single


For example, I approached this girl in gym that was looking at me and smiling and we had a great conversation and chemistry, and next day she ignored me

Make it make sense
 
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I personally wouldn't risk it bcuz it'd be awkward running into em afterwards lol. But if you're low inhib then go for it
Seems like something low inhib ethnics would do
Not ethic but I've seen enough Arab LTN guys dating blonde German girls
Confused Rooster Teeth GIF by Achievement Hunter
 
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U can't be doing it more than once bruh

It's over when you're the PUA nigga at ur gym
I did it 4 times and I've been at this gym for 7 years

Kinda sucks seeing all those whores with nice asses and not being able to fuck them, makes you low inhib sometimes
 
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Yep people talk
The bitch you approach will have friends there and it’s over for you
Funny enough you say that, this one girl I approached immediately talked it over with her friends

Later on (after getting ignored by that girl) her friend refused to even exercise next to me and then after a couple of months after I leanmaxed, she was smiling whenever I walked in

But I was still holding a grudge from before so I ignored her, she had good body though
 
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Why are you on this aite if youre chad lite
Many such cases, their ego so high that it's not enough most girls would fuck them, they need to have every girl so us sub HTNs have nothing
 
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Why are you on this aite if youre chad lite
Many such cases, their ego so high that it's not enough most girls would fuck them, they need to have every girl so us sub HTNs have nothing
ahahah, there is maybe some truth in that, but im here mostly because i grew up extremely blackpilled since i was insanely short in my youth (like 5'1 at 15), im average height now but i still experienced how cruel bp is.
 
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No cause for some reason all the girls are too old for some reason...
 
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I did and I regret it because I have to see the foid I liked so my advice is no. Don't approach if you're not a muscular 6ft HTN atleast.
I watched Stacies reject Chads in my shape. You have to understand, not all Stacies are single. And just because she's at a gym DOES NOT mean she's single. So approaching a girl in a gym, not knowing if she's single, isn't something I would advise because some girls take that as an insult. You're disrespecting her personal relationship as if telling her, she made a mistake or shouldn't have a boyfriend/husband. It doesn't matter if you knew that or not! Women expect you to know these things. And some engaged women can be pretty brutal to a man's ego. Ah, yes, I watched men rejected by women (already involved with someone) never return to the gym.
 
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I've approached a few in the past but it lead nowhere, just me getting ignored after a few days

However, i look better now so I'm wondering is it worth trying again, especially since I get IOIs daily


What you all think?
I wouldn't advise approaching girls anywhere ngl, especially not the gym if you aren't at least a tall HTN

men go there to do their workouts and don't wanna be bothered, foids go there in case they get approached by chad :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
 
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No because they are all mentally ill
 
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I watched Stacies reject Chads in my shape. You have to understand, not all Stacies are single. And just because she's at a gym DOES NOT mean she's single. So approaching a girl in a gym, not knowing if she's single, isn't something I would advise because some girls take that as an insult. You're disrespecting her personal relationship as if telling her, she made a mistake or shouldn't have a boyfriend/husband. It doesn't matter if you knew that or not! Women expect you to know these things. And some engaged women can be pretty brutal to a man's ego. Ah, yes, I watched men rejected by women (already involved with someone) never return to the gym.
It's always kinda a lottery reading your comments, sometimes you just nail it with excellent advice and other times you trolling with sarcastic undertones

It's also sometimes hard to tell which is which
 
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I wouldn't advise approaching girls anywhere ngl, especially not the gym if you aren't at least a tall HTN

men go there to do their workouts and don't wanna be bothered, foids go there in case they get approached by chad :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
What else I'm supposed to do then? Just jerk off in the bathroom to the creepshots I took of girls of questionable age?
 
