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If you date many American women you’re always going to have a wall up. You can’t be too aloof but you can’t be too nice. You can’t be a robot but you can never cry either. You also kind of have to be in cocky funny aloof asshole mode all the time. If things don’t go smoovely or you’re not entertaining enough you’ll be dropped for the next guy. Oh wait- you didn’t give her a political test so now you have to listen to patriarchy this, wage gap that, or her convincing you to chop your son’s ball off or something. Everything just seems like a game. I personally haven’t had to deal with too much of this because I don’t deal with nonsense and avoid stress but it just sounds exhausting.
I can’t see my self seriously dating or having kids with a woman who isn’t a virgin or very low partner count anymore. Some of it is more correlation than causation as women who are not mental and attractive yet still choose to refrain from banging tend to be more feminine and have good relationships with their family but for many men it’s still usually naturally repulsive regardless. Outside of that it doesn’t matter if a woman has 7, 12, 57, or 300 bodies to me. If we we’re friends or if it were something casual I could care less. Although I can’t take many American women seriously and I’m not too keen on looking for “unicorns”/traveling to other countries.
I guess “she was never yours it was just your turn” sums it up best. Hard to care enough to invest in a relationship when most women will never love you for who you are and she’s already been railed by some other random dude behind dumpsters, club toilets or ran through by the football team. You’re just the next guy in line essentially. Maybe I just won’t reproduce or get snipped. Having a kid in these times seems like a nightmare even if you avoid marriage. I’m not a greycel so I don’t know if people had thoughts like these in the past and if everyone thinks their era was bad. I think me even asking this question on .me is very telling. Wouldn’t fly on reddit. What do you think?
TLDR: If you never had teen love it’s OVER
I can’t see my self seriously dating or having kids with a woman who isn’t a virgin or very low partner count anymore. Some of it is more correlation than causation as women who are not mental and attractive yet still choose to refrain from banging tend to be more feminine and have good relationships with their family but for many men it’s still usually naturally repulsive regardless. Outside of that it doesn’t matter if a woman has 7, 12, 57, or 300 bodies to me. If we we’re friends or if it were something casual I could care less. Although I can’t take many American women seriously and I’m not too keen on looking for “unicorns”/traveling to other countries.
I guess “she was never yours it was just your turn” sums it up best. Hard to care enough to invest in a relationship when most women will never love you for who you are and she’s already been railed by some other random dude behind dumpsters, club toilets or ran through by the football team. You’re just the next guy in line essentially. Maybe I just won’t reproduce or get snipped. Having a kid in these times seems like a nightmare even if you avoid marriage. I’m not a greycel so I don’t know if people had thoughts like these in the past and if everyone thinks their era was bad. I think me even asking this question on .me is very telling. Wouldn’t fly on reddit. What do you think?
TLDR: If you never had teen love it’s OVER
