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Men really need to stop romanticizing sex.
Women are very rational about sex, and men must become so too.
All sex is transactional. All sex happens for a reason. Now that it's only women who make the decision who fucks them- not their parents, not a man (Rape in past), not economic desperation.....you have to understand all the reasons sex will happen for you, and the reasons for why it likely won't....then take totally realistic action.
If you don't do this, you will drift into non-NT fantasy world, and then you basically are a lost cause- 99% of the time you won't come back. These guys become lifelong incels or not far off that.
If you want to be in the game constantly, you have to ALWAYS be in touch with reality- of the dating market, how hard it is etc, of your own realistic value. Of what you would have to do to get laid in your environment, and if the environment is even worth it, and of how you can increase your chances.
This goes back to the very first essay I wrote almost a year ago:
looksmax.org
This is what I was trying to say, but it took me many months of delusion to say.
Just stop romanticizing sex. You MUST feel the pain of your sexless situation, sit in it, and not just sit in melancholy, but very carefully analyze the reasons why- and what it would actually take for you to change.
If you NEED to geomaxx but you stay in the country for your family or fellow citizens, you WILL grow to resent them, and resent yourself.
This ascension of life is possible for basically all of you within 6 months, but it takes seeing this reality daily. If you're someone who has been in rationalization for years (like me), you need to come back to reality 3-4 times a day, and then adjust your behaviours accordingly. Most of the time, what you were planning to do for the rest of the day was not what you now know you need to do, after reconnecting to reality.
For more on this, read 50 Cent's and Robert Greene's book "The 50th Law". I read it in 2010 and was too immature to understand it. Now it makes perfect sense.
Pure pragmatism- seeing the entire reality for how it is...not as a melancholy rotter, but as an opportunist, as a hustler who sees and takes their options...for life, no matter the situation they're in.
This is how you remain NT, connected to things and people outside of you, and relevant. This is how you stay a man and a warrior.
This is also how you will start to do more, start to squeeze more into your day. You can literally do so much. You (and I) will hopefully start to move at a fast momentum, just doing all this shit that elevates and ascends you. Then you get further and further connected to reality, then you will start to see more opportunities, open yourself up more and more to the world.
To be a man is to constantly hone yourself, reinvent yourself, according to reality. If you don't do this, you will feel out of touch, despondent and helpless, and no cope will quell the pain.
Women are very rational about sex, and men must become so too.
All sex is transactional. All sex happens for a reason. Now that it's only women who make the decision who fucks them- not their parents, not a man (Rape in past), not economic desperation.....you have to understand all the reasons sex will happen for you, and the reasons for why it likely won't....then take totally realistic action.
If you don't do this, you will drift into non-NT fantasy world, and then you basically are a lost cause- 99% of the time you won't come back. These guys become lifelong incels or not far off that.
If you want to be in the game constantly, you have to ALWAYS be in touch with reality- of the dating market, how hard it is etc, of your own realistic value. Of what you would have to do to get laid in your environment, and if the environment is even worth it, and of how you can increase your chances.
This goes back to the very first essay I wrote almost a year ago:
Essay 1: All a woman expects of you is to be a Warrior.
Guys think they need to be at least 5’10, have a 6/10 face, have hair, a dick over six inches, and not have certain phenotypes. They think women will hate them if they don’t have these qualities. While some women may not be crazy about those men, the truth is there is only ONE thing a woman...
looksmax.org
This is what I was trying to say, but it took me many months of delusion to say.
Just stop romanticizing sex. You MUST feel the pain of your sexless situation, sit in it, and not just sit in melancholy, but very carefully analyze the reasons why- and what it would actually take for you to change.
If you NEED to geomaxx but you stay in the country for your family or fellow citizens, you WILL grow to resent them, and resent yourself.
This ascension of life is possible for basically all of you within 6 months, but it takes seeing this reality daily. If you're someone who has been in rationalization for years (like me), you need to come back to reality 3-4 times a day, and then adjust your behaviours accordingly. Most of the time, what you were planning to do for the rest of the day was not what you now know you need to do, after reconnecting to reality.
For more on this, read 50 Cent's and Robert Greene's book "The 50th Law". I read it in 2010 and was too immature to understand it. Now it makes perfect sense.
Pure pragmatism- seeing the entire reality for how it is...not as a melancholy rotter, but as an opportunist, as a hustler who sees and takes their options...for life, no matter the situation they're in.
This is how you remain NT, connected to things and people outside of you, and relevant. This is how you stay a man and a warrior.
This is also how you will start to do more, start to squeeze more into your day. You can literally do so much. You (and I) will hopefully start to move at a fast momentum, just doing all this shit that elevates and ascends you. Then you get further and further connected to reality, then you will start to see more opportunities, open yourself up more and more to the world.
To be a man is to constantly hone yourself, reinvent yourself, according to reality. If you don't do this, you will feel out of touch, despondent and helpless, and no cope will quell the pain.
