Do you have a good father?

[Vitruvian]

1. is involved in your life
2. asks you about whether you have a girlfriend and/or wants you to have one
3. teaches you fatherly things like shaving, car stuff
4. teach you how to drive
5. shows interest in your plans for the future and gives his opinions.

 

[BigChinHispanic]

He inspired me to go the gym since he was a slaying beast when young, luckily got this bod genetics But he was away from my life for like 12 years

 

[Vitruvian]

But he was away from my life for like 12 years

why

 

[Deleted member 3123]

That nigga lame as hell but I respect him for his slaying abilities

 

[BigChinHispanic]

why

Divorce and problems, but ive been livin with him for 2 years now things are good.

 

[CupOfCoffee]

is involved in your life

What life lol

asks you about whether you have a girlfriend and/or wants you to have one

Keeps telling me I need to get married.

teaches you fatherly things like shaving, car stuff

Only when i ask first tbh, he acts clueless sometimes

teach you how to drive

He taught me a bit but mostly my mom

shows interest in your plans for the future and gives his opinions.

Keeps saying I should be a doctor and comparing me to other people.

 

[Vitruvian]

Divorce and problems, but ive been livin with him for 2 years now things are good.

but he wasn't there for your childhood.

 

[BigChinHispanic]

but he wasn't there for your childhood.

Yeah but b4 living with him, we talked for like 4 years and saw eachother a few times , he asked for forgiveness and shit, and right now hes a really good father, just looks after me and asks me what i need all the time.

 

[Vitruvian]

What life lol
Keeps telling me I need to get married.
Only when i ask first tbh, he acts clueless sometimes
He taught me a bit but mostly my mom
Keeps saying I should be a doctor and comparing me to other people.

better than mine. never has a conversation with him in my life despite living under the same roof before moving out at 17. still shiity tho

Yeah but b4 living with him, we talked for like 4 years and saw eachother a few times , he asked for forgiveness and shit, and right now hes a really good father, just looks after me and asks me what i need all the time.

the damage is done.

 

[rockndogs]

yes bro my dad is my bestfriend ded srs tbh tbh ngl and he is blackpilled fwark

 

[CupOfCoffee]

better than mine. never has a conversation with him in my life despite living under the same roof before moving out at 17. still shiity tho

You're lucky you moved out that early, living with your parents feel like prison. In my case he only liked me when I was religious. Once I started showing signs of doubt we didn't speak much about anything anymore. My mom is so much more fun to be with lol

 

[BigChinHispanic]

better than mine. never has a conversation with him in my life despite living under the same roof before moving out at 17. still shiity tho

the damage is done.

Done but healed.

 

[Vitruvian]

You're lucky you moved out that early, living with your parents feel like prison. In my case he only liked me when I was religious. Once I started showing signs of doubt we didn't speak much about anything anymore. My mom is so much more fun to be with lol

so trash, a bad father will destroy your brain cels 100% i am living the repercussions of neglect. in ur case it sounds like ur dad just wants to control you. very toxic. and my mom was kind to me aswell

 

[CupOfCoffee]

100% i am living the repercussions of neglect.

How did he neglect you?

in ur case it sounds like ur dad just wants to control you

He doesn't want me to grow up tbh, like he's afraid that the real world will eat me alive or something (might be some arab parent complex). He's like that with my sisters too, very very overprotective.

 

[gaypharoah]

he doesn't like me. just likes to show me off to everyone with academic performance and such. at home he does not acknowledge me other than to complain about minor things that he dislikes about me for hours (my hair, how i leave my room untidy sometimes, how i don't leave the house for anything other than necessities etc). only time we have an actual conversation is when he talks about his work (he makes me proofread his work and if i for any reason don't feel like it he threatens not to buy me things like food or medicine). he used to hit me when i was younger (not just normal hitting, was physically harmful and often displayed bruising, never broke a bone from it or anything though) but now im much bigger and stronger than him so he can't really do much. my mom used to care but now she also ignores me. a day doesn't pass where my parents don't argue with me for things one couldn't care for, so ive learned to shorten it by not being responsive. that seems to work. i kind of don't like my parents.

 

[Vitruvian]

he doesn't like me. just likes to show me off to everyone with academic performance and such. at home he does not acknowledge me other than to complain about minor things that he dislikes about me for hours (my hair, how i leave my room untidy sometimes, how i don't leave the house for anything other than necessities etc). only time we have an actual conversation is when he talks about his work (he makes me proofread his work and if i for any reason don't feel like it he threatens not to buy me things like food or medicine). he used to hit me when i was younger (not just normal hitting, was physically harmful and often displayed bruising, never broke a bone from it or anything though) but now im much bigger and stronger than him so he can't really do much. my mom used to care but now she also ignores me. a day doesn't pass where my parents don't argue with me for things one couldn't care for, so ive learned to shorten it by not being responsive. that seems to work. i kind of don't like my parents.

damn thats harsh. he treats you like a slave. are u an only child? age?

