Excessive worry about appearance is a telltale sign of anxiety and low self-esteem

[Ottoman Janissary]

After some point, obsessing over looks will have diminishing returns. Meaning that the advantage you gain by increasing your looks will be offset by the low self-esteem vibe you will give to others.

No girl wants a man that looks at his hairline 30 times per day in the mirror. That behavior is more repulsive than being bald

 

[6ft4]

I think about my maxilla 200 times per day

 

[Ottoman Janissary]

I think about my maxilla 200 times per day

me too

 

[Foreverbrad]

You learn to suppress the behaviour when interacting with others.

The deeper into this I get the more I understand what my anorexic ex was going through and why I couldn't really do anything to help her.

 

[Ottoman Janissary]

You learn to suppress the behaviour when interacting with others.

The deeper into this I get the more I understand what my anorexic ex was going through and why I couldn't really do anything to help her.

Shallow interactions yes. But the sooner someone gets to know you better, you will disappoint them. It may be fine for a girl to be insecure about looks, but for a male, it's not acceptable.