Embracing your insecurities will free you

[Bitchwhipper2]

Trying to hide only gives more power to it

 

[DaddyCain]

Trying to hide only gives more power to it

It's not as easy as if you're going to forget it until someone reminds you again. I suggest plastic surgery if something is severe.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

just gives people more of a reason to make fun of you

 

[LTNUser]

just gives people more of a reason to make fun of you

Brutal but true

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Destroying Brazil will free me

 

[Sean o' Tist]

Yes, but that doesnt necessarily mean you will have better life

 

[qazw]

Trying to hide only gives more power to it

 

[n9wiff]

This is very legit.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

It's not as easy as if you're going to forget it until someone reminds you again. I suggest plastic surgery if something is severe.

I dont understand how you can be insecure over something always on full display.

Its the truth

Yes, but that doesnt necessarily mean you will have better life

Means you will have a more stable self esteem

just gives people more of a reason to make fun of you

What insecurities have you been made fun of for?

 

[fuxkdakikez]

What insecurities have you been made fun of for?

none because i don’t embrace them

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

none because i don’t embrace them

What are you insecurities? if youre comfortable sharing (rep me nigga)

 

[qazw]

Its the truth

Okay so let's say that you are a 5"2 balding indian janitor living in Australia. Embracing your terrible genes is not going to save you. This is bluepilled cope and only makes sense if you are MTN+ with minor insecurities

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Okay so let's say that you are a 5"2 balding indian janitor living in Australia. Embracing your terrible genes is not going to save you.

The contrary being?

This is bluepilled cope and only makes sense if you are MTN+ with minor insecurities

Makes sense for everyone

 

[fuxkdakikez]

What are you insecurities? if youre comfortable sharing (rep me nigga)

everything

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

everything

So that means you literally dont leave your home without covering everything up?

 

[wdnmd]

Trying to hide only gives more power to it

I 100% agree with this. If you're hiding said thing, it'll forever stay in the back of your mind and your insecurities are gonna snowball fairly quickly.

It's not as easy as if you're going to forget it until someone reminds you again. I suggest plastic surgery if something is severe.

Then that's a you-problem. If someone else's comment on your appearance is going to affect you this much, then are you really confident and comfortable in your skin? You should come to the point where other people's opinions don't matter to you as long as you're happy with yourself. There's no need to complain about certain aspects in your life if you can be grateful and thankful for being healthy.

just gives people more of a reason to make fun of you

Same thing here, if you've come to terms with the things you have then nothing like that will have an effect on you. Not saying that you shouldn't improve certain things if that can possibly improve your appearance and health though

 

[fuxkdakikez]

So that means you literally dont leave your home without covering everything up?

i don’t do that tbh maybe i do embrace my insecurities

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

I 100% agree with this. If you're hiding said thing, it'll forever stay in the back of your mind and your insecurities are gonna snowball fairly quickly.

Exactly this. Ive noticed with myself that im only insecure about the things which arent on full display all the time.

Things I can fraud or cover up fester

 

[wdnmd]

Okay so let's say that you are a 5"2 balding indian janitor living in Australia. Embracing your terrible genes is not going to save you. This is bluepilled cope and only makes sense if you are MTN+ with minor insecurities

This is exactly why one should take care of themselves and their appearance though. This may sound contradictory to my earlier comment, but if you have room for improvement then you should absolutely take that chance to make a change for the better. Other aspects such as minor insecurities that you physically cannot change about yourself should be embraced though. You should love yourself regardless of your looks, only then you can be happy and confident in life and what's better than that? Rather than complaining all day, how about being grateful for being healthy and well, there's lots of people who can't walk, talk, see, hear and do whatever it is that you are capable of. If you're thankful for what you have then you'll receive more, because that's the energy you're giving out to the world and the same energy that will be returned to you

 

[qazw]

This is exactly why one should take care of themselves and their appearance though. This may sound contradictory to my earlier comment, but if you have room for improvement then you should absolutely take that chance to make a change for the better. Other aspects such as minor insecurities that you physically cannot change about yourself should be embraced though. You should love yourself regardless of your looks, only then you can be happy and confident in life and what's better than that? Rather than complaining all day, how about being grateful for being healthy and well, there's lots of people who can't walk, talk, see, hear and do whatever it is that you are capable of. If you're thankful for what you have then you'll receive more, because that's the energy you're giving out to the world and the same energy that will be returned to you

You missed my point. The point was that a lot of people have insecurities that they can't fix and are due to bad genetics. For example, one of my biggest insecurities is being short as I am only 5"8. I get bullied and belittled for it and what am I supposed to do? Embrace the fact I am short? How would that change anything? That's not going to make my life any better, I'm still going to get bullied and belittled. The only thing I can do is move to another country where the average height is lower, which I am planning to do.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

You missed my point. The point was that a lot of people have insecurities that they can't fix and are due to bad genetics. For example, one of my biggest insecurities is being short as I am only 5"8.

