pandamonium
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A) takes long to respond. Usually the first time you guys talk, a week after that she will take double that time to respond. It will only get worse so it needs to start off strong
Heres my rule of thumb (within the first week):
- If she takes 30 minutes or more to respond consistently i just ghost her
- If she takes 10 minutes to respond consistently i talk to her but i put her in the “neutral zone” essentially the neutral zone means i will keep talking to her just in case i can get a easy fuck but its not going anywhere long term (5% success rate)
- if she takes 5 minutes or less she’s valid move on to the next stage (50% successs rate)
B) texting quality
if she seems very low enthusiasm when talking to you
- responds with the most water shit
- doesnt ask follow up questions
its because shes not interested in you. Thats the same way you would talk to a fat girl who you find ugly
If the convo would only continue if you are actively putting in full effort i just put her in the neutral zone and i just find another girl or move on instead of wasting time
C) early signs of a cheater
Here are some early signs shes a whore
- has guy friends. It doesnt matter what she tells you as a followup i dont give a fuck.
If she tells me she has fuy friends and hes “gay” or “childhood friend” or whatever the fuck i just put them in the neutral zone. I wont ghost them but i wont ever take them seriously
My Success rate of girls with guy friends is actually pretty high but it never ends well (0% long term success)
- seems way too easy. Now there are certain levels to this. A girl who is easy is fine some might just actually find you attractive but a girl who is straight up tryna fuck first day or some shit is getting pumped and dumped
- has whore photos in her profile
- been with many guys (chances are its her thats the problem, guys typically only cheat or leave a woman who is low quality)
- obsessed with ex or talks with ex
- treats everyone else like she treats you
It should all be pretty obvious
Any of these signs i stop giving a fuck
D) chance of linking
If theres no chance of linking then you are wasting your time long distance is a cope
- if shes more than 10 minutes away dont even bother unless shes attractive (max 30m if shes stacy but even then i wont take her seriously since shes likely to cheat). Thats my standard
- if shes constantly flakes dont bother. After a first flake i usually just ghost her tbh (unless shes good looking) but if you wanna keep trying you can
Trust me a girl will literally jump outside of her window at midnight if she likes you enough (has already happened to me) if she makes excuses like “im busy” “my parents wont let me” “i gotta get to know you “ all that is bs just find another girl
Should be as easy maybe more easy than this
E) ROI
think of women as a investment because thats what they are. Even if you aren’t necessarily betabuxxing you are still spending money on her in some way (taking her on dates, driving to her house using up gas, spending time with her you could be using more productively) so if shes not worth it dont bother
by high investment i dont mean betabux btw i mean like take her on dates regularly like once a month not every day or week (if the date is necessary for her to like you then its no different from betabuxxing)
Good ROI:
- stacy but high investment (dates every month or so, 20 minutes away, medium to high effort)
- htb but average investment (occasional dates, low to mid effort)
- ltb but almost no investment (no more than 5 minutes away, low or no effort, doesnt expect dates)
Bad ROI:
htb with very high investment (Driving a hour to see her, high effort or very low interest in you, expects dates daily)
Ltb with high investment (driving 30 minutes to see her, have to put in lots of effort, expects constant dates)
Now this is just my standard some people think the htb and ltb in this scenario are still good investments but remember if you want a ltr the investment has to be consistent. Will you constnatly be tsking her on dates forever?? Will you constantly have the energy to send her 10 good morning texts to keep her??? If not dont even bother
Additional signs of low quality:
- high bodies (8+ but i go for 0-3)
- depressed
- gets drunk constantly
- fat (no shit)
So yea its pretty simple. You dont have to ghost every woman who you can tell is low interest or is a bad choice but you can just put them into the fuck only zone and not take them seriously like i do. 99% of the girls i talk to i dont rlly care about. If they become too much investment i just fully ghost
Heres my rule of thumb (within the first week):
- If she takes 30 minutes or more to respond consistently i just ghost her
- If she takes 10 minutes to respond consistently i talk to her but i put her in the “neutral zone” essentially the neutral zone means i will keep talking to her just in case i can get a easy fuck but its not going anywhere long term (5% success rate)
- if she takes 5 minutes or less she’s valid move on to the next stage (50% successs rate)
B) texting quality
if she seems very low enthusiasm when talking to you
- responds with the most water shit
- doesnt ask follow up questions
its because shes not interested in you. Thats the same way you would talk to a fat girl who you find ugly
If the convo would only continue if you are actively putting in full effort i just put her in the neutral zone and i just find another girl or move on instead of wasting time
C) early signs of a cheater
Here are some early signs shes a whore
- has guy friends. It doesnt matter what she tells you as a followup i dont give a fuck.
If she tells me she has fuy friends and hes “gay” or “childhood friend” or whatever the fuck i just put them in the neutral zone. I wont ghost them but i wont ever take them seriously
My Success rate of girls with guy friends is actually pretty high but it never ends well (0% long term success)
- seems way too easy. Now there are certain levels to this. A girl who is easy is fine some might just actually find you attractive but a girl who is straight up tryna fuck first day or some shit is getting pumped and dumped
- has whore photos in her profile
- been with many guys (chances are its her thats the problem, guys typically only cheat or leave a woman who is low quality)
- obsessed with ex or talks with ex
- treats everyone else like she treats you
It should all be pretty obvious
Any of these signs i stop giving a fuck
D) chance of linking
If theres no chance of linking then you are wasting your time long distance is a cope
- if shes more than 10 minutes away dont even bother unless shes attractive (max 30m if shes stacy but even then i wont take her seriously since shes likely to cheat). Thats my standard
- if shes constantly flakes dont bother. After a first flake i usually just ghost her tbh (unless shes good looking) but if you wanna keep trying you can
Trust me a girl will literally jump outside of her window at midnight if she likes you enough (has already happened to me) if she makes excuses like “im busy” “my parents wont let me” “i gotta get to know you “ all that is bs just find another girl
Should be as easy maybe more easy than this
E) ROI
think of women as a investment because thats what they are. Even if you aren’t necessarily betabuxxing you are still spending money on her in some way (taking her on dates, driving to her house using up gas, spending time with her you could be using more productively) so if shes not worth it dont bother
by high investment i dont mean betabux btw i mean like take her on dates regularly like once a month not every day or week (if the date is necessary for her to like you then its no different from betabuxxing)
Good ROI:
- stacy but high investment (dates every month or so, 20 minutes away, medium to high effort)
- htb but average investment (occasional dates, low to mid effort)
- ltb but almost no investment (no more than 5 minutes away, low or no effort, doesnt expect dates)
Bad ROI:
htb with very high investment (Driving a hour to see her, high effort or very low interest in you, expects dates daily)
Ltb with high investment (driving 30 minutes to see her, have to put in lots of effort, expects constant dates)
Now this is just my standard some people think the htb and ltb in this scenario are still good investments but remember if you want a ltr the investment has to be consistent. Will you constnatly be tsking her on dates forever?? Will you constantly have the energy to send her 10 good morning texts to keep her??? If not dont even bother
Additional signs of low quality:
- high bodies (8+ but i go for 0-3)
- depressed
- gets drunk constantly
- fat (no shit)
So yea its pretty simple. You dont have to ghost every woman who you can tell is low interest or is a bad choice but you can just put them into the fuck only zone and not take them seriously like i do. 99% of the girls i talk to i dont rlly care about. If they become too much investment i just fully ghost