Do you guys think you’re capable of a relationship?

[ChadL1te]

Serious question, I feel like even if some of you ascend you’ll be incapable of forming a real connection with a girl.

Hell, being on this forum means you’re already a step behind. It’s taken me a while to get where I am emotionally and physically and get a decent amount of IOIs now but I have a hard time committing to anything. But if I found the right person I’d be fine, it’s not like I’ve never had an intimate relationship

What do you guys think ?

 

[moodless]

I'm in good LTR

 

[raabla]

I think I’d just need to get the hang of it or get use to who I’m with

 

[Super Gooner]

Its not actually that hard, if your goodlooking enough or recognise that you have to lower your standards for your lookmatch

 

[Mess]

Yeah I can have a relationship, I've had three
it's only if your non-nt, that's where it gets hard if your looks don't compensate for them

 

[The Dark Phoenix]

No

 

[NZb6Air]

Statistical chimera to find a woman that'll be compatible with me NT-wise,

I'm pretty sure I'll have to settle with some retarded bitch

 

[Clown Show]

For me, it's over.

 

[Clqs]

A mentally ill bitch who's gonna play with your feelings for 3 months out of boredom and then leave you is ideal

 

[Pikabro]

I think the problem is giving her ick with the way you act

 

[ChadL1te]

I'm in good LTR

Nice bro

 

[ChadL1te]

Statistical chimera to find a woman that'll be compatible with me NT-wise,

I'm pretty sure I'll have to settle with some retarded bitch

Take my nt courses

I think the problem is giving her ick with the way you act

I act normally irl

 

[longjohnmong]

I had a 10 year long relationship, so yeah.

 

[ChadL1te]

I had a 10 year long relationship, so yeah.

you like 30 years old?

 

[longjohnmong]

you like 30 years old?

I'm 41

 

[shizuku11111]

would probably do good first few weeks, then got bored of bitch

 

[StuntmanMike]

Hell no . I am fucking miles away from that

 

[Daddy's Home]

I've talked about this in the past, but having a relationship, and we're talking about a serious and LTR one, not just a body that you call for sexy time, hugs and kisses every now and then, is by far the hardest / most difficult thing you can do as a young adult

It will totally change your life, all your habits, all your routine, all your daily schedule, all the way you manage your time, your thoughts, your priorities, your short and medium term plans, etc. You will effectively transform into a different person.

But in order to make that transition, and I think that's the most problematic issue, and to really commit to that, you have to have certain conditions and circumstances that you have to get to. Without them, your relationship either won't start or it will end sooner or later.

Women are extremely complicated and complex, and you have to be prepared for that in the first place, but when you get under their skin, it's the most satisfying and fulfilling thing that can happen to you in this universal existence..

 

[Giorgio]

a real connection with a girl

what a fucking delusional statement

you are worrying about you having the capacity of forming a "real connection" but did you for a second think whether women are capable?

90% of relationships out there can be summed up as woman with 10 times the SMV of the guy and him desperately simping and catering to all her needs - and he has to do that to compensate for his lack of value

simple as

 

[menofmainland]

I'm more or less socially retarded so idk

 

[ChadL1te]

what a fucking delusional statement

you are worrying about you having the capacity of forming a "real connection" but did you for a second think whether women are capable?

90% of relationships out there can be summed up as woman with 10 times the SMV of the guy and him desperately simping and catering to all her needs - and he has to do that to compensate for his lack of value

simple as

Did i strike a nerve?

My statement isnt delusional at all, def applies to a lot of users here.

Speak English, youre questioning womens ability to form a connection and then saying in 90% of relationships the man is a simp. Makes zero sense

 

[Giorgio]

Makes zero sense

maybe work on your ability to comprehend lil bud

youre questioning womens ability to form a connection and then saying in 90% of relationships the man is a simp

ill simply it for you: the woman is never going to "feel" a connection to the male, because all the male is to her is just a tool
men are romantics & have evolved the ability to "love" women + higher sexual desire/attraction for women

if the man did not simp, or in some other way compensate for his physical/sexual undesirably, the woman would not associate with him

 

[mathis]

Serious question, I feel like even if some of you ascend you’ll be incapable of forming a real connection with a girl.

Hell, being on this forum means you’re already a step behind. It’s taken me a while to get where I am emotionally and physically and get a decent amount of IOIs now but I have a hard time committing to anything. But if I found the right person I’d be fine, it’s not like I’ve never had an intimate relationship

What do you guys think ?

