Do you guys get stared at

[iblamemandible7]

How do you tell the difference between a good stare and a bad stare?

Tryna ntmaxx

 

[iblamemandible7]

bump

 

[superpsycho]

nope

 

[RealNinja]

Yes. By men and women. I’m not Chad in terms of appeal or PSL but I do have strong bone structure so I think some people just look at my face because it’s interesting even if they aren’t attracted to me. I’m usually around 6’3 in public with shoes and lifts and have a decent bidelt so that definitely increases the amount of stares.

If a girl stares at me while smiling and giving me the eyes, that’s an obvious IOI. If it’s just a couple seconds of eye contact with a neutral expression I don’t assume much. Not worth putting mental effort into thinking about it.

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[superpsycho]

How do you tell the difference between a good stare and a bad stare?

Tryna ntmaxx

youll probably be able to tell when it happens to u

 

[iblamemandible7]

Yes. By men and women. I’m not Chad in terms of appeal or PSL but I do have strong bone structure so I think some people just look at my face because it’s interesting even if they aren’t attracted to me. I’m usually around 6’3 in public with shoes and lifts and have a decent bidelt so that definitely increases the amount of stares.

If a girl stares at me while smiling and giving me the eyes, that’s an obvious IOI. If it’s just a couple seconds of eye contact with a neutral expression I don’t assume much. Not worth putting mental effort into thinking about it.

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Mogs me to death

 

[iblamemandible7]

Yes. By men and women. I’m not Chad in terms of appeal or PSL but I do have strong bone structure so I think some people just look at my face because it’s interesting even if they aren’t attracted to me. I’m usually around 6’3 in public with shoes and lifts and have a decent bidelt so that definitely increases the amount of stares.

If a girl stares at me while smiling and giving me the eyes, that’s an obvious IOI. If it’s just a couple seconds of eye contact with a neutral expression I don’t assume much. Not worth putting mental effort into thinking about it.

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Im subhuman but for some reason they dont look disgusted like they used to I still wouldnt call it positive tho jfl

 

[iblamemandible7]

youll probably be able to tell when it happens to u

Bro Im so non nt its insane I prolly wont

 

[superpsycho]

Bro Im so non nt its insane I prolly wont

same

 

[superpsycho]

 

[RealNinja]

Im subhuman but for some reason they dont look disgusted like they used to I still wouldnt call it positive tho jfl

People look at each other for literally any reason bro, it’s just human nature. They might think you’re ugly, might think you’re attractive. They might just find your face interesting or see something intriguing about your outfit or the way you’re walking.

Either way don’t think about it too hard. I used to overanalyze every stare and look I got. If it was a bad day I’d get extremely insecure and go down a negative spiral to the point of being suicidal about my looks. If it was a good day I’d be looking in the mirror thinking “yeah I’m Chad as fuck bro” like a dickhead. Eventually you learn to just let it ride and not let it affect you.

Zero point in thinking about it if you aren’t going to do anything. If you aren’t approaching, Does it matter if that girl was staring at you because she thinks you’re hot? If you aren’t going to buck up at him, does it matter if that guy was staring at you because he wants to fight?

 

[Deleted member 114837]

i'm sorry man. your looks and harmony are brutal

Yes. By men and women. I’m not Chad in terms of appeal or PSL but I do have strong bone structure so I think some people just look at my face because it’s interesting even if they aren’t attracted to me. I’m usually around 6’3 in public with shoes and lifts and have a decent bidelt so that definitely increases the amount of stares.

If a girl stares at me while smiling and giving me the eyes, that’s an obvious IOI. If it’s just a couple seconds of eye contact with a neutral expression I don’t assume much. Not worth putting mental effort into thinking about it.

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[Deleted member 114837]

while smiling and giving me the eyes, that’s an obvious IOI

Disagree, many girls are just polite and if you also look at them will reciprocate with smile.
There isn't any certain way to know if it's an IOI, but with time and experience you can notice pattern : It's usually in the eyes stare, and the numbers : If half+ women give you that same stare and don't stop looking at you, while you know you're objectively chadlite+ with good harmony, then most of the time it's an IOI. And usually if anything rather GL women will try to look at you with some angry stare to not show they're into you and validate you.

