disillusioned
Kraken
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In high-school, I noticed the phenomenon of girls, who were the same race as me, feign over Korean guys from k-pop and k-dramas. I noticed this as soon as one of my friends introduced out whole friend group to a group of girls from a different high-school (we went to an all-boys high-school, and the girls went to an all-girls high-school). I could talk about how badly most of them treated me and my friends, but that's not getting specific enough.
What I've noticed is that none of them ever talked about being romantically or sexually interested in black guys. It's either Asian men or White men on occasion. They fetishized Asian men to sickness. It was so draining to even interact with these girls cuz I always felt so odd about myself. What made matters worse is the constant misandry and how they hate men so much (but apparently not the cute Asian men they fantasize about). It's always what you'd expect too; black men are violent as they are hypermasculine and hypersexual, am I right?! That why I'm always so upset about the notion of misandry not being real or nor a big deal, as if it hasn't affected me. I guess I'm supposed to man up or sumn.
This is interesting, because it debunks 2 myths:
1. The notion that blacks are attractive because 'muh masculinity' and that black women prefer their own (most probably are just too ugly to date outside their race).
2. That Asians inherently have shit SMV. It's true that they have the disadvantage in overall looks, but they can still exploit certain niches like Kpop if they have the right looks.