Does anyone else feel depressed

[3links2]

Not stemming from mental issues.
But because you literally have nothing to look forward to or anything meaningful to work towards in life at all.

 

[HimmyButlerV2]

Nah no way people on an incel forum are depressed

 

[davidlaidisme67]

Not stemming from mental issues.
But because you literally have nothing to look forward to or anything meaningful to work towards in life at all.

Yes that’s why I don’t have the motivation to do anything even go to my classes which is why I’m failing 2 at the moment

 

[3links2]

Nah no way people on an incel forum are depressed

Lots of people here are still in the coping stage

 

[134applesauce456]

I thought you roped damn

glad you are still here

 

[Alias!]

Not stemming from mental issues.
But because you literally have nothing to look forward to or anything meaningful to work towards in life at all.

The average teen feels like this now

 

[134applesauce456]

Yes that’s why I don’t have the motivation to do anything even go to my classes which is why I’m failing 2 at the moment

I dont have the motivation to cheat and copy from chatgpt its overrr

 

[134applesauce456]

Nah no way people on an incel forum are depressed

this is a normal place where you would expect to find unhappy people, wdym?

 

[3links2]

The average teen feels like this now

I'm past adolescence, regardless of how old I was it wouldn't change my reality.

 

[Alias!]

I'm past adolescence, regardless of how old I was it wouldn't change my reality.

How are you gonna keep coping?

 

[greycel]

Might as well give it a shot through surgery @3links2 if it's looks related

 

[3links2]

How are you gonna keep coping?

I stopped coping a while ago
My life sucks, relatively, for someone born in the west under my circumstances
My motivation is gone and will only get worse as I age and my brain fully develops and neural pathways are more solidified

 

[3links2]

Might as well give it a shot through surgery @3links2 if it's looks related

It's not looks related.

 

[Mhel4]

Not stemming from mental issues.
But because you literally have nothing to look forward to or anything meaningful to work towards in life at all.

have you tried a therapist

 

[greycel]

I stopped coping a while ago
My life sucks, relatively, for someone born in the west under my circumstances
My motivation is gone and will only get worse as I age and my brain fully develops and neural pathways are more solidified

Very defeatist attitude
Why is your motivation gone, and what's the issue if not looks?

 

[iblamechico]

All that depression just to get cucked by the big asian cock transfer students

 

[3links2]

have you tried a therapist

Have you tried reading the first sentence of this thread
Also jfl at paying some retarded 20-something year old with a piece of paper to talk about my problems.

 

[Alias!]

I stopped coping a while ago
My life sucks, relatively, for someone born in the west under my circumstances
My motivation is gone and will only get worse as I age and my brain fully develops and neural pathways are more solidified

Damn no more fight left , did try your hardest to get out circumstance no

 

[Basedman420]

yes me and it started yesterday

 

[3links2]

Very defeatist attitude
Why is your motivation gone, and what's the issue if not looks?

I'm going to be a slave for the rest of my life, and all the things I should have done, all the things I should have experienced in life at a certain age are passing me by

 

[Mhel4]

Have you tried reading the first sentence of this thread
Also jfl at paying some retarded 20-something year old with a piece of paper to talk about my problems.

js bc it isnt mental doesnt mean a therapist couldn't help but yeah i get what you are saying have you can try new hobbys or set up plans w friends

 

[3links2]

js bc it isnt mental doesnt mean a therapist couldn't help but yeah i get what you are saying have you can try new hobbys or set up plans w friends

I barely have any friends left, we've all grown apart
It's not the same as highschool, people are preoccupied with things more important than hanging out and playing video games

 

[greycel]

I'm going to be a slave for the rest of my life, and all the things I should have done, all the things I should have experienced in life at a certain age are passing me by

Unless your name is Rothsch1ld, everybody is a slave to varying degrees in society
Even he is ultimately a slave to his own actions and thoughts, for which he'll be treated accordingly by God

Those things you feel you should have experienced... ask yourself if that's what society has programmed you into believing you should have experienced? A lot of it is to do with social conditioning
After that ask yourself (from an objective POV) if that is justified?