Im 5'9 in sweden any literally no one makes fun of me for my height. Theres probably more going on

I get bullied and belittled for it and what am I supposed to do? Embrace the fact I am short? How would that change anything?

What else are you supposed to do? Wallow in self pity?

That's not going to make my life any better, I'm still going to get bullied and belittled. The only thing I can do is move to another country where the average height is lower, which I am planning to do.

The belittling has only the power you give it

 

[wdnmd]

You missed my point. The point was that a lot of people have insecurities that they can't fix and are due to bad genetics. For example, one of my biggest insecurities is being short as I am only 5"8. I get bullied and belittled for it and what am I supposed to do? Embrace the fact I am short? How would that change anything? That's not going to make my life any better, I'm still going to get bullied and belittled. The only thing I can do is move to another country where the average height is lower, which I am planning to do.

As beautifully said from Bitchwhipper2, it only has the power you give it. I've posted about one's height in a different thread earlier today and I will say the same thing to you, there's nothing wrong with being short. And frankly, you're not even short, like at all?? Firstly, embracing your height will only deepen your self love and confidence. If you're this deeply affected by what other people say and think about your height then you've got lots of self-reflection to do buddy. Running away from your problems, such as moving to a different country, is not going to help you out in the slightest. You'll only carry that burden with you, whereas if you were to be thankful for your height then you wouldn't be put in that situation at all. Trust me, you'll be much happier in life if you can come to terms with what you cannot change about yourself. Your height is not a flaw, it is a beautiful part of you and you're definitely not on the short side. Height for men has truly become like big boobs and ass for women. Nothing wrong with not fitting the current beauty standards that other people are fond of, I personally prefer flat girls who are happy and healthy over curvy ones who radiate insecurity. The same goes for women, they'd rather date happy and confident "short men" than cocky taller men. In fact, no confidence is a huge red flag and an ick for most if not, all girls.
Tldr: Don't put so much negative energy towards your height, it'll attract people who match that energy, and who will therefore also be negative about your height :')

 

[qazw]

As beautifully said from Bitchwhipper2, it only has the power you give it. I've posted about one's height in a different thread earlier today and I will say the same thing to you, there's nothing wrong with being short. And frankly, you're not even short, like at all?? Firstly, embracing your height will only deepen your self love and confidence. If you're this deeply affected by what other people say and think about your height then you've got lots of self-reflection to do buddy. Running away from your problems, such as moving to a different country, is not going to help you out in the slightest. You'll only carry that burden with you, whereas if you were to be thankful for your height then you wouldn't be put in that situation at all. Trust me, you'll be much happier in life if you can come to terms with what you cannot change about yourself. Your height is not a flaw, it is a beautiful part of you and you're definitely not on the short side. Height for men has truly become like big boobs and ass for women. Nothing wrong with not fitting the current beauty standards that other people are fond of, I personally prefer flat girls who are happy and healthy over curvy ones who radiate insecurity. The same goes for women, they'd rather date happy and confident "short men" than cocky taller men. In fact, no confidence is a huge red flag and an ick for most if not, all girls.
Tldr: Don't put so much negative energy towards your height, it'll attract people who match that energy, and who will therefore also be negative about your height :')

You are very naive and bluepilled. I don’t even understand how you found this forum. If you are a woman who joined to try to make us cheer up, its not going to work. I’d recommend you learn more about the blackpill and the many studies that prove it.

Lookism is a fundamental flaw of human nature. People judge you by your looks and base their opinion of you mainly around your looks. The majority of your looks is determined through genetics and everyone has a looks cap. Your looks determine your standing in society. Better looking people will find it easier to make friends, get a partner and get promotions at work. Being ugly is living life on hard mode.

I’m capped at LTN because I’m short and have a recessed jaw. I know my place in society because of how I am treated, I have no friends and people treat me like shit.

I know that I have no chance of getting a promotion at work and that if I make mistakes then they won’t be forgiving. I’ve seen more attractive coworkers get away with many unacceptable things like always showing up late, yet they are more respected than me and are at a higher position despite joining after me. So I mostly stay quiet around others because I know that if I speak too much, I will be deemed annoying or get in trouble for saying the wrong thing.

Maybe you’ve never felt this in your life because you are decent looking but that doesn’t mean your life is the same as uglier people’s.

 

[Bomber517]

"Insecurity" doesn't make sense. You're just aware of your genes and that's all.

