Does the girl think I don’t like her or is she turned off by my virgin status

[Deleted member 5927]

This girl likes me but we got mad deep into convo and she kept hinting about relationships and shit and I kept being retarded I should have just said “is it me that you want to date” or literally fucking anything. I didn’t know she would get mad distant the next day. I fucked up. Idk how to recover this tbh.

is she distant because of my virgin status or is she distant because she thinks I don’t like her. reason being is she did this before when i accidentally friendzoned her she went insane and started insulting me afterwards. idk that’s going on why are women so hard to understand.

 

[TheEndHasNoEnd]

 

[Deleted member 5927]

@Won'tStopNoodling @Monk @LondonVillie @16tyo

 

[Deleted member 756]

@Won'tStopNoodling @Monk @LondonVillie @16tyo

Probably a bit of both
Move on and find someone else

 

[Deleted member 5927]

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Nigga it’s annoying as fuck when I need help and you dumb fucks do shit like post memes.

 

[Deleted member 7776]

both

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Probably a bit of both
Move on and find someone else

Really? Fuck. Ok man. It’s gonna be a long god damn time before I find a new one though. She doesn’t have many options either. Like she has options, but none that she’s actually attracted to. Tons of dudes here but I mog them all and she knows it.

 

[Deleted member 7776]

Nigga it’s annoying as fuck when I need help and you dumb fucks do shit like post memes.

this forum is shit

 

[Deleted member 5927]

both

Fuck. Alright. Should I give up on her (hurts to think about because it means being bored and no females for the next 3 months) or try and push through just for the entertainment and lose my virginity?

 

[turkproducer]

you need to show your interest while not being a simp, being distant only works if giga chad and she’s super horny for you Lol

also being a virgin = laughable, especially over the age of 18 to women at least. it will offset some attraction towards you since it goes against her pre selection bias

 

[Deleted member 7776]

Fuck. Alright. Should I give up on her (hurts to think about because it means being bored and no females for the next 3 months) or try and push through just for the entertainment and lose my virginity?

I'd do both at the same time. I'd be looking for someone else AND simultaneously try to fuck her too

 

[Deleted member 756]

Really? Fuck. Ok man. It’s gonna be a long god damn time before I find a new one though. She doesn’t have many options either. Like she has options, but none that she’s actually attracted to. Tons of dudes here but I mog them all and she knows it.

You could try again but next time take it slow and steady and don’t be redpilled. Hopefully she thinks you were just drunk

 

[Deleted member 5927]

you need to show your interest while not being a simp, being distant only works if giga chad and she’s super horny for you Lol

also being a virgin = laughable, especially over the age of 18 to women at least. it will offset some attraction towards you since it goes against her pre selection bias

How do you show interest without being a simp. I literally want to show interest but I don’t know how. I actually tried but she didn’t respond well (since she’s distant now).
Might just give up and move on. I want to but like I said, zero other options.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

You could try again but next time take it slow and steady and don’t be redpilled. Hopefully she thinks you were just drunk

I wasn’t drunk at all and she knows it. I’m fucked honestly. She’s a whore anyway so I’m not stressing that big of a deal. Girls are so fucking low inhib when they are whores I really don’t like it. Either way it’s over for me with this girl it seems.

wish I was like 5 years younger so I could figure all this shit out with a girl that doesn’t know what she’s doing either and not look like a dumbass.

 

[turkproducer]

How do you show interest without being a simp. I literally want to show interest but I don’t know how. I actually tried but she didn’t respond well (since she’s distant now).
Might just give up and move on. I want to but like I said, zero other options.

well how the fuck do you talk with her, are you truly that aspie

if i was in your shoes i would have been slaying much more, i am literally 5’9 all i do is act low inhib and it works

anyway, do you not know how to tease your friends? do this with her but slowly introduce underhanded flirty comments, if you’re with her in real life you can honestly just grab her wrist and compliment her bracelet, without coming across as a autist, all that matters is the tone

(THIS IS ALL PROVIDED YOU ARE SOMEWHAT ATTRACTIVE TOWARDS HER)

 

[Deleted]

Idk man hoes be confusing.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

I'd do both at the same time. I'd be looking for someone else AND simultaneously try to fuck her too

Jfl why didn’t I think of this. How the fuck do you even meet new people I literally just don’t understand how to talk to new girls. Do you just start talking to random bitches and if they like you they give feedback back? Idek

 

[Deleted member 7776]

Jfl why didn’t I think of this. How the fuck do you even meet new people I literally just don’t understand how to talk to new girls. Do you just start talking to random bitches and if they like you they give feedback back? Idek

idk bro I try to find FOB asian foreign students and clap their cheeks jfl

 