Some things that society lead us to believe we should chase, we should in fact chase for our own betterment.. other things will only contribute towards our detriment

If you tell me specifically what the issue is, I can be more specific with my answer
Also with the judgement, considering your idea of what is ideal might be skewed because of your emotions associated with it

 

[Mhel4]

I barely have any friends left, we've all grown apart
It's not the same as highschool, people are preoccupied with things more important than hanging out and playing video games

sorry to hear that man you got a job or are you in college what are you up to

 

[3links2]

Unless your name is Rothsch1ld, everybody is a slave to varying degrees in society
Even he is ultimately a slave to his own actions and thoughts, for which he'll be treated accordingly by God

Those things you feel you should have experienced... ask yourself if that's what society has programmed you into believing you should have experienced? A lot of it is to do with social conditioning
After that ask yourself (from an objective POV) if that is justified?

Some things that society lead us to believe we should chase, we should in fact chase for our own betterment.. other things will only contribute towards our detriment

If you tell me specifically what the issue is, I can be more specific with my answer
Also with the judgement, considering your idea of what is ideal might be skewed because of your emotions associated with it

The difference is the path I'm on I barely have any agency over my own life. I've been in school 2 years and the field I'm entering is focused on public service. There's no real entrepreneurial route that would allow me to create more freedom for myself, so ill always be working for someone else. Not even that alone, but there's no remote positions cause it's not something that can be done remotely.

I've missed so many normal life benchmarks, I've never had a proper normie LTR type relationship. My experience consists of multiple relationships, all in highschool, all lasting nothing more than a week or 2. I've never been to a party, didn't even go to my senior prom or any of the subsequent social events. Didn't hang out with friends as much as I should've, I always stayed inside either doing hw or playing video games, never did any cool shit hanging out with friends. And thats just naming a few off the top of my head. I'm 2 years into college and already at the age where people are no longer necessarily going to form any new meaningful friendships. I've had the opportunity to study abroad twice and missed both of them for reasons I dont want to get into, and I won't be able to study abroad ever again, because the classes my major requires are specific and I've already taken all my general eds. This was kind of the last straw for me cause I know I'll never have another opportunity to travel while I'm still young. Not only that, but with the current state of the sexual market in the US that was my only chance to change my life in that aspect. I was going to be in japan and had already made some friends on apps and had a couple girls who wanted to set up dates when I came amongst other things (something I know would never happen in the US).

When I get out of school I'm going to be a slave stuck in the 40hr work week for the rest of my life, no desire to be the stupid average betabuxx with a wife and kids who hate you. no chance of changing countries, and any meaningful forms of geomaxxing would just set me back years financially.

 

[3links2]

Add on top of that no desire to do ur typical normie things like drinking or going to the club. My life is going to end up becoming a loop of going to work coming back and playing video games, I literally see nothing worth working towards nor do I have anything to look forward to.

 

[我需要阴部]

Not stemming from mental issues.
But because you literally have nothing to look forward to or anything meaningful to work towards in life at all.

Very

 

[greycel]

You sure the public service sector you are entering, you won't eventually (with enough experience), be able to venture out and open a consulting agency/ sell a service or something related, where you can work privately? All fields of work are monetizable, somebody out there is making money privately from doing the job you want to

Even highly specialized contractors to build connections and then branch out and start a business with those connections?
Open yourself up to venture capitalists/funding from investors for the initial business. Every field requires growth, every field will grow
It's all to do with the ideas & execution