 

[wdnmd]

You are very naive and bluepilled. I don’t even understand how you found this forum. If you are a woman who joined to try to make us cheer up, its not going to work. I’d recommend you learn more about the blackpill and the many studies that prove it.

Lookism is a fundamental flaw of human nature. People judge you by your looks and base their opinion of you mainly around your looks. The majority of your looks is determined through genetics and everyone has a looks cap. Your looks determine your standing in society. Better looking people will find it easier to make friends, get a partner and get promotions at work. Being ugly is living life on hard mode.

I’m capped at LTN because I’m short and have a recessed jaw. I know my place in society because of how I am treated, I have no friends and people treat me like shit.

I know that I have no chance of getting a promotion at work and that if I make mistakes then they won’t be forgiving. I’ve seen more attractive coworkers get away with many unacceptable things like always showing up late, yet they are more respected than me and are at a higher position despite joining after me. So I mostly stay quiet around others because I know that if I speak too much, I will be deemed annoying or get in trouble for saying the wrong thing.

Maybe you’ve never felt this in your life because you are decent looking but that doesn’t mean your life is the same as uglier people’s.

Firstly, I think it's absurd that everyone here keeps speculating that I'm a woman, only because I'm mentally stable and literate compared to the majority here. I defend women and don't use slurs whatsoever, perhaps something as normal as that makes a man less worthy in the eyes of fucking incels. You guys hate women yet want them so bad, I wonder why that is. Imagine trying to get something that you absolutely HATE and ask why you can't have it. I truly wonder why.

I went a lil off topic here, so let's get to the point, lookism is a thing, I'll give you that. But that shouldn't take away from the fact that you need to stand up for yourself and give yourself some love. So what if people treat you like shit? Doesn't that motivate you to prove them wrong? If you're born ugly then you still have the power to change that. Nothing is impossible as long as you put in the effort. It's all about your mindset.

Another thing to note is that I've been lurking here for quite some time and decided to create an account, yes. As man I'm deeply ashamed to see that it's gotten like this

 

[sportsmogger]

I 100% agree with this. If you're hiding said thing, it'll forever stay in the back of your mind and your insecurities are gonna snowball fairly quickly.


Then that's a you-problem. If someone else's comment on your appearance is going to affect you this much, then are you really confident and comfortable in your skin? You should come to the point where other people's opinions don't matter to you as long as you're happy with yourself. There's no need to complain about certain aspects in your life if you can be grateful and thankful for being healthy.


Same thing here, if you've come to terms with the things you have then nothing like that will have an effect on you. Not saying that you shouldn't improve certain things if that can possibly improve your appearance and health though

 

[sportsmogger]

fixing insecurities should be ur priority

 

[qazw]

Firstly, I think it's absurd that everyone here keeps speculating that I'm a woman, only because I'm mentally stable and literate compared to the majority here. I defend women and don't use slurs whatsoever, perhaps something as normal as that makes a man less worthy in the eyes of fucking incels. You guys hate women yet want them so bad, I wonder why that is. Imagine trying to get something that you absolutely HATE and ask why you can't have it. I truly wonder why.

I went a lil off topic here, so let's get to the point, lookism is a thing, I'll give you that. But that shouldn't take away from the fact that you need to stand up for yourself and give yourself some love. So what if people treat you like shit? Doesn't that motivate you to prove them wrong? If you're born ugly then you still have the power to change that. Nothing is impossible as long as you put in the effort. It's all about your mindset.

Another thing to note is that I've been lurking here for quite some time and decided to create an account, yes. As man I'm deeply ashamed to see that it's gotten like this

I’m not an incel, I have a girlfriend. I don’t hate women, I only hate on degeneracy. And I didn’t use any slurs.

I like using this forum because it is an open space to discuss the harsh reality of human nature rather than believing whatever propaganda or emotions tell us.

Why are you attacking me? Did you assume all that because I told you what my insecurities were? Does that not prove my point about lookism?

 

[wdnmd]

I’m not an incel, I have a girlfriend. I don’t hate women, I only hate on degeneracy. And I didn’t use any slurs.

I like using this forum because it is an open space to discuss the harsh reality of human nature rather than believing whatever propaganda or emotions tell us.

Why are you attacking me? Did you assume all that because I told you what my insecurities were? Does that not prove my point about lookism?

Nah man, good for you. You most probably haven't noticed but there's lots of ppl calling me a woman and whatnot. I may have reflected this in the message directed towards you, woopsi :3

You're right about this site not sugar-coating life for us though, it's why I skim here every now and then. Also the last part isn't true, I kind of went along thinking that almost everyone here's the same yk, an incel and whatnot. It's not linked to your insecurities whatsoever, so nah it doesn't prove your point about lookism here at all.