ferbite666
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I want to start of with the most important tip first: Talking/acting like your half awake 247 (body language, speech, mannerisms)
I’ve heard this tip from Zherka before and this is prob the most underrated advice ever.
Especially since growing up, despite being MTN, I had a pretty nerdy voice + would talk fast (almost in a Michael Sartain kind of way) and noticed that a lot of people (men & women) would have low attention spans when talking to me and wouldn’t really gaf ab what I had to say often.
But then I started analyzing super NT crackers that got all the pussy and realized that pretty much all of them would do the following:
-Talk like their half awake
-Always kept their answers short, brief, and low effort
-Parroted zoomer and nigger slang often
-Only talked about NT topics like sports, hip hop, referenced whatever memes were popular at that moment, etc
And I also noticed having too much knowledge in any subject (outside of sports) and trying to debate with it also comes off as too try hard and non NT. Esp if it’s politics, religion, anime, dating (jfl), etc.
Having mid-surface knowledge in many NT topics is ideal as well as having a neutral popular opinion or (Ideally) an opinion that’s controversial enough to make you look ballsy and low inhib but not controversial enough to make you Non NT. Finding this balance is difficult without years of social calibration and experience being NT tbh.
But for me personally this is the advice that really helped me become NT. And FYI for the niggas have a good looks base, when it comes to your personality type your better off just looksmaxxing to HTN+ and then going the route of just being the guy is a good listener and is genuinely cares/takes interest in ppl. This is by far the easiest path to becoming a “charming dude” and works best when ur HTN+ and gymaxxed since most people will automatically respect you when you’re HTN+ and gymaxxed and you don’t need to worry passing endless shit tests and constantly giving out shit tests to other men to get respect.
You can just be a nice humble dude who provides value and coast well socially with that. Ideal social life tbh, I remember when I was a manlet in high school I had to constantly play the shit test game and jestermaxx to get any respect. A little shit testing a male banter is fun but constant shit testing gets annoying af.
But that’s all I got for now. If any other NT niggas w experience got wisdom or shit to add plz drop it below
I’ve heard this tip from Zherka before and this is prob the most underrated advice ever.
Especially since growing up, despite being MTN, I had a pretty nerdy voice + would talk fast (almost in a Michael Sartain kind of way) and noticed that a lot of people (men & women) would have low attention spans when talking to me and wouldn’t really gaf ab what I had to say often.
But then I started analyzing super NT crackers that got all the pussy and realized that pretty much all of them would do the following:
-Talk like their half awake
-Always kept their answers short, brief, and low effort
-Parroted zoomer and nigger slang often
-Only talked about NT topics like sports, hip hop, referenced whatever memes were popular at that moment, etc
And I also noticed having too much knowledge in any subject (outside of sports) and trying to debate with it also comes off as too try hard and non NT. Esp if it’s politics, religion, anime, dating (jfl), etc.
Having mid-surface knowledge in many NT topics is ideal as well as having a neutral popular opinion or (Ideally) an opinion that’s controversial enough to make you look ballsy and low inhib but not controversial enough to make you Non NT. Finding this balance is difficult without years of social calibration and experience being NT tbh.
But for me personally this is the advice that really helped me become NT. And FYI for the niggas have a good looks base, when it comes to your personality type your better off just looksmaxxing to HTN+ and then going the route of just being the guy is a good listener and is genuinely cares/takes interest in ppl. This is by far the easiest path to becoming a “charming dude” and works best when ur HTN+ and gymaxxed since most people will automatically respect you when you’re HTN+ and gymaxxed and you don’t need to worry passing endless shit tests and constantly giving out shit tests to other men to get respect.
You can just be a nice humble dude who provides value and coast well socially with that. Ideal social life tbh, I remember when I was a manlet in high school I had to constantly play the shit test game and jestermaxx to get any respect. A little shit testing a male banter is fun but constant shit testing gets annoying af.
But that’s all I got for now. If any other NT niggas w experience got wisdom or shit to add plz drop it below
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