Lots of different pathways to the top man

I've missed so many normal life benchmarks, I've never had a proper normie LTR type relationship. My experience consists of multiple relationships, all in highschool, all lasting nothing more than a week or 2. I've never been to a party, didn't even go to my senior prom or any of the subsequent social events. Didn't hang out with friends as much as I should've, I always stayed inside either doing hw or playing video games, never did any cool shit hanging out with friends. And thats just naming a few off the top of my head. I'm 2 years into college and already at the age where people are no longer necessarily going to form any new meaningful friendships. I've had the opportunity to study abroad twice and missed both of them for reasons I dont want to get into, and I won't be able to study abroad ever again, because the classes my major requires are specific and I've already taken all my general eds. This was kind of the last straw for me cause I know I'll never have another opportunity to travel while I'm still young. Not only that, but with the current state of the sexual market in the US that was my only chance to change my life in that aspect. I was going to be in japan and had already made some friends on apps and had a couple girls who wanted to set up dates when I came amongst other things (something I know would never happen in the US).

When I get out of school I'm going to be a slave stuck in the 40hr work week for the rest of my life, no desire to be the stupid average betabuxx with a wife and kids who hate you. no chance of changing countries, and any meaningful forms of geomaxxing would just set me back years financially.

Forget about those experiences you never had.
If it's any consolation, I haven't done any of them either. Never had a LTR, never had any relationships, hardly went to parties, no senior prom etc
Friends of mine I found out very late into my life (older than you are currently), aren't the friends you should surround yourself with. They'd talk bad behind each others backs, and all of them didn't want the next to succeed
I don't think I've mentioned this before on this site, but the reason I am is because I wasted so much time on these humans. All of it ending up being for nothing.. I could've spent that time in solitude, or having made other friends.. where I would've grown further

In a way we learn from these mistakes. The lack of opportunities is a blessing in disguise. For example, you might've gotten your gf pregnant and your life would've currently been limited to raising a child right now, with no future hope of monetary growth
You might've turned into a STR sex addict, and the main woman in your life would've been neglected in the future. She's the only woman who truly matters

We don't know what the future holds. Life is a game of percentages, you can only play your cards right and maximise the odds to be in your favour

If your idea of growth is money, and it seems to be the limiting factor for you.. then think about whether you want to go into this field. You're in 2nd year. You only lose 2 years of your working life if you decide to switch your path, but you have the chance to save decades
That being said, people are making money in every field. So if you enjoy this one, then hold onto that passion

To make breakthroughs in any field you need: passion + discipline + creativity.
For which you must not think inside the box. Ask yourself "why this"/"why that" regarding everything, then you'll see many potholes you can fix along the way
But everybody follows line of thought of the person besides them. Creativity is punished socially
Don't limit yourself. Stop aligning your ideals to what society around you does. Most stuff they value is hedonistic & morally corrupt. It will hugely lessen your quality of life in the long run

FYI, if you go into business you'll still be a slave for money (the system), and it'll require huge amounts of initial investment.. far more than 40hrs/week
The ceiling might be higher, but it's going to be far harder with less stability

 

[3links2]

You sure the public service sector you are entering, you won't eventually (with enough experience), be able to venture out and open a consulting agency/ sell a service or something related, where you can work privately? All fields of work are monetizable, somebody out there is making money privately from doing the job you want to

Even highly specialized contractors to build connections and then branch out and start a business with those connections?
Open yourself up to venture capitalists/funding from investors for the initial business. Every field requires growth, every field will grow
It's all to do with the ideas & execution

Lots of different pathways to the top man


Forget about those experiences you never had.
If it's any consolation, I haven't done any of them either. Never had a LTR, never had any relationships, hardly went to parties, no senior prom etc
Friends of mine I found out very late into my life (older than you are currently), aren't the friends you should surround yourself with. They'd talk bad behind each others backs, and all of them didn't want the next to succeed
I don't think I've mentioned this before on this site, but the reason I am is because I wasted so much time on these humans. All of it ending up being for nothing.. I could've spent that time in solitude, or having made other friends.. where I would've grown further