 

[CupOfCoffee]

he doesn't like me. just likes to show me off to everyone with academic performance and such. at home he does not acknowledge me other than to complain about minor things that he dislikes about me for hours (my hair, how i leave my room untidy sometimes, how i don't leave the house for anything other than necessities etc). only time we have an actual conversation is when he talks about his work (he makes me proofread his work and if i for any reason don't feel like it he threatens not to buy me things like food or medicine). he used to hit me when i was younger (not just normal hitting, was physically harmful and often displayed bruising, never broke a bone from it or anything though) but now im much bigger and stronger than him so he can't really do much. my mom used to care but now she also ignores me. a day doesn't pass where my parents don't argue with me for things one couldn't care for, so ive learned to shorten it by not being responsive. that seems to work. i kind of don't like my parents.

Damn bro that is terrible

 

[gaypharoah]

damn thats harsh. he treats you like a slave. are u an only child? age?

no i have a sister older than me but she's in university now so she isn't here to really help anymore. she was in this with me.

 

[Vitruvian]

How did he neglect you?
He doesn't want me to grow up tbh, like he's afraid that the real world will eat me alive or something (might be some arab parent complex). He's like that with my sisters too, very very overprotective.

I didn't have a father figure, i had no one to talk to about being a man. i didn't know masturbation or anything till i was like 15 when someone in my class told me. I had good friends and did well in school, played sports, gym after school but he didn't know anything about me. it makes you feel like your never good enough and I feel like that in my current relationship. even though i go to top uni, i work. i can never feel good enough for anybody.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

he is a good guy. he is greedy and has made mistakes in the past but he is only human just like me and i forgive him. he is there for me when i need him and he seems to care what my future looks like eventho he doesnt have much time left on this planet. such a shame he has a fucked up liver from a drug past

 

[maxmendietta]

Yesterday he told me he'd adopt another boy to feel like he has an actual son

 

[Vitruvian]

Yesterday he told me he'd adopt another boy to feel like he has an actual son

fk so many shitty fathers man

 

[Deleted member 2933]

My dad is low t and never taught me manly things.

 

[Throwaway1028]

he never taught me manly things but damn he gave me hella good advice and was always there for me

 

[Zeta ascended]

He only supports me financially....and that's it....

 

[Arkantos]

Yes, very much

 

[LordNorwood]

I would say somewhat. He loves and supports me but he hasn't really taught me anything about being a man or given me any good guidance really. There is a huge culture gap between us though so its hard to blame him for that. I know for sure that he loves me so I think I don't have much to complain about but I am determined to give my kids more guidance and a more solid foundation.

 

[fukmylyf]

no he a bitch ass nigga.
But at least he paid the bills

 

[Roping Subhuman]

No.

My dad is even bigger mental case than me.

 

[Lightbulb]

No

 

[RAITEIII]

I usually say that I don't have, which I guess is my actual reality.

The truth is that I did live with that person for certain periods of time.

I wonder about what can drive someone to be so cruel, what's in his mind and his past.

I don't know how many times I've been hit or called cocksucker, cumdump, to go and fuck myself with a finger... And there is also the fact that I was forced to DO these things too.

When I was 6 or 7 they both got a house to leave me there alone for up to 3 months straight because I wasn't behaving. They'd only come to bring food 3 times per month or so or if my mum needed some "service" lol. He didn't allow me the use of television, pc or any games, only a radio. Going out was forbidden, too.

He (they) forced me to be looking at those walls for years and threatened me with making me eat his shit if I ever dared to say anything.

I've learned nothing. It's not that I don't know how to drive, I don't even know how to ride a bike or swim.

I also have barely ever studied as they had me locked up and since I didn't figure as living in that country none suspected anything.

I managed to leave them and the country when I turned 15 and thankfully someone in the government decided to help me for one year and gave me all the academic records I needed to start university at 16 despite being totally illegal.

The way he's involved in my life is present everyday in the insane level of mental illness that I have. The memories of eating cum, being ass fucked... The fact that I cannot function, I cannot date, I cannot have sex, nothing but be in my room 24/7 because I'm scared of the world and even then I'm scared of myself is thanks to him.

Used to cope being good looking but I've lost that too Lol.

My rant is done bye.

 

[Gaia262]

I usually say that I don't have, which I guess is my actual reality.

The truth is that I did live with that person for certain periods of time.