I usually tend to smile back at anyone staring at me, as a form of politeness because it's cringe to stare at and be stared at. but that doesn't mean at all i find the girl Good looking.

 

[True_North]

How do you tell the difference between a good stare and a bad stare?

Tryna ntmaxx

Stared/catcalled from jailbait, 18+ women are more subtle about it and you gotta catch them in reflections or with peripherals. Milfs sometimes smile and grin.

To NTmax you need to actually approach and talk to them though. Otherwise you're just untapped potential and walking eye candy.

 

[Deleted member 114837]

you need to actually approach and talk to them though

Nt is the opposite of cold approaching. Cold approaching is cringe and non nt and will pretty much never work and won't lead to anything serious even if you're gigachad.
While knowing you have appeal through validation, iois, halo effect, will make you more confident to do warm approaches and social max.

 

[Bewusst]

Yeah and it's uncomfortable, but I just ignore it

 

[iblamemandible7]

Either way don’t think about it too hard. I used to overanalyze every stare and look I got. If it was a bad day I’d get extremely insecure and go down a negative spiral to the point of being suicidal about my looks. If it was a good day I’d be looking in the mirror thinking “yeah I’m Chad as fuck bro” like a dickhead

Real asf

 

[iblamemandible7]

Stared/catcalled from jailbait, 18+ women are more subtle about it and you gotta catch them in reflections or with peripherals. Milfs sometimes smile and grin.

To NTmax you need to actually approach and talk to them though. Otherwise you're just untapped potential and walking eye candy.

My plan is to get my hand on some "supplements", is it even possible to ntmaxx without those?

 

[pfl]

 

[iblamemandible7]

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I got racks now rhonda

 

[iblamemandible7]

Nt is the opposite of cold approaching. Cold approaching is cringe and non nt and will pretty much never work and won't lead to anything serious even if you're gigachad.
While knowing you have appeal through validation, iois, halo effect, will make you more confident to do warm approaches and social max.

How do I learn about all this bhai

Is it just in botb

 

[Deleted member 114837]

How do I learn about all this bhai

Is it just in botb

you can't learn it without lots of experience. Ascend gradually and analyze people. You will get it. Everyone can ascend.

 

[averagenormie]

Yes. By men and women. I’m not Chad in terms of appeal or PSL but I do have strong bone structure so I think some people just look at my face because it’s interesting even if they aren’t attracted to me. I’m usually around 6’3 in public with shoes and lifts and have a decent bidelt so that definitely increases the amount of stares.

If a girl stares at me while smiling and giving me the eyes, that’s an obvious IOI. If it’s just a couple seconds of eye contact with a neutral expression I don’t assume much. Not worth putting mental effort into thinking about it.

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Who are you oiled up for

 

[True_North]

Nt is the opposite of cold approaching. Cold approaching is cringe and non nt and will pretty much never work and won't lead to anything serious even if you're gigachad.
While knowing you have appeal through validation, iois, halo effect, will make you more confident to do warm approaches and social max.

I never said cold approaching, but cold approaching is literally the lowest inhib activity in the world and a sign of high T/healthy childhood socialization. But overall I'd agree warm approaching is better for people who don't want to take ego hits.

 

[Deleted member 114837]

lowest inhib activity in the world and a sign of high T/healthy childhood socialization

It's exactly this and that's why it's a problem. You can be low inhibit but just be a brute. The hardest part is not even to "cold", but it's to have the right answer and social understanding of the situation to make it look smooth and not weird or cringe. And that can't be learned or very very hardly. I know because i had a phase where i forced myself to cold for ego and manly goals. And i also forced myself to be very witty for the female brain. But still after like 10 cold approaches - all htb+ -, i only got 4 numbers and they were barely replying. 3 of those who rejected me told me they were married - always look at their rings - eventho they looked in their 20s. And one straight up said blabla i just broke up with my ex i need time for myself.

