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Title, here to just talk about
every friend that I have has a girlfriend.

Why am I talking about this? Well, recently
my friend saw me with a packet of cigarretes (not mines, its my friend)
I explained to him it wasnt mine and it was my friends, and he said
You start becoming the people you hang out with (they all smoke, drink and vape)
and I told him, yeah although what he is saying is true, It's a stupid thing because
Before i became religious i promised my Mom i wouldnt do any of that and
its just gives me stupid health problems and an addiction.

but back to the point he said, these past 2 weeks, have i been hanging with people that litereally all
have girlfriends, really nice one. Litereally in New year I was in a room with my 3 friends and they all had a girlfriend
and i just had a teddy bear beside me pretending it was my girl :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::lul::lul::lul:

But I was sitting there looking at all of them, both of them giving kisses there and theres
Both of them cuddling, hugging and looking at eachother, thats what made me sad inside.
''The eyes chico, the eyes dont lie'' :feelscry::feelscry:

But just imaging a girl looking at you face to face, no lust or anything like that. Just with pure interest
and cheer love. A girl that you also love back, you looking at her, nothing is on your mind exept her.
Only her is the only thing you want :feelsuhh::feelsuhh::feelsuhh::feelsuhh:

Now part of me wants to get a girlfriend, but yeah im not gonna get one because i get nervous around girls
that i like :feelscry::feelscry::feelscry::feelscry:


gonna write what i did on day before it became 2025!!!

(NOTE: I GET LOVE FROM BOTH OF MY PARENTS AND SIBLING)
((SO NO I DID NOT GET LOVE WHEN I GREW UP))
(((ITS THE OPPOSITE)))
 
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serious answer, please any advice??
and not like ''go slay and have sex as many you can''
or like ''go get girlfriend'' if you want to say it, atleast
give an explantiation why :feelscry:
 
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just don't get nervous idiot, it's that simple, im the same age as u and ltn and I've had a gf
 
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just don't get nervous idiot, it's that simple, im the same age as u and ltn and I've had a gf
Idk what to respond to this lol.
Like I can talk to girls I like :feelsuhh:
But its complicated :feelscry::feelscry::feelscry:
 
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Idk what to respond to this lol.
Like I can talk to girls I like :feelsuhh:
But its complicated :feelscry::feelscry::feelscry:
It's easy as shit I swear to God. Just talk to them like a normal human being, smile, be nice but not in a cucky way, and if they respond back properly, you can be friends, all girls have something sad going on in their lives so as a friend get closer to them and let them vent to you. Make sure to be there for them when everybody else isnt. And there you have it, a girlfriend.
 
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It's easy as shit I swear to God. Just talk to them like a normal human being, smile, be nice but not in a cucky way, and if they respond back properly, you can be friends, all girls have something sad going on in their lives so as a friend get closer to them and let them vent to you. Make sure to be there for them when everybody else isnt. And there you have it, a girlfriend.
No, bro litereally its not the talking part, its not any of that.
I know how to talk to a girl :lul:

its that sometimes if i eat for example then a girl i like comes my stomach hurts
then i have fear that ill vomit, i have vomitphobia, because of traumatic experience in 2020
well it was traumatic because it triggers everytime i eat i get full my stomach hurts and i think
im gonna vomit, because in 2020 when i liked a girl some stuff happened and i got to nervous
and vomitted so much within 2-3 months, making me overthink and get nervous about everything
so imagine 12 year old going through that, ive lived my life always being nervous and stomach hurting
then overthinking it. Its so weird and hard to explain what i am feeling, when im feeling it and people
just make fun of me or just tell me just dont be nervous and point and laugh :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:


im 16 turning 17 in 3 months, 12-13 year old me litereally said this feeling will go over as soon as i hit 16, this year has been the worst cases of this thing that ive been dealing with :forcedsmile::forcedsmile: just gonna get worse and worse, i need a therapy asap to solve this fucking issue :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
 
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serious answer, please any advice??
and not like ''go slay and have sex as many you can''
or like ''go get girlfriend'' if you want to say it, atleast
give an explantiation why :feelscry:
My advice is to hang out with other incels instead of sex having bragging normies.

