Even If You Improve, the Past Still Haunts You

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People always say, "Just improve yourself," as if changing your looks or ascending magically erases years of rejection and mockery.

But the brain doesn’t work that way. The things people said to you when you were at your lowest—the insults, the dismissals, the way they looked at you like you were nothing—those moments don’t just disappear especially if fostered in youth.

Your brain remembers everything. The smallest details. That one girl who laughed when you tried to talk to her. The way people ignored you like you were invisible. Even if you somehow "ascend" and become better looking, more confident, or more social, those memories don’t just fade.

You’ll always have that deep-rooted understanding that at one point, you were seen as undesirable, a joke, or someone unworthy of love. This will lead you to you be nasty without trying or being "off."

Even if you find a girl you love, you'll eventually ruin everything. You will never truly ascend to Chad in looks, so your personality matters more than ever as an ascended guy.
 
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How are you that ugly to begin with lmao
 
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I can't fucking get rid of my traumas. I'm fucked up mentally even though i ascended a lot
 
i mean, thats scientifically wrong

positive experiences in similar situations can literally overwrite bad experiences and change our emotions towards these situations

literally how exposition therapy works
 
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Abused dog syndrome is real
 
i mean, thats scientifically wrong

positive experiences in similar situations can literally overwrite bad experiences and change our emotions towards these situations

literally how exposition therapy works
exactly,
the coping of some users on this forum is crazy
 
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I can't fucking get rid of my traumas. I'm fucked up mentally even though i ascended a lot
Exactly even if improved my looks I'd still be a bitter asshole due to people in my youth.

I still have ptsd from getting stomped on the head in highschool and my oneitis' brutal remarks.
 
it gets even harder after 25-30 when you lose a lot of brain plasticity
 
Exactly even if improved my looks I'd still be a bitter asshole due to people in my youth.

I still have ptsd from getting stomped on the head in highschool and my oneitis' brutal remarks.
Dm me
 
i mean, thats scientifically wrong

positive experiences in similar situations can literally overwrite bad experiences and change our emotions towards these situations

literally how exposition therapy works
Wrong the brain if treated this way as a child it's over as you're brain is in its lowest.

As a adult the brain is stable hence lacks the flexibility.
 
nigga is on a forum called LOOKSmax asking how someone is ugly. :feelsuhh:
lmao you poor guys are not even sub5:lul::lul: its so over for you if you cant even have a normal life as a base
 
nigga is on a forum called LOOKSmax asking how someone is ugly. :feelsuhh:
looksMAXING implies that you're maximising you're looks, which means you already look good and are just going for perfection
 
Wrong the brain if treated this way as a child it's over as you're brain is in its lowest.

As a adult the brain is stable hence lacks the flexibility.
Neural plasticity is still a thing, even when older
 

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