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retarded place to approach a girl
"Dont approach women in the gym bro they are there to work out :soy:"

"Dont approach women in the store bro they are there to buy stuff:soy:"

"Dont approach women at your job bro they are there to work :soy:"

"Dont approach women on the street bro they got places to go to:soy:"
 
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What else I'm supposed to do then? Just jerk off in the bathroom to the creepshots I took of girls of questionable age?
I mean you can try to approach them... I'm just telling you that it's usually all in vain, I just personally wouldn't do that

jbg brate ne pokušavam te demoralizirat ali to je tako inače :forcedsmile:
 
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I mean you can try to approach them... I'm just telling you that it's usually all in vain, I just personally wouldn't do that

jbg brate ne pokušavam te demoralizirat ali to je tako inače :forcedsmile:
Fellow balkancel, malo nas je ali nas ima jfl

Unfortunately i know by experience that's in the vain, life if easier in Balkans if you're 190 cm, 200 kg ogre


"On nije debel, samo malo puniji" - everyone in my family

Over for us leanmaxed pretty boys
 
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Fellow balkancel, malo nas je ali nas ima jfl

Unfortunately i know by experience that's in the vain, life if easier in Balkans if you're 190 cm, 200 kg ogre


"On nije debel, samo malo puniji" - everyone in my family

Over for us leanmaxed pretty boys
ti si oko 182 cm ako se dobro sjećam, tako nešto? da, to je malo brutal ovdje...

al nezz mislim da ta ideja da moraš bit 190cm oger pomalo odumire, barem u zagrebu... gle i dalje će neke gaserke možda preferirat takve likove al samo pod uvjetom da su visoki... prettyboyevi dobijaju na popularnosti ovdje tako da nije skroz over za nas twinkcelove :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
 
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ti si oko 182 cm ako se dobro sjećam? da, to je malo brutal ovdje...

al nezz mislim da ta ideja da moraš bit 190cm oger pomalo odumire, barem u zagrebu... gle i dalje će neke gaserke možda preferirat takve likove al samo pod uvjetom da su visoki... prettyboyevi dobijaju na popularnosti ovdje tako da nije skroz over za nas twinkcelove :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
180🥲, not even 6 feet

Aaaa ne znam, sve koje znam is srednje se nadebljali i opet svi imaju cure

Ali ja sam u Njemačkoj, ovdje je prosjek točno 180 za muškarce pa nije toliko brutalno


Koje su tvoje stats?
 
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180🥲, not even 6 feet

Aaaa ne znam, sve koje znam is srednje se nadebljali i opet svi imaju cure

Ali ja sam u Njemačkoj, ovdje je prosjek točno 180 za muškarce pa nije toliko brutalno


Koje su tvoje stats?
A gle, oni imaju cure al vjv nisu looksmatched u većini slučajeva...

Da, čuo sam da si ti u Njemačkoj... aj tamo je valjda bolje po tom pitanju, ako se ne varam ti si isto Dalmoš podrijetlom jel? U Dalmaciji je visina sve...

Ja imam 190cm i onako 73kg twinkcel, taj art kuja appeal radim :lul::lul::lul:
 
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A gle, oni imaju cure al vjv nisu looksmatched u većini slučajeva...

Da, čuo sam da si ti u Njemačkoj... aj tamo je valjda bolje po tom pitanju, ako se ne varam ti si isto Dalmoš podrijetlom jel? U Dalmaciji je visina sve...

Ja imam 190cm i onako 73kg twinkcel, taj art kuja appeal radim :lul::lul::lul:
Da, ružne su im jfl

U Dalmaciji je visina sve, ovdje je social circle sve, ne znam za klubove pošto ne idem u njih, ali da, rekao bi da su cure niže pa nije toliko brutalno što se tiče visine

Kako tebi ide s curama?
Ne bi trebalo biti teško since you're 190...
 
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očekivano :lul::lul::lul: "b-but at least I got a gf" :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:



ngl social circle je isto bitan ovdje ja bi rekao...



21 yo KHHV :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
Similar here

Možda mi je smo non NT, but hey, at least we mog 🙃
 
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Similar here

Možda mi je smo non NT, but hey, at least we mog 🙃
da legit je do mentalceldoma iskreno...

ja sam imao prilike da možda odem u vezu sa nekim curama kroz svoj život al nisam toliko nisko pao da dejtam LTBove "know your worth king" :soy:
 
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da legit je do mentalceldoma iskreno...

ja sam imao prilike da možda odem u vezu sa nekim curama kroz svoj život al nisam toliko nisko pao da dejtam LTBove "know your worth king" :soy:
Ja nekad i pomislim da sam imao prilika s curama, ali isto tako kad sam cold approach cure s kojima sam mislio da ima nešto, odbile su me

Još malo pa ću početi ped cycle, ako ništa ima još cura koje se pale na mišiće, s manjim prioritetom na facu
 
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