[Deleted member 5927]

well how the fuck do you talk with her, are you truly that aspie

if i was in your shoes i would have been slaying much more, i am literally 5’9 all i do is act low inhib and it works

anyway, do you not know how to tease your friends? do this with her but slowly introduce underhanded flirty comments, if you’re with her in real life you can honestly just grab her wrist and compliment her bracelet, without coming across as a autist, all that matters is the tone

(THIS IS ALL PROVIDED YOU ARE SOMEWHAT ATTRACTIVE TOWARDS HER)

She likes me physically. She told me I look like a male stripper and she would pay to watch. She compliments the way I look. She said “what do you do if you physically like someone but just want to remain friends”.

shit like that. Lessons learned bro. How the fuck do you even GET low inhib enough to grab a girls wrists in the first place. I’m just not that way yet. And thank you for telling me, nobody told me this shit.

she frequently tries to hit me and tickle me and poke my abs and shit. how do I do it back to her without seeming autistic?

 

[Deleted member 11748]

Not again

 

[Deleted member 5891]

go to a hooker bro

and btw you were right I will go on accutane again

 

[Bewusst]

Chang problems

 

[Deleted member 5927]

idk bro I try to find FOB asian foreign students and clap their cheeks jfl

I need females so bad. Literally all I want to do rn is talk to bitches and hang out with new girls. Why can’t I have this. Why am I in the middle of a fucking field for my career. Why are the only girls whores. I am enraged.

 

[turkproducer]

She likes me physically. She told me I look like a male stripper and she would pay to watch. She compliments the way I look. She said “what do you do if you physically like someone but just want to remain friends”.

shit like that. Lessons learned bro. How the fuck do you even GET low inhib enough to grab a girls wrists in the first place. I’m just not that way yet. And thank you for telling me, nobody told me this shit.

she frequently tries to hit me and tickle me and poke my abs and shit. how do I do it back to her without seeming autistic?

Lol everyone has been a pussy at some point, let me give you 2 examples of dates

So, first time was when this girl pursued me a few years ago. She was a couple years older than me, and we had texted a lot (sent nudes, told me she would suck my dick on text etc)

so the second time i meet her she comes around, and we are just relaxing doing nothing. I can feel her attraction waning since I was not escalating physically, not even putting my arm round her. We sat awkwardly, smoked a skud and then she left without even hugging me

another date, i meet her at the station, we walk off to some park and on the way i just tease her about many things, i’ll tell her to tie my shoe laces or just push her lightly and pull her back as if i’m pretending to push her into the road

edit: should have mentioned we made out in the park and i smashed

you can literally do anything as long as it’s not too weird and the way u do it is confident, just stop thinking so much like an autistic. next time she compliments you, say “well yea i like the look of you too” it’s not that deep man

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Lol everyone has been a pussy at some point, let me give you 2 examples of dates

So, first time was when this girl pursued me a few years ago. She was a couple years older than me, and we had texted a lot (sent nudes, told me she would suck my dick on text etc)

so the second time i meet her she comes around, and we are just relaxing doing nothing. I can feel her attraction waning since I was not escalating physically, not even putting my arm round her. We sat awkwardly, smoked a skud and then she left without even hugging me

another date, i meet her at the station, we walk off to some park and on the way i just tease her about many things, i’ll tell her to tie my shoe laces or just push her lightly and pull her back as if i’m pretending to push her into the road

edit: should have mentioned we made out in the park and i smashed

you can literally do anything as long as it’s not too weird and the way u do it is confident, just stop thinking so much like an autistic. next time she compliments you, say “well yea i like the look of you too” it’s not that deep man

Fuck alright. So how does shit like work? Like a guy and a girl hang out and they like each other like I don’t understand how shit works. Like eventually they just start touching each other more and then what? Eventually they fuck or something? And how do you know when you are dating? Or how does that work? It’s all confusing to me and I never had a father to explain this shit to me.

 

[turkproducer]

Fuck alright. So how does shit like work? Like a guy and a girl hang out and they like each other like I don’t understand how shit works. Like eventually they just start touching each other more and then what? Eventually they fuck or something? And how do you know when you are dating? Or how does that work? It’s all confusing to me and I never had a father to explain this shit to me.

bud i’m not your dad, all i can offer you is my own personal advice and thoughts, i can’t do this for you

what i will say is staying consistent; you just need to give less of a shit. i’m not saying start groping her in public, but ask her to smoke with u alone or go on a walk and when u sit down put ur arm around her, if she asks why then just say you felt like it. if she doesn’t want you to touch her, then withdraw and try to test the waters more slowly

stop thinking so much. maybe take some phenibut, good luck