In a way we learn from these mistakes. The lack of opportunities is a blessing in disguise. For example, you might've gotten your gf pregnant and your life would've currently been limited to raising a child right now, with no future hope of monetary growth
You might've turned into a STR sex addict, and the main woman in your life would've been neglected in the future. She's the only woman who truly matters

We don't know what the future holds. Life is a game of percentages, you can only play your cards right and maximise the odds to be in your favour

If your idea of growth is money, and it seems to be the limiting factor for you.. then think about whether you want to go into this field. You're in 2nd year. You only lose 2 years of your working life if you decide to switch your path, but you have the chance to save decades
That being said, people are making money in every field. So if you enjoy this one, then hold onto that passion

To make breakthroughs in any field you need: passion + discipline + creativity.
For which you must not think inside the box. Ask yourself "why this"/"why that" regarding everything, then you'll see many potholes you can fix along the way
But everybody follows line of thought of the person besides them. Creativity is punished socially
Don't limit yourself. Stop aligning your ideals to what society around you does. Most stuff they value is hedonistic & morally corrupt. It will hugely lessen your quality of life in the long run

FYI, if you go into business you'll still be a slave for money (the system), and it'll require huge amounts of initial investment.. far more than 40hrs/week
The ceiling might be higher, but it's going to be far harder with less stability

No I'm going to be working in the hospital, there's literally no applicable skills that can be used to self-employ. Changing my major isnt an option, I dont even know any realistic fields i can pivot to given ive already spent 2 years taking pre-reqs, and im not wasting my parents money either. I live in the most expensive country on earth and have no chances of building a future here, there's absolutely no way I'll be able to retire by 65, even with your typical 2-5% year over year gains from investing. Even then it's pointless, cause I would have given up the best years of my life slaving away while I get to lay around and do nothing in some 3rd world pothole like Indonesia (if i ever want to retire, thats where ill be forced to live) as an old man, it's not worth it. By the time any of my fruits have a bounty worth harvesting the age pill will have caught up to me. Over here I'm a low smv loser, over there I'm hip and cool, even just through apps the way im treated is day and night. Just look at @ alexbrown84 if u don't believe me.

 

[greycel]

No I'm going to be working in the hospital, there's literally no applicable skills that can be used to self-employ. Changing my major isnt an option, I dont even know any realistic fields i can pivot to given ive already spent 2 years taking pre-reqs, and im not wasting my parents money either. I live in the most expensive country on earth and have no chances of building a future here, there's absolutely no way I'll be able to retire by 65, even with your typical 2-5% year over year gains from investing. Even then it's pointless, cause I would have given up the best years of my life slaving away while I get to lay around and do nothing in some 3rd world pothole like Indonesia (if i ever want to retire, thats where ill be forced to live) as an old man, it's not worth it. By the time any of my fruits have a bounty worth harvesting the age pill will have caught up to me. Over here I'm a low smv loser, over there I'm hip and cool, even just through apps the way im treated is day and night. Just look at @ alexbrown84 if u don't believe me.

If I were you, first thing I'd do after getting a job is to move to a different country
If you studycel hard, you could go to perhaps America(?) or a similar country where healthcare is private = $$$

I don't know much about this.

You could also make sufficient income in another country, until you can sustain doing another degree in a different course

 

[trench]

yeah, i have nothing going for me, nothing to look or work towards to

my whole existence is meaningless

 

[3links2]

If I were you, first thing I'd do after getting a job is to move to a different country
If you studycel hard, you could go to perhaps America(?) or a similar country where healthcare is private = $$$

I don't know much about this.

You could also make sufficient income in another country, until you can sustain doing another degree in a different course

I'm already living in the us, I'm american, there's no sense in me saving in a different currency, I might make more in terms of spending power per $ but ultimately I'll be making less, not even factoring in inflation which is worse in practically every other country. Doing another degree after getting out of school is out of the question because of opportunity cost (again no point in geomaxxing past 30 unless you're a sexpat who's only reason for traveling is to smoke hookah and fuck disgusting asian hookers, which i am not interested in doing.)