I wonder about what can drive someone to be so cruel, what's in his mind and his past.

I don't know how many times I've been hit or called cocksucker, cumdump, to go and fuck myself with a finger... And there is also the fact that I was forced to DO these things too.

When I was 6 or 7 they both got a house to leave me there alone for up to 3 months straight because I wasn't behaving. They'd only come to bring food 3 times per month or so or if my mum needed some "service" lol. He didn't allow me the use of television, pc or any games, only a radio. Going out was forbidden, too.

He (they) forced me to be looking at those walls for years and threatened me with making me eat his shit if I ever dared to say anything.

I've learned nothing. It's not that I don't know how to drive, I don't even know how to ride a bike or swim.

I also have barely ever studied as they had me locked up and since I didn't figure as living in that country none suspected anything.

I managed to leave them and the country when I turned 15 and thankfully someone in the government decided to help me for one year and gave me all the academic records I needed to start university at 16 despite being totally illegal.

The way he's involved in my life is present everyday in the insane level of mental illness that I have. The memories of eating cum, being ass fucked... The fact that I cannot function, I cannot date, I cannot have sex, nothing but be in my room 24/7 because I'm scared of the world and even then I'm scared of myself is thanks to him.

Used to cope being good looking but I've lost that too Lol.

My rant is done bye.

That was tough stuff to read, hope things work out for you.

 

[Alt Number 3]

What life lol


Keeps telling me I need to get married.


Only when i ask first tbh, he acts clueless sometimes


He taught me a bit but mostly my mom


Keeps saying I should be a doctor and comparing me to other people.

This nigga reallly analysed another dood’S reply down to the T. Jfl

 

[RAITEIII]

That was tough stuff to read, hope things work out for you.

Unlikely in certain ways but thanks im trying

 

[Deleted member 439]

tbh he only cares or shows affection if i win races in track or break records. thats about it, probably the reason i care so much about track even though i hate training My mom on the other hand is a blackpill machine,she is the reason i want to be 8% bf (she calls me fat).

love them both though

 

[Deleted member 71]

2/5

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

I love my parents they do so much for me

 

[Hades]

Never met my biological father. He’s successful with women though, he has 6 kids with 3 different women.

 

[maxmendietta]

I usually say that I don't have, which I guess is my actual reality.

The truth is that I did live with that person for certain periods of time.

I wonder about what can drive someone to be so cruel, what's in his mind and his past.

I don't know how many times I've been hit or called cocksucker, cumdump, to go and fuck myself with a finger... And there is also the fact that I was forced to DO these things too.

When I was 6 or 7 they both got a house to leave me there alone for up to 3 months straight because I wasn't behaving. They'd only come to bring food 3 times per month or so or if my mum needed some "service" lol. He didn't allow me the use of television, pc or any games, only a radio. Going out was forbidden, too.

He (they) forced me to be looking at those walls for years and threatened me with making me eat his shit if I ever dared to say anything.

I've learned nothing. It's not that I don't know how to drive, I don't even know how to ride a bike or swim.

I also have barely ever studied as they had me locked up and since I didn't figure as living in that country none suspected anything.

I managed to leave them and the country when I turned 15 and thankfully someone in the government decided to help me for one year and gave me all the academic records I needed to start university at 16 despite being totally illegal.

The way he's involved in my life is present everyday in the insane level of mental illness that I have. The memories of eating cum, being ass fucked... The fact that I cannot function, I cannot date, I cannot have sex, nothing but be in my room 24/7 because I'm scared of the world and even then I'm scared of myself is thanks to him.

Used to cope being good looking but I've lost that too Lol.

My rant is done bye.

this real or ironic because i legit laughed a bit

 

[RAITEIII]

this real or ironic because i legit laughed a bit

I'm also laughing a bit wondering if you're being ironic or for real and stupid xD

 

[Time Travel]

I never talk to my parents about personal stuff

 

[maxmendietta]

I'm also laughing a bit wondering if you're being ironic or for real and stupid xD

Well if your post is for real it sounds overdramatic and has strong shit, something that you don't say in aspieforums, if it aint a lie i caged hard anyway

 

[Chintuck22]

Mine is unemployed beta who sits in a couch and does nothing for life, he didn't teached me anything serious like as you mentioned, it's shameful i can't bring my girlfriend home because i'm afraid of my own parents lol , and he's always there

 

[Deleted member 1751]

My father is the best. He is even blackpilled about his son that is me. He wants his son to be a 6+ tall Gigachad because he couldn't be one

 

[balding17yomanletcel]

My father ran human trafficking business and got locked up and lost his money. Badboy chad in my eyes tbh

 

[spark]

my dad is an evil satanic beast who abandoned me a very long time ago