Better for your mental health bud
 
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Women are all evil, why would you want one.
 
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No, bro litereally its not the talking part, its not any of that.
I know how to talk to a girl :lul:

its that sometimes if i eat for example then a girl i like comes my stomach hurts
then i have fear that ill vomit, i have vomitphobia, because of traumatic experience in 2020
well it was traumatic because it triggers everytime i eat i get full my stomach hurts and i think
im gonna vomit, because in 2020 when i liked a girl some stuff happened and i got to nervous
and vomitted so much within 2-3 months, making me overthink and get nervous about everything
so imagine 12 year old going through that, ive lived my life always being nervous and stomach hurting
then overthinking it. Its so weird and hard to explain what i am feeling, when im feeling it and people
just make fun of me or just tell me just dont be nervous and point and laugh :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:


im 16 turning 17 in 3 months, 12-13 year old me litereally said this feeling will go over as soon as i hit 16, this year has been the worst cases of this thing that ive been dealing with :forcedsmile::forcedsmile: just gonna get worse and worse, i need a therapy asap to solve this fucking issue :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
Why would you puke from eating wtf
 
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No, bro litereally its not the talking part, its not any of that.
I know how to talk to a girl :lul:

its that sometimes if i eat for example then a girl i like comes my stomach hurts
then i have fear that ill vomit, i have vomitphobia, because of traumatic experience in 2020
well it was traumatic because it triggers everytime i eat i get full my stomach hurts and i think
im gonna vomit, because in 2020 when i liked a girl some stuff happened and i got to nervous
and vomitted so much within 2-3 months, making me overthink and get nervous about everything
so imagine 12 year old going through that, ive lived my life always being nervous and stomach hurting
then overthinking it. Its so weird and hard to explain what i am feeling, when im feeling it and people
just make fun of me or just tell me just dont be nervous and point and laugh :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:


im 16 turning 17 in 3 months, 12-13 year old me litereally said this feeling will go over as soon as i hit 16, this year has been the worst cases of this thing that ive been dealing with :forcedsmile::forcedsmile: just gonna get worse and worse, i need a therapy asap to solve this fucking issue :forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
yeah I don't know man, I've never heard of vomitphobia before but you seem to be having vomitting as an anxiety induced reaction. Idk how to solve this.
 
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onb rn I wouldn't focus on dating fr, but that's just me
 
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exactly, thats who they're in relationships with. cant be in a relationship with a guy thats highly impulsive, refuses to be in a relationship, gets a bunch of pussy and isnt naive. you have to have someone to talk to / a wallet to drain, who is naive enough to just be home on his computer while you are in the club or wherever cheating. bro i worked in a casino, i talked to women i been around whores i can tell your guys brain is so gone. girls literally bring random guys ove the their bfs apartment to fuck them while bf isnt there. 18y old girls are getting fucked by 50y olds in the gym, all girls cheat on their bfs.

TLDR: boyfriends are just naive retards the girl can take advantage of
 
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Why would you puke from eating wtf
nono okay if i eat and my stomach is full and a girl i like comes i get nervous asf because
then i start overthinking which leads to anxiety attacks and u can vomit sometimes when
u get anxiety attacks, but thing is last time this happened was in 2020 april, but the thing is
It happened so much within february-april that it has left me with PTSD. So im scared asf to this
day :forcedsmile:
 
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nono okay if i eat and my stomach is full and a girl i like comes i get nervous asf because
then i start overthinking which leads to anxiety attacks and u can vomit sometimes when
u get anxiety attacks, but thing is last time this happened was in 2020 april, but the thing is
It happened so much within february-april that it has left me with PTSD. So im scared asf to this
day :forcedsmile:
Cucked trait tbh
 
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