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lblamemyse1f

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People nowdays really try to be someone who they are not, often chasing false expectations. I might get flamed here, since this forum is all about blackpill and shit. But i dont believe in it, nor do i believe in hypergamy, or in alot of claims users claim, and its all because when you think of it: does it really matter? Look at couples in 1960 or before. Short men with tall women, beautiful women with ugly men, all sorts of things that you all would consider impossible, if you plan to reply with "but that was in 1960!" Yes and nothing has changed since then. Social media has influenced your brain to believe that it should not be like that, that it is not normal. The truth is that besides whats said on social media does not resemble what happens in real life. Insecure people put others down on there to feel better about themselves same goes with women or men hating on shorter men, or men hating on uglier men. IT IS ALL FROM THEIR OWN INSECURITYS. Thats why no! Its not over because you are 5'5, or considered unatractive by most. Everyone are capable of finding love if you believe in it. We see it everyday but our ignorance makes us think its still impossible?? Every human is kind from birth? but not everyone is kind because society has made us think we cant be kind or whatever, or that its soo tuff to be mean or whatever, be your self man, be a kind, caring person and never give up on something you want, everything is possible for you reader.

Idk if i just yapped nonsense im not going to read this after typing all this out, if you read this far i hope my thread made you think.
 
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ill never get my wasted 15 seconds back :feelswhy:
 
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Dnr
 
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I see you are post farming, its useless bro. No one will respect you even if your post count is high when your reps are fucked.
 
This has reached low iq mfs, i hope someone smart finds this thread
 
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Much much easier said than done tbh.

I think most people chasing to "be themselves" just end up chasing the idealized parody of their own character rather than genuinely letting go

Speaking for myself btw but assuming it applies to most
 
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Much much easier said than done tbh.

I think most people chasing to "be themselves" just end up chasing the idealized parody of their own character rather than genuinely letting go

Speaking for myself btw but assuming it applies to most
Honestly its easy. For me i just woke up one day and realised how shitty of a person i am, since that day alot of people liked me more, i became nicer, my confidence returned, life is great. I became someone i was meant to always be but never found until the day i did.
 
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dnr + no being you for your face
 
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Honestly its easy. For me i just woke up one day and realised how shitty of a person i am, since that day alot of people liked me more, i became nicer, my confidence returned, life is great. I became someone i was meant to always be but never found until the day i did.
What exactly did you change? To me it sounds like you started treating others better
 
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But i dont believe in it, nor do i believe in hypergamy
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What exactly did you change? To me it sounds like you started treating others better
My perspective on life. Its complicated to explain, it seems so small, but yet its such a big impact for me. Treating others better is just the small part of being kinder and being who you actually are.
 
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My perspective on life. Its complicated to explain, it seems so small, but yet its such a big impact for me. Treating others better is just the small part of being kinder and being who you actually are.
Hoping to learn that tbh
 
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Hoping to learn that tbh
What helped me reach it most is stepping out of my comfort zone. Basically just some small talk with others, smiling at someone random, giving out some compliments, the feeling when you make someones whole day is amazing and you never want to go back.
 
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What helped me reach it most is stepping out of my comfort zone. Basically just some small talk with others, smiling at someone random, giving out some compliments, the feeling when you make someones whole day is amazing and you never want to go back.
True. That shit can really light up your day.

Thanks for reminding me tbh
 
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True. That shit can really light up your day.

Thanks for reminding me tbh
No worries man, i wish and hope the best for you and the man you will become in the following years, even tho i dont know you, i am proud of you.
 
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People nowdays really try to be someone who they are not, often chasing false expectations. I might get flamed here, since this forum is all about blackpill and shit. But i dont believe in it, nor do i believe in hypergamy, or in alot of claims users claim, and its all because when you think of it: does it really matter? Look at couples in 1960 or before. Short men with tall women, beautiful women with ugly men, all sorts of things that you all would consider impossible, if you plan to reply with "but that was in 1960!" Yes and nothing has changed since then. Social media has influenced your brain to believe that it should not be like that, that it is not normal. The truth is that besides whats said on social media does not resemble what happens in real life. Insecure people put others down on there to feel better about themselves same goes with women or men hating on shorter men, or men hating on uglier men. IT IS ALL FROM THEIR OWN INSECURITYS. Thats why no! Its not over because you are 5'5, or considered unatractive by most. Everyone are capable of finding love if you believe in it. We see it everyday but our ignorance makes us think its still impossible?? Every human is kind from birth? but not everyone is kind because society has made us think we cant be kind or whatever, or that its soo tuff to be mean or whatever, be your self man, be a kind, caring person and never give up on something you want, everything is possible for you reader.

Idk if i just yapped nonsense im not going to read this after typing all this out, if you read this far i hope my thread made you think.
i love doing what i like, it took me a while to stop shaping myself to fit in

the internet really ruined a lot of peoples mindsets and if half the people on on org just went outside more they would be a lot happier

it is what it is though
 
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People nowdays really try to be someone who they are not, often chasing false expectations. I might get flamed here, since this forum is all about blackpill and shit. But i dont believe in it, nor do i believe in hypergamy, or in alot of claims users claim, and its all because when you think of it: does it really matter? Look at couples in 1960 or before. Short men with tall women, beautiful women with ugly men, all sorts of things that you all would consider impossible, if you plan to reply with "but that was in 1960!" Yes and nothing has changed since then. Social media has influenced your brain to believe that it should not be like that, that it is not normal. The truth is that besides whats said on social media does not resemble what happens in real life. Insecure people put others down on there to feel better about themselves same goes with women or men hating on shorter men, or men hating on uglier men. IT IS ALL FROM THEIR OWN INSECURITYS. Thats why no! Its not over because you are 5'5, or considered unatractive by most. Everyone are capable of finding love if you believe in it. We see it everyday but our ignorance makes us think its still impossible?? Every human is kind from birth? but not everyone is kind because society has made us think we cant be kind or whatever, or that its soo tuff to be mean or whatever, be your self man, be a kind, caring person and never give up on something you want, everything is possible for you reader.

Idk if i just yapped nonsense im not going to read this after typing all this out, if you read this far i hope my thread made you think.
Oh boy.

Yeah come back when you've read studies done on the stuff you're blatantly denying, dating stats, cross demographic beauty standards and phenotypical correlations, and golden rule ratios but yeah it's all fake because you said so
 

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