Aint that hard tbh
You dont really have to be trying to make a girl fall in love. Actually trying too hard will make her reject you

 

[silently_said]

no, i have no idea what i would even talk about with her

 

[Bomber517]

It depends on a foid.

 

[Carbine]

I'd like to believe I'm capable, I'm not around many people at the moment so I'm not cognizant of how my behavior has changed, if it's still the same, I doubt I could be in a successful relationship in this society

 

[arabcelxxx]

I think the problem is giving her ick with the way you act

You think chad gives her the ick

 

[keepcopingboyo]

If you've never had a relationship you'd probably be pretty shit at it and will break quick but thats the point of it. Most people are meant to experience their first relationships when they are very young so they can keep building experience until they're good at adult age. Brutal

 

[future slavic chad]

long term relationships are quite literally impossible today, a unicorn. even chad wouldnt be guaranteed to pull it off. by long term i mean 10+ years

 

[ChadL1te]

maybe work on your ability to comprehend lil bud

ill simply it for you: the woman is never going to "feel" a connection to the male, because all the male is to her is just a tool
men are romantics & have evolved the ability to "love" women + higher sexual desire/attraction for women

if the man did not simp, or in some other way compensate for his physical/sexual undesirably, the woman would not associate with him

your wording was bad, it was very assumptions.

but anyways, thats not the girls inability to form a real connection. Its still the fault of the guy, girls will have a higher capacity to form a real emotional bond than 99% of people here, its just a matter of finding the right one for them.

Many here wouldnt be able to no matter the circumstance.

 

[Giorgio]

thats not the girls inability to form a real connection

it is

how can the woman form a connection when the man is literally near worthless to her? when she has another 200 matches ready?
male attention is so abundant to women, they don't value it at all

now combine that with the general dislike women have for men

girls will have a higher capacity to form a real emotional bond than 99% of people here

ah okay, you're a bluepilled retard

 

[RICHCELDOM]

Something that will only worry me when I'm a chad

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I can fake it for a bit but I can’t stand being just with one female

 

[TUSSELEIF]

I'm convinced I'm incapable of forming a connection with anyone. I've faced rejection socially all my life, and after starting dating, a lot romantically as well. I think I have so much trauma that I have grown accustomed to being alone, and that I push away people I find I come to know. It's probably a fear of rejection, but I love being alone so much, I genuinely hate being with other people because I'm not free to do my own stuff. Even being with girls is unbearable after like an hour

 

[Pikabro]

You think chad gives her the ick

No ofc he gives her the tingles

 

[Deleted member 87612]

most people here arent ready but center their life around improving looks to get women. they dont even ask themselves am i ready or do i need a gf. npc forum

@greycel

 

[Michael-Davis]

Beauty and height are the essence of fulfilment, even in the absence of women.

 

[greycel]

most people here arent ready but center their life around improving looks to get women. they dont even ask themselves am i ready or do i need a gf. npc forum

@greycel

Not only people here, but most normies are even worse
At least people here are indirectly aiming on improving their mental state before getting a girl. As @HarrierDuBois once said, he won't get a gf before he has a gymmaxxed physique and is softmaxxed.. only then will he think he's worthy of having one

It's worse for bluepilled normies who think that by getting into a relationship, all their problems will disappear

Always work on yourself before thinking about sharing that version of yourself with somebody else

 

[Deleted member 87612]

As @

@HarrierDuBois once said, he won't get a gf before he has a gymmaxxed physique and is softmaxxed.. only then will he think he's worthy of having one

same tbh

It's worse for bluepilled normies who think that by getting into a relationship, all their problems will disappear

Always work on yourself before thinking about sharing that version of yourself with somebody else

these are the same niggas who get attached and fall into a depression when se breaks up

 

[sportsmogger]

nope, i want one but i know id be a shitty boyfriend if i was in one tbh

 

[keepcopingboyo]

long term relationships are quite literally impossible today, a unicorn. even chad wouldnt be guaranteed to pull it off. by long term i mean 10+ years

Yeah this is pretty true I guess. There definitely are cases but they are outliers, very rare and usually actually super genuine relationships. What relationships were once meant to be, genuine.

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

Stacy only.

 

[BimaxLaser]

Serious question, I feel like even if some of you ascend you’ll be incapable of forming a real connection with a girl.

Hell, being on this forum means you’re already a step behind. It’s taken me a while to get where I am emotionally and physically and get a decent amount of IOIs now but I have a hard time committing to anything. But if I found the right person I’d be fine, it’s not like I’ve never had an intimate relationship

What do you guys think ?

Probably not yet no. Need to socializen more