Do you think it's our face or our neurodivergence ?

[Iplamephiltrum]

Idk, I've seen a lot of dudes who are less attractive than me who have girlfriends, friends...

 

[1385]

ND. Dating apps are your friend

 

[BigBallsLarry]

It's one of them or a combination of both. The 'personality vs looks' debate will never end..

 

[silently_said]

undersocialized != ND

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

undersocialized != ND

I'm actually diagnosed nd lol

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

It's one of them or a combination of both. The 'personality vs looks' debate will never end..

looks >

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

ND. Dating apps are your friend

I don't like taking picture of myself

 

[gihk342]

Idk, I've seen a lot of dudes who are less attractive than me who have girlfriends, friends...

its both, looks matter more but being normal is also hella important, ive got girls approaching me and trying to start a conversation but my nd attitude genuinely scares away them, the same goes for guys trying to become friends

 

[copester2]

Idk, I've seen a lot of dudes who are less attractive than me who have girlfriends, friends...

face but i would say social skills still matter id say face is 80-85% and personality is 20-15

 

[Quicksand]

I’m neurodivergent and I have no particular problems attracting girls
I find it difficult to maintain a relationship, though

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

its both, looks matter more but being normal is also hella important, ive got girls approaching me and trying to start a conversation but my nd attitude genuinely scares away them, the same goes for guys trying to become friends

So if girils don't approach me, I'm subhuman ?

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

I’m neurodivergent and I have no particular problems attracting girls
I find it difficult to maintain a relationship, though

Yeah why are you on this fuckking forum bro

 

[Quicksand]

Yeah why are you on this fuckking forum bro

I also have a debilitating chronic illness and related comorbidities.

 

[gihk342]

So if girils don't approach me, I'm subhuman ?

depends, if you look “normal” then the problem is being nd but if you genuinely just ugly then yeah nigga, its over

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

depends, if you look “normal” then the problem is being nd but if you genuinely just ugly then yeah nigga, its over

I don't think I'm ugly, just average but yh idk

 

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[gihk342]

I don't think I'm ugly, just average but yh idk

then its probably your personality ngl, i always fuck up social situations cause im so fucking dumb when it comes to being social

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

then its probably your personality ngl, i always fuck up social situations cause im so fucking dumb when it comes to being social

Honnestly bro I almost never talked to a girl lmao

 

[Mandibular0]

i think its your looks in your socialisation phase resulting in a weird personality

 

[gihk342]

i think its your looks in your socialisation phase resulting in a weird personality

yup, i never learned to socialize cause i was hella ugly

 

[Mandibular0]

yup, i never learned to socialize cause i was hella ugly

if you are ugly ages 12-19 there is no going back

 

[gihk342]

Honnestly bro I almost never talked to a girl lmao

me too lol, i never managed to talk romantically, everytime i try i just fuck up and they never talk to me again

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

i think its your looks in your socialisation phase resulting in a weird personality

Probably yes I was very ugly younger even if I had a lot of friends

 

[gihk342]

if you are ugly ages 12-19 there is no going back

yup

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

me too lol, i never managed to talk romantically, everytime i try i just fuck up and they never talk to me again

atleast u try idk how u can talk to these creatures (it sounds so incel lmao)

 

[Iplamephiltrum]

if you are ugly ages 12-19 there is no going back

over

 

[gihk342]

atleast u try idk how u can talk to these creatures (it sounds so incel lmao)

usually im not the one starting the conversation, but im always the one ending it