Does Talking Make Me Less Attractive?

[tadzio]

Hear me out.

If I talk more and show my true self, does it make me more attractive, or does it mean I lack natural appeal and need to "talk" to get attention?

Some people seem magnetic without saying much, so I wonder if talking too much looks like overcompensating. Or does staying silent just hide my best traits?

Thoughts?

 

[softman]

Mimemaxxing doesn't sound like a bad idea

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

If youre takling too much because youre compensating, then yes it does.

If you talk just because you like it then it doesn't

 

[playxiing]

only talk when its necessary

 

[tadzio]

If youre takling too much because youre compensating, then yes it does.

If you talk just because you like it then it doesn't

Are you saying that talking as much as I want and just expressing myself brings out my natural 'good looks,' or does it mean the opposite? I feel like when I don’t talk, people don’t really notice or respect me—does that mean I come across as having 'bad looks' naturally?

Sorry if the question is confusing. I'm really curious.

 

[tadzio]

only talk when its necessary

Does "necessary" mean whenever I get the impulse to say something? Or socially correct?

 

[Quncho]

Hear me out.

If I talk more and show my true self, does it make me more attractive, or does it mean I lack natural appeal and need to "talk" to get attention?

Some people seem magnetic without saying much, so I wonder if talking too much looks like overcompensating. Or does staying silent just hide my best traits?

Thoughts?

it depends tbh. But don't say more words than needed. only when there is a reason to speak.

 

[playxiing]

necessary means useful for you

Does "necessary" mean whenever I get the impulse to say something? Or socially correct?

of course u can have small talk if youre nt

 

[tadzio]

it depends tbh. But don't say more words than needed. only when there is a reason to speak.

Thanks for your reply. Can I ask what "than needed" means? I can go on and on about things I'm interested in, so do you mean considering the social situation?

 

[iblamemandible7]

Hear me out.

If I talk more and show my true self, does it make me more attractive, or does it mean I lack natural appeal and need to "talk" to get attention?

Some people seem magnetic without saying much, so I wonder if talking too much looks like overcompensating. Or does staying silent just hide my best traits?

Thoughts?

Its simple

Talkative + sub5 = Annoying
Quiet + sub5 = Creepy
Talkative + gl = Confident and funny
Quiet + gl = Mysterious

The answer isnt your personality or how loud you are, its how attractive you are. Its useless to worry about this compared to your looks

 

[tadzio]

necessary means useful for you

of course u can have small talk if youre nt

Got it. Could "better mental health" be a valid reason for being useful for me (if that makes sense)? Cuz if I talk a lot, it may seem pointless and not useful for me (waste of time), but it's actually helping my mental health a lot because I'm expressing my thoughts.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Are you saying that talking as much as I want and just expressing myself brings out my natural 'good looks,' or does it mean the opposite? I feel like when I don’t talk, people don’t really notice or respect me—does that mean I come across as having 'bad looks' naturally?

Sorry if the question is confusing. I'm really curious.

Youre afraid of looking like youre overcompensating.

What Im asking you is if you actually are overcompensating. If you arent theres no issue, and if you are you should try to be more authentic

Now rep my replies please

 

[Quncho]

Thanks for your reply. Can I ask what "than needed" means? I can go on and on about things I'm interested in, so do you mean considering the social situation?

yeah considering the social situation. There is no point in babbling on about the same topic or different topic then what you're originally talking about. For example. If somebody asks me a question, I won't give them more information than what they needed. Just the information they were looking for. No excess bs. Same goes for normal conversation.

 

[tadzio]

Its simple

Talkative + sub5 = Annoying
Quiet + sub5 = Creepy
Talkative + gl = Confident and funny
Quiet + gl = Mysterious

The answer isnt your personality or how loud you are, its how attractive you are. Its useless to worry about this compared to your looks

Thanks so much for your reply.

I feel like I am #2 and #3 at the same time. When I'm quiet, people think I'm weird and don't really recognize my presence. However, as soon as I start expressing my true thoughts and being talkative, everyone kinda loves me... what does this mean?

 

[vexxzzy]

I mean you still need to talk cause a couple months ago I talked so little well for a few weeks whenever i would talk everything was really slurred, but you shouldn't just yap and keep whatever your saying short.

 

[iblamemandible7]

Thanks so much for your reply.

I feel like I am #2 and #3 at the same time. When I'm quiet, people think I'm weird and don't really recognize my presence. However, as soon as I start expressing my true thoughts and being talkative, everyone kinda loves me... what does this mean?

Probably means youre mtn/average

 

[tadzio]

Probably means youre mtn/average

Got it. When I'm quiet, it's not that I just don't talk -- it's more like I look autistic as heck because my body language is off, etc

Obviously I can't be yapping all the time, so I should probably learn how to act normal when I'm not talking.

 

[iblamemandible7]

Got it. When I'm quiet, it's not that I just don't talk -- it's more like I look autistic as heck because my body language is off, etc

Obviously I can't be yapping all the time, so I should probably learn how to act normal when I'm not talking.

Yea most people on here have that issue gotta NTmaxx shouldnt be too hard if you want it bad enough tho

 

[Fine]

Are you saying that talking as much as I want and just expressing myself brings out my natural 'good looks,' or does it mean the opposite? I feel like when I don’t talk, people don’t really notice or respect me—does that mean I come across as having 'bad looks' naturally?

Sorry if the question is confusing. I'm really curious.

The question is really confusing.

It's both weird when someone is not saying a single word, is shy, looks anxious, unconfident

or when someone is yapping hard trying to get attention or impress the group or whatever they're doing

 

[quantitativePSL]

Thanks so much for your reply.

I feel like I am #2 and #3 at the same time. When I'm quiet, people think I'm weird and don't really recognize my presence. However, as soon as I start expressing my true thoughts and being talkative, everyone kinda loves me... what does this mean?

You should talk more you're probably a cool guy. It's okay and normal to be quiet and shy at first but seeing as people like you when you talk just talk.

 

[Healthymaxxer]

i got so many more girls after NTmaxxing and jestermaxxing, its crazy.

 

[lifeless]

yes stfu nigga

 

[RealNinja]

Talking makes you less attractive if you’re a sperg, lmao. In many instances girls have been attracted to me and then lost it once they interacted enough to listen to me say retarded shit.

My buddy is DXed with Asperger’s but has a ton of bodies. The best game he gave me was to be more silent, ask women questions about themselves, let them do the talking.

Follow this advice if you’re socially awkward/stunted or neurodivergent in some other way. If you have any sort of charisma or if most people find you funny, then feel free to show your personality.

Emphasis on “if most people find you funny.” My retard buddies think I’m hilarious. Women not so much

 

[tadzio]

yes stfu nigga

Im Jigga

 

[iblamewill]

Hear me out.

If I talk more and show my true self, does it make me more attractive, or does it mean I lack natural appeal and need to "talk" to get attention?

Some people seem magnetic without saying much, so I wonder if talking too much looks like overcompensating. Or does staying silent just hide my best traits?

Thoughts?

Over

 

[unfortunatehobbies]

I have experience with this.

Keep your mouth shut. Words can only hurt yourself. This is my greatest flaw and also my greatest strength. I am a great public speaker but I speak too much.

Talk little. Make every word count.

 

[Krisis]

Just be yourself, but not at the expense of anyone else.

 

[frideirch]

It largely depends on what it is you say, and how you say it. In many cases, it may attract an even greater interest. Speak in circumstances you feel insured of reason, understanding and civil or charismatic behavior, Outside of that, do not associate yourself in social verbal engagements you feel inferior under.