MoggerGaston
Nobody mogs like Gaston
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Yet every day in the past, I was reminded that I am an incel.
It's like your mind sees/feels what it wants to see/feel.
When you think you are ugly, you seek confirmation for this belief.
The times where people treat you poorly, deeply impact you emotionally.
The times where people stare at you, you believe their stares are in disgust.
You are out in public, you feel ugly and unwelcome, yet this is not because of behavior of the people around you.
At the same time, all the good things happening to you, go largely unnoticed. They are filtered, moved to the background, they don't hit you emotionally.
Now recently I have been starting to think that I am in fact, attractive.
Everywhere I go now, I see confirmation for this.
Cashier girl smiling and staring at me, while I am taking my time to pay with my phone. Damn, it's a cute girl. Should I ask her out?
Shit-chatting at work, at some point a colleague says, directed towards me: 'look at this pretty boy over here enjoying his break'.(in a complimentary way)
I get little matches on dating apps, yet the very few matches I do get tend to be extremely attractive women who put effort into messaging me and are down to hang-out.
In the past I would focus on the fact I get no matches and see myself as subhuman.
Now I let this app rot in the background for weeks (no action on it), only to randomly match a stacy 3 weeks later who wants to hang-out with me.
I get no matches for weeks, yet I am matching+dating stacies from the app at the same time. How can I be ugly?
My mindset in life has changed, and it's now like I suddenly see social interactions in a totally different way.
Whenever I get disrespected, treated like shit, get no matches, this is still happening as frequently as before.
But now I disregard it. The person treating me like shit? jealous whore. No matches? jewed apps. Girls not approaching? They are too intimidated by my good looks.
It's all about the mindset.
And all the good experiences? Those are the only ones I think about.
Been talking to this girl for a week now, stacy asf. Recently she uploaded new photos on her dating-app whilst already talking and planning a date with me. In the past I would've thought: 'over for me, this woman is updating her dating profile to try and match a chad.'
Now I just think: 'oke lol whatever, I am still talking/dating a stacy. Is this going to be my wife? likely not. But why get so upset about it? Go on a date, have some fun. Doesn't work out? Oke cool, happens.
'Let's keep feeling amazing for the fact top-tier women want to spend time with you. why feel shit for her wanting to date other man?'
Mindset = Power.
It's like your mind sees/feels what it wants to see/feel.
When you think you are ugly, you seek confirmation for this belief.
The times where people treat you poorly, deeply impact you emotionally.
The times where people stare at you, you believe their stares are in disgust.
You are out in public, you feel ugly and unwelcome, yet this is not because of behavior of the people around you.
At the same time, all the good things happening to you, go largely unnoticed. They are filtered, moved to the background, they don't hit you emotionally.
Now recently I have been starting to think that I am in fact, attractive.
Everywhere I go now, I see confirmation for this.
Cashier girl smiling and staring at me, while I am taking my time to pay with my phone. Damn, it's a cute girl. Should I ask her out?
Shit-chatting at work, at some point a colleague says, directed towards me: 'look at this pretty boy over here enjoying his break'.(in a complimentary way)
I get little matches on dating apps, yet the very few matches I do get tend to be extremely attractive women who put effort into messaging me and are down to hang-out.
In the past I would focus on the fact I get no matches and see myself as subhuman.
Now I let this app rot in the background for weeks (no action on it), only to randomly match a stacy 3 weeks later who wants to hang-out with me.
I get no matches for weeks, yet I am matching+dating stacies from the app at the same time. How can I be ugly?
My mindset in life has changed, and it's now like I suddenly see social interactions in a totally different way.
Whenever I get disrespected, treated like shit, get no matches, this is still happening as frequently as before.
But now I disregard it. The person treating me like shit? jealous whore. No matches? jewed apps. Girls not approaching? They are too intimidated by my good looks.
It's all about the mindset.
And all the good experiences? Those are the only ones I think about.
Been talking to this girl for a week now, stacy asf. Recently she uploaded new photos on her dating-app whilst already talking and planning a date with me. In the past I would've thought: 'over for me, this woman is updating her dating profile to try and match a chad.'
Now I just think: 'oke lol whatever, I am still talking/dating a stacy. Is this going to be my wife? likely not. But why get so upset about it? Go on a date, have some fun. Doesn't work out? Oke cool, happens.
'Let's keep feeling amazing for the fact top-tier women want to spend time with you. why feel shit for her wanting to date other man?'
Mindset = Power.
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