In fact cold approaching is better for uglier guys with lots of flirt capabilities than for chads with mere low inhibition but non top tier flirting skills.

 

[True_North]

My plan is to get my hand on some "supplements", is it even possible to ntmaxx without those?

100% possible and probably the most virtuous option, but you'll have serious mental resistance at first. Pregab/propranolol/baclofen/phenibut/etc... Lubricate the wheels when starting out, but it also depends how you respond to each one, not to mention opening up a world of potential abuse if you don't check yourself.

Drugsmaxxing to train NT behaviour is based, but make sure you actually put work in, otherwise you'll just rot and game with a buzz.

 

[Deleted member 114837]

100% possible and probably the most virtuous option, but you'll have serious mental resistance at first. Pregab/propranolol/baclofen/phenibut/etc... Lubricate the wheels when starting out, but it also depends how you respond to each one, not to mention opening up a world of potential abuse if you don't check yourself.

Drugsmaxxing to train NT behaviour is based, but make sure you actually put work in, otherwise you'll just rot and game with a buzz.

Knowing all the sides i got from drugs recommended by pslers here - mostly indian dwellers let's be honest - i would never ever advice to take any drug ever, no matter the benefits, it will fuck you hard in the long run. It's worse than poison.
Do it naturally, face struggle, face failure, be a man and learn from your mistakes. Eventho honestly cold approaching is useless, but it's important to make you feel like a man.

 

[iblamemandible7]

100% possible and probably the most virtuous option, but you'll have serious mental resistance at first. Pregab/propranolol/baclofen/phenibut/etc... Lubricate the wheels when starting out, but it also depends how you respond to each one, not to mention opening up a world of potential abuse if you don't check yourself.

Drugsmaxxing to train NT behaviour is based, but make sure you actually put work in, otherwise you'll just rot and game with a buzz.

I know Im gonna get addicted for a fact based on my experience but honestly Id rather deal with that than who I am right now

 

[True_North]

. But still after like 10 cold approaches - all htb+ -, i only got 4 numbers and they were barely replying. 3 of those who rejected me told me they were married - always look at their rings - eventho they looked in their 20s. And one straight up said blabla i just broke up with my ex i need time for myself.

In fact cold approaching is better for uglier guys with lots of flirt capabilities than for chads with mere low inhibition but non top tier flirting skills.

Those are good numbers tbh. Daygame cold approaching is brutal and I think most people have skewed perceptions of what's realistic.

~30-40% of women in any given area are taken, meaning unless you get unfaithful cheating sluts, nearly half of all women auto reject you no matter what. Then even if you're good looking, you'll still need to filter the ones who are down, not on their period, don't have explosive diarrhea, and aren't in a "situationship" with their chad oneitis. Then ofc there's texting them, which a bunch will fall through to attrition and only a % of those will be down to meetup.

"Game" is literally just being good looking and spamming attempts, letting the law of averages do its thing. You're still gonna need to put work in as a HTN. Only chadlites and PSL gods get the red carpet rolled out.

 

[Never Get Up]

Penis in vagina without having to pay while being consensual is the only iOi.

 

[swt]

ya

 

[stufftodo]

yeah but i think it's my schizophrenia

 

[Deleted member 114837]

Those are good numbers tbh. Daygame cold approaching is brutal and I think most people have skewed perceptions of what's realistic.

To be honest, my approaches were also the best i could think of : Not complimenting her, staying chill but still aware and present, trying to give a prince vibe. etc.

~30-40% of women in any given area are taken, meaning unless you get unfaithful cheating sluts, nearly half of all women auto reject you no matter what. Then even if you're good looking, you'll still need to filter the ones who are down, not on their period, don't have explosive diarrhea, and aren't in a "situationship" with their chad oneitis. Then ofc there's texting them, which a bunch will fall through to attrition and only a % of those will be down to meetup.

And that's why it's such a hassle. I'm naturally introvert but forced my way to be extroverted and it consumes too much vital energy.
Now i just approach if i find a stacy or someone who looks unreal to me, so that it's worth the hassle.

"Game" is literally just being good looking and spamming attempts, letting the law of averages do its thing. You're still gonna need to put work in as a HTN. Only chadlites and PSL gods get the red carpet rolled out.

Even chadlites or chads don't get much better treatment from COLDING by themselves. I went from below average to htn, to chadlite and now i have few procedures to do to reach chad, and the only difference is in how you get iois, get warm or cold approached, and the wider appeal. But there are barely any changes in when you cold by yourself.

 

[True_North]

I know Im gonna get addicted for a fact based on my experience but honestly Id rather deal with that than who I am right now

Honestly if you're predisposed to addiction, Just max out your stats looks wise and get your T levels up gymmaxxing to start out. Put approaching on a shelf if you have mental health shit to sift through, otherwise rejections could just put you more into a pit if you have rejection sensitivity. Daygaming is pretty savage and will chew you up if you're in a bad mood. Jestermaxxing requires a particular zero fucks given attitude and foids expect you to hard-carry conversations, which is hard to force when you feel like shit.

The healthiest method in the end is realizing you're gonna get BTFO at first from being a spergy ND and take the initial rejections on the chin. It cauterizes your fears and rewires your brain into realizing the ooga booga tribe leader won't crush your skull with a rock for macking on his harem. The drugs are just lube for the painal which is socializing as a ND, but you still need enough baseline levels of nutsack for them to work.

 

[Spookybah]

i get stared at but its because im creepy looking. I have really long unkempt thick and curly hair. But im always getting random compliments about it so no clue.

 

[WellDevelopedIndian]

nope

Bro, everywhere I go, I see your username and bio “victim of race mixing” “low IQ” Brutal

 

[WellDevelopedIndian]

Im subhuman but for some reason they dont look disgusted like they used to I still wouldnt call it positive tho jfl

When you call yourself “subhuman” what exactly do you mean by that? Are you disgustingly hideous or just below average?

 

[WellDevelopedIndian]

Penis in vagina without having to pay while being consensual is the only iOi.

Finally someone with a brain!

 

[True_North]

To be honest, my approaches were also the best i could think of : Not complimenting her, staying chill but still aware and present, trying to give a prince vibe. etc.

And that's why it's such a hassle. I'm naturally introvert but forced my way to be extroverted and it consumes too much vital energy.
Now i just approach if i find a stacy or someone who looks unreal to me, so that it's worth the hassle.

Even chadlites or chads don't get much better treatment from COLDING by themselves. I went from below average to htn, to chadlite and now i have few procedures to do to reach chad, and the only difference is in how you get iois, get warm or cold approached, and the wider appeal. But there are barely any changes in when you cold by yourself.

Yep. You also need to be pretty fkn horny to even have the motivation to COOLD. The numbers game is unforgiving, but like you said earlier, it's long-term an important part of feeling good about yourself.

I had the same progress from LMTN to HTN, and other than iois, the shit that changed my results the most were always my inhib levels at the end of the day. I've been on both extremes of the inhib spectrum, which is why NT being law is the hill I will die on.

 

[superpsycho]

Bro, everywhere I go, I see your username and bio “victim of race mixing” “low IQ” Brutal

fuck my life

 

[7"L×6"G currymaxxer]

Penis in vagina without having to pay while being consensual is the only iOi.

Exactly
GUys here be like
Muh she smile at me
Muh she followed me on ig

 

[RealNinja]

i'm sorry man. your looks and harmony are brutal

I’m hoping to get to HTN with surgery when I’m in my twenties.

 

[appealisLAW]

a lot of ppl say it doesn't mean much, but imo a girl looking at you while in public thinking you don't see her or making an eye contact is not something ugly people experinece.

 

[appealisLAW]

a lot of ppl say it doesn't mean much, but imo a girl looking at you while in public thinking you don't see her or making an eye contact is not something ugly or avg looking people experinece.

 

[Sonneillon]

YHow do you tell the difference between a good stare and a bad stare?

Tryna ntmaxx

You will know it