Every girl i meet, i cant tell if im attracted to them or not. I have to stare at their face for many dates to figure it out

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Is that weird?

I just had a first date and my immediate reaction when meeting her was

'how can I immediately leave this date without it being giga brutal'

cos I didn't find her hot

But I just kept it going.

Then as we talked for a few hours.

The more I stared at her, the more I thought she looks really beautiful

So I just can't tell what is the truth.

I used to have this same problem in the past girls. I would have like 3 or 5 dates before I realized I'm not attracted to them

I have to stare at their face for a long time to figure out whether I like it or not

God this foid I just met i just want to kiss her lips and stare at her face in bed and touch her body and fuck her pussy so bad.

Are these thoughts about unsureness normal or no
 
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Uh if you wanna kiss her or anything just progress the dates gradually. You don’t need to overthink on a date.

If you’re that fucking cucked, and you just can’t help but stare a girl for a whole date either take a break from women, or just look at her forehead and think of something else. She prob won’t notice. Like your math homework, or the logistical state of the universe.

Or your math homework :feelshah:
 
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Is that weird?

I just had a first date and my immediate reaction when meeting her was

'how can I immediately leave this date without it being giga brutal'

cos I didn't find her hot

But I just kept it going.

Then as we talked for a few hours.

The more I stared at her, the more I thought she looks really beautiful

So I just can't tell what is the truth.

I used to have this same problem in the past girls. I would have like 3 or 5 dates before I realized I'm not attracted to them

I have to stare at their face for a long time to figure out whether I like it or not

God this foid I just met i just want to kiss her lips and stare at her face in bed and touch her body and fuck her pussy so bad.

Are these thoughts about unsureness normal or no
Madonna whore complex?
 
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Uh if you wanna kiss her or anything just progress the dates gradually. You don’t need to overthink on a date.

If you’re that fucking cucked, and you just can’t help but stare a girl for a whole date either take a break from women, or just look at her forehead and think of something else. She prob won’t notice. Like your math homework, or the logistical state of the universe.

Or your math homework :feelshah:
But my problem is I can spend an entire first date with someone and can't tell if I'm physically attracted to them yet or not
 
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kys and die if u have dates
 
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But my problem is I can spend an entire first date with someone and can't tell if I'm physically attracted to them yet or no
Use your own self-reasoning. Make the questions you ask simple, and efficient.

“Is she hot?”
“Is she fuckable?”
“Will I fuck her today, after this gathering?”

Ask questions like that in your head and you should generate or lose attraction for the girl pretty quickly. By the end of the date, you’ll have a decent guess on whether your interested in her or not.
 
Use your own self-reasoning. Make the questions you ask simple, and efficient.

“Is she hot?”
“Is she fuckable?”
“Will I fuck her today, after this gathering?”

Ask questions like that in your head and you should generate or lose attraction for the girl pretty quickly. By the end of the date, you’ll have a decent guess on whether your interested in her or not.
I'd fucj pretty much anything tho. But I care more about whether I would be proud to be seen with her in public with her every day
 
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Maybe u need glasses?

Also try to think whether u would enjoy eating her pussy after first glance
 
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Is that weird?

I just had a first date and my immediate reaction when meeting her was

'how can I immediately leave this date without it being giga brutal'

cos I didn't find her hot

But I just kept it going.

Then as we talked for a few hours.

The more I stared at her, the more I thought she looks really beautiful

So I just can't tell what is the truth.

I used to have this same problem in the past girls. I would have like 3 or 5 dates before I realized I'm not attracted to them

I have to stare at their face for a long time to figure out whether I like it or not

God this foid I just met i just want to kiss her lips and stare at her face in bed and touch her body and fuck her pussy so bad.

Are these thoughts about unsureness normal or no
yes, obviously thats weird... but who are we to judge? the majority of users here are no better brah, i my self have never even been on a date
 
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I have the same problem. I'll think a girl is attractive but then I'll notice her flaws and wonder if I need to up my standards. Maybe it's the bp making me analyse everybody's